Celebrating the full moon and the cradle ceremony are two significant events in the cultural customs of the Vietnamese people. It brings forth much luck and health for the child, marking a crucial milestone in their development and growth.
1. The poetic invocation for the cradle ceremony
The poetic invocation for the cradle ceremony expresses the hopes and wishes of parents to the divine and ancestral spirits, seeking their blessings for the child's robust, intelligent, and fortunate life. Below is a commonly used poetic invocation for the cradle ceremony that you may find inspiring.
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Homage to the benevolent Buddha, Amitabha!
Homage to the compassionate Amitabha Buddha!
Salutations to the merciful Amitabha Buddha!
Homage to the Great Compassion Guanyin Bodhisattva
– I humbly pay respects to the First Celestial Goddess.
– I respectfully bow to the Second Celestial God.
– I offer my reverence to the Third Celestial Goddess.
– We humbly pay our respects to the Twelve Celestial Goddesses.
– We respectfully bow to the Thirty-Six Palace Celestial Goddesses.
Today is the day of the _____ month, _____ year.
As a couple, we joyfully announce the birth of our child, named ________.
We reside at: ________________________________.
On this auspicious day of full years (full moon, full month), we wholeheartedly present offerings before the honorable assembly, respectfully submitting our intentions:
With the blessings of the ten directions Buddhas, the holy sages, celestial beings, divine spirits, earth deities, ancestral spirits, both internal and external ancestors, our child is born, named ________, born on ________. Mother and child are healthy and well.
We humbly request the celestial beings and divine witnesses to preside over this ceremony, bearing witness to our sincere offerings. May they protect, nurture, and guide our child to grow swiftly, free from illness and disability, free from obstacles and limitless difficulties. May they bless our child with beauty, intelligence, brightness, a peaceful destiny, strength, and the enjoyment of prosperity. May our family be blessed with longevity, safety, and abundant goodness, with karma dispelled in all seasons.
With heartfelt sincerity, we offer our respects and seek witness to our sincerity.
Homage to the benevolent Amitabha Buddha!
Homage to the compassionate Amitabha Buddha!
Homage to the merciful Amitabha Buddha!
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Thoi Noi Ceremony
After completing the Thoi Noi ceremony for the baby, the father (or mother) folds their hands, bows three times in front of the altar, and after three weeks of incense, makes an offering. Then the family brings gold and silk for transformation. Remember to pour wine while it's transforming. For toys, keep them for the child to play with for good luck. This marks the completion of the ritual.
Additionally, you can perform a future career divination ritual for the baby, which is considered quite interesting during the ceremony. Family members prepare items such as scissors, combs, salt, thread, etc., for the baby to grasp. The future career of the baby is predicted based on the item they pick up. However, for the safety of the baby, sharp objects should be carefully wrapped in a bag or, ideally, not included at all.
2. Understanding the Thoi Noi Ceremony

What is the Thoi Noi ceremony?
Baby Naming Ceremony is essential for the Thoi Noi ritual, bringing luck and health to the beloved baby.
This article provides valuable information to help you prepare for a complete and simple Thoi Noi ceremony for your baby.
The Thoi Noi ceremony is the most important event for a baby's auspicious beginning that parents should undertake. It marks the transition from a small cradle to a larger bed after 12 months of age.
To prepare for this special day, a prayer is indispensable to express gratitude and wishes to the deities and ancestors for the well-being of the baby and the whole family.
3. Who are the 12 Mother Goddesses?

Baby Naming Ceremony Prayers
Tran Four Goddess: caretaker of childbirth (birth caretaker)
Ten Thousand Goddess: overseer of pregnancy (transition caretaker)
Lam Nine Goddess: guardian of conception (conception guardian)
Luu Seven Goddess: sculptor of the child's form, both male and female.
Lam First Goddess: guardian of prenatal care (prenatal care)
Ly Great Goddess: overseer of labor (transition caretaker)
Hua Great Goddess: overseer of blooming flowers and blossoms (birth support)
Cao Four Goddess: caretaker of postpartum confinement (post-birth care)
Tang Five Goddess: caretaker of newborn care (escort)
Ma Five Goddess: caretaker of carrying the baby (escort to death)
Truc Five Goddess: caretaker of child custody (child custody)
Nguyen Three Goddess: overseer and supervisor of childbirth.
Additionally, we need to express gratitude to those who will pass on future professions to the baby, including the three Virtuous Ancestors: Holy Teacher, Ancestral Teacher, and Celestial Teacher.
4. Important Notes about the Thoi Noi Ceremony
To have a comprehensive and accurate prayer, it's essential to fully understand the significance of the ritual. Therefore, the information below will be necessary for you to craft the most suitable prayer.

Baby Naming Ceremony Prayers
-Point 1: Our people always uphold the tradition of 'Remembering the source when drinking water.' In our traditional beliefs, the spiritual world provides protection and envelops humans. Hence, prayers to express gratitude to deities and ancestors are indispensable on significant occasions such as festivals, full moon ceremonies, and Thoi Noi ceremonies.
-Point 2: The Thoi Noi ceremony is not just a ritual to announce the new member turning one year old to the deities and ancestors. It is also a significant event in the child's life, marking the first year of growth and a clearer manifestation of the child's presence in the community.
-Point 3: Simultaneously, the Thoi Noi ceremony signifies that the infants have surpassed their first 12 months, entering into a healthy integration within the community. Parents joyfully celebrate and wish the best for their child, making this ceremony akin to organizing the baby's first birthday.
-Point 4: According to ancient beliefs, each child is created by 12 Mother Goddesses, each responsible for molding specific parts of the child to form a complete and harmonious whole. Therefore, parents perform the Thoi Noi ceremony to express gratitude to these goddesses for bringing the child into the home and aiding the mother in giving birth to a healthy baby.
