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'Can you believe it? When I got pregnant, he did a complete 180 in attitude. He said now that you're pregnant, just go back home and give birth, no need for marriage anymore. It's both costly and exhausting,' the girl recounted.
Even though pregnant, the groom's family is unwilling to marry decently. This situation makes many young girls immediately think that even if they get married, it will be difficult for them to live happily.
1. The story of a girl who accidentally gets pregnant and her boyfriend's attitude
2. Messages that would make anyone angry
The story of a girl who accidentally gets pregnant and her boyfriend's attitude
Recently, a young woman shared her love story. The story goes like this:
'We've been dating for 1 year, and during that time, I remained chaste. After we decided to get married, we then started having a relationship.
Over the past year, he always promised me that he would turn me into the most beautiful bride, take the most beautiful wedding photos, and pick me up in the most luxurious car. He promised a rosy future, an incredibly grand and picturesque scene.
'Can you believe it? When I got pregnant, he did a complete 180 in attitude. He said now that you're pregnant, just go back home and give birth, no need for marriage anymore. It's both costly and exhausting.'
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If I refused, he showed an attitude and started to become cold towards me, not texting or calling me all day. If I called, he would say one sentence and then hang up:
- Up to you.
- Do whatever you want.
Today, we had a big fight, and after hearing the story I posted below, I feel fed up and don't want to get married anymore.
Initially, my parents told me to endure for a place to stay. Then my mom read my mom's text saying, 'Stop it, if you're going to marry like this, it's better to stay as you are,' and my dad said wherever he meets him, he'll punch him there.
I'm posting a wake-up call for all sisters, don't be foolish to get pregnant too soon, and don't be foolish to believe in what others say, just listen to words but don't trust and hope for them.
Messages that would make anyone angry
Attached are the text messages sent by the 'runaway groom.' He insists on having everything his way and for his family. Otherwise, he won't accept the child.
'My family's way is the only right way. Now that you're pregnant, consider yourself lucky if I agree to marry you,' he harshly said.
'Now that you've raised a daughter this much, my family says there's no need for a formal wedding. Just introduce both families and then move in together,' the girl asked again.
Then, the guy listed a long list of things that his family accepts. It seems like feeling that the girl is pregnant, his family holds the reins, so he appears extremely indifferent.
'I've already said it, no engagement ceremony, no betrothal gifts. For the dowry, it's 3 million, half from you, half from me. You take care of the bedding, I'll take care of the wardrobe. You choose the bed, I'll buy the wardrobe. You choose the wardrobe, I'll buy the bed. Basins, towels, toothbrushes, clothes hangers, face towels, those kinds of things, you have to take care of,' he said.
The cost of picking up the bride, renting a car is 4 million, 2 million from you, 2 million from me, if it's okay then we'll get married. If not, tell your dad to apologize, okay? This is the demand from the groom's family.
After reading those overly insincere words, the girl grew tired and questioned the old promises. Clearly, before, this man's expressions were different, not like this.
Hearing that, he bluntly retorted: 'Have you seen anyone catch fish and then release the bait? Now, it's up to you to decide, everything is your choice'.
The girl insisted on having a lead role, she would contribute money. He angrily retorted:
'Don't think having money makes you superior, in the future, our money will be shared'.
A fierce retaliation from the young woman
In the end, upon hearing that tone, the young woman made up her mind, delivering a decisive slap to end it all:
'If that's what you said, then forget it, no marriage. No need to go over, tell my parents to let the dog out, say goodbye to you'.
That's why, don't grit your teeth enduring an uncertain relationship. Looking at a situation lacking mutual respect like this, even marriage won't bring happiness. Marriage must be built on a foundation of hope for a happy life, mutual respect. Without one of those two things, it's easy for a marriage to break.
Posted by: Diệu Ngọc
Keywords: Despite being pregnant, the bride insisted on canceling the wedding because the groom's family 'changed their mind' and demanded to split the bed money
