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A letter overflowing with love from a mother is a precious lesson for all of us in parenting.
This is a letter to the adorable daughter, Truc Lam, from Kim Thoa, a young businesswoman. Let's read the words of love in this meaningful letter to her daughter. Have you ever written a letter to your daughter? Give it a try!
Dear beloved daughter!
This is a letter from a mother to her child, for the future when you grow up and read these lines, you will understand what I wrote. There are things I want you to always remember.
1. Be a person of ethics and kindness
Dear daughter, as you grow older, you'll see that life for you will change every day. This world is an opportunity for us to fight between good and evil within ourselves, and then we'll move towards a categorized world. You'll encounter many different stories, meet different kinds of people, and face various issues that you'll need to deal with. In those moments, if you explore, you'll find many solutions.
However, among them, you'll have to choose the most suitable way. Some ways you apply may bring short-term benefits, but in the long run, they won't last because they require ethics and kindness. So, in every situation, always live with ethics and kindness. You might have to breathe with it, digest with it, and never let it die.
The path of a person with ethics and kindness may be longer than usual, but it will bring you enduring values and contribute more to the community and society.
Kim Thoa and her daughter, Truc Lam.
2. Be a knowledgeable woman
I'm not saying you have to excel academically or necessarily have a university degree. But you must be a person with knowledge.
There's a saying: 'If we don't sow the seeds of knowledge when young, we won't have the shade of wisdom in old age.'
As a woman, it's not just about being beautiful; always equip yourself with the luggage of knowledge. Life is a battlefield, and knowledge is a powerful weapon to help you navigate it effectively. Knowledge not only expands your mind but also helps you overcome every challenge, quickly standing up after spectacular falls.
Those with knowledge will always find someone in need wherever they go. So, always strive to enrich yourself every day and regularly, becoming a knowledgeable woman.
3. Understand and share with your husband
We are Catholics; as you grow, you might choose a life of devotion or decide to marry a man you love. Whether you choose any path, Mom will always support and respect your decisions.
However, when you start a family, living with your husband, be an understanding and sharing wife.
As men, before marriage, they often send sweet messages and express love frequently, considering you as their number one. Yet, when living together, this intensity might decrease. It's not a reduction in their love but a result of their minds being occupied with family concerns, striving for a better home. During these times, don't demand the same level of attention as in the early days of love.
Especially, don't get upset or blame them for not understanding you or having to guess your thoughts. They are not so smart to read your mind, so be understanding and empathetic towards your husband.
Don't pressure your man to provide everything you need, as it not only burdens them but also makes them closed off and unwilling to share. Men, at times, are like children; they also need to be pampered by their women.
Don't just enjoy what they bring to you; remember, they need care too. Sometimes, what they express externally is exactly what they wish to receive. So, take time to care for your husband as well.
4. Always live as yourself
Remember, when we are born, each person has a unique fingerprint. In life, we are all unique. We have our own values, and no one is identical. Therefore, always be yourself in the way that feels most comfortable to you.
Don't chase after others' ways of living and thinking, and don't be overly concerned with their words. It doesn't make your life better; in fact, it can make you more miserable and susceptible to harm.
Everyone has their own life, and no one can live it for you, nor can anyone live your dreams. So, don't lose yourself over this or that, my dear.
5. Don't hastily give up
In life, you will face numerous challenges and sometimes devastating failures. But when faced with failure, don't quickly lose hope and give up.
Mom knows at that moment your mood may not be good, perhaps disappointed, bored, tired, and wanting to give up everything. But Mom advises you to calmly spend moments of silence, reflect, then identify the cause and find a solution. If you can't find it on your own, seek help from someone who can guide you to a solution.
6. The majority isn't always right
Apply your knowledge and cultivate critical thinking for a sharp intellect. Don't blindly follow the crowd, as the 'herd mentality' turns us into ants mindlessly running in a line without freedom, entirely bound.
Don't let yourself run after only to one day realize you've been living someone else's dream without questioning if it truly brings you happiness and aligns with your goals. Sometimes, the majority isn't necessarily right, my dear. Stay vigilant in every situation.
7. Spend time with those who truly contribute to the person you aspire to become
Time is precious. Never waste it on those who bring no value to you, always bringing negativity. Just invest your time with those who truly bring the values you aspire to embody, and make the most of your time by engaging in productive activities every day.
Despite being busy with her business, this mother still finds time to experience her daughter's childhood.
8. Work with a plan
No matter what you do, always set a specific plan for yourself from childhood to adulthood. This is a good habit to cultivate discipline, providing you with a more organized and systematic perspective. Working with a plan allows you to control your progress and adjust it more easily, paving the way for a smoother journey to success.
9. Don't make others responsible for your actions
You don't have to wait until you're 18 to take responsibility for your actions. From a young age, Mom hopes you've been cultivating a sense of responsibility for yourself and your endeavors. So, when you undertake anything, think thoroughly and make assumptions. Whatever the outcome, it's your decision, and you shouldn't blame anyone or force others to take responsibility for your choices.
Therefore, when you do anything, reflect deeply, make your assumptions, and regardless of the outcome, it's your decision, and you shouldn't blame anyone or expect others to take responsibility for you.
When you cultivate this, it will help you grow each day, and you'll feel braver than ever before.
10. Embrace prayer
Every day, when you wake up and before you sleep, take about 15 to 20 minutes to silently pray and thank God. Pray for your family, your country, and the world. Spending this time each day in prayer is also a time to deeply connect with God. It's a moment to reflect on all your actions, making them better. This habit ensures your soul remains peaceful and happy every day.
There are many things Mom wants to share with you, but the above are what Mom deems most important to convey for now. Wishing my beloved daughter a life full of vitality and love!
From your Mom.
Writing a letter to your daughter
Take a moment to write a letter to your daughter and give it to her at an appropriate time. Surely, she will be very happy and understand the love of her parents.
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