Some children prefer breastfeeding, and when moms decide to wean, it can be a real challenge. If your baby refuses the bottle, here are some small tips for moms facing this dilemma:
- Spend a whole day feeding your baby with a bottle. Make sure not to breastfeed or indulge your baby at least 2-3 hours before feeding. When your baby is hungry, offer the bottle. Initially, your baby may resist, but hunger will eventually prevail.
- Let a family member or caregiver feed the baby with the bottle. If the mom holds the baby and feeds, the baby may recognize the mom's scent and demand breastfeeding instead of accepting the bottle.
- Choose a bottle and nipple that are soft and natural, closely resembling the mother's breast. This helps the baby get accustomed to the bottle and enjoy using it more.
Warm the milk bottle. Many babies prefer slightly warmer milk than the usual temperature. However, warm the milk to a reasonable level to avoid any discomfortSome moms introduce formula along with the bottle, making it challenging for the baby to adapt to both changes simultaneously: a switch in milk and nipple. So, make changes one at a time. Use breast milk in the bottle to make it more acceptable for the baby and encourage sucking on the bottle nipple.Utilize musical toys or a TV to distract the baby's attention. Engaging the baby's focus with music or television will help them not notice the artificial nipple in their mouth and suck on it unconsciously.Some cases contradict the above suggestions, such as when a baby only accepts bottle feeding while nestled in familiar surroundings like the mother's embrace. Or there are babies who only take the bottle when the milk container is tilted or when they are held slightly upright for easier sucking.A two-week 'training' period for the baby to bottle-feed before the mother returns to work is sufficient for the baby to embrace this new skill. One note is to express breast milk and put it into the bottle to avoid wasting the mother's milk, making it easier for the baby to learn bottle feeding.Mothers should not rush babies to abruptly give up breastfeeding, but instead, they should have a specific plan and prepare essential tools to support the baby during this period, such as: baby bottles (preferably those with naturally soft nipples, such as Chicco bottles), breast pumps for mothers, and breast pads, among others.