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In our lives, every decision is made based on what we receive and what we stand to lose. Many things seem like substantial gains, but often they're just illusions of our desires. Conversely, what appears to be a loss might bring unexpected rewards. Let's delve into the pages of 'One Lifetime Lost' through this review to understand better what we gain and lose in this journey called life.
A Brief Introduction to the Author, Van Tinh
Van Tinh is a familiar name to Vietnamese readers, known as a screenwriter and bestselling author in China. Her works resonate deeply with women, offering candid insights that strike at the heart of female psychology.
Regarded as the 'queen' of inspirational literature for women in Vietnam, Van Tinh's books spark a renewed zest for life. How much are you worth? This is one of Van Tinh's standout works, the bestseller on Mytour platform in 2019, igniting a powerful frenzy that uplifts women's spirits, reshaping readers' perspectives on happiness.
Famous Works by Author Van Tinh (Source: Internet)An Overview of the Book 'One Lifetime Lost'
Join Mytour in reviewing 'One Lifetime Lost' to explore its remarkable contents that have prompted many readers to reflect deeply on what they gain and lose after reading this book.
Can't Have It All: Where Does Greed Lead?
In relationships, many girls believe that their partners should pamper them, love them like princesses, and fulfill all their demands. But if you want a wealthy boyfriend with a stable career, it's natural to accept that he won't have much time for you due to his busy schedule earning money, unable to be there whenever you need. Instead of being a girlfriend who idles at home waiting for her busy boyfriend to return, be proactive, build your own career, and don't waste your time waiting. This way, the work and leisure time of both individuals will be balanced.
Conversely, when a man constantly texts, calls, and cares about you all the time, it shows that he has plenty of free time. Such a boyfriend will dote on you, love you like a little princess, always by your side. If you want a lover like that, then you must accept that his career won't shine as brightly as others'
Life is not perfect, and we can't expect to have everything to ourselves. How much is enough when we want everything?
The book 'One Lifetime Lost' will enlighten you that we cannot have everything (Source: Internet)In the eyes of those who dislike us, everything we do is wrong
In the review of the book 'One Lifetime Lost', you will realize that in the eyes of those who dislike us, no matter what we do, they will perceive it as wrong. We cannot please everyone, no matter how beautiful, kind, and talented we are, there will always be people who dislike us. There are many reasons why someone may dislike another person, perhaps they envy what you have and believe that what you have is undeserved. Because all they see in you is the surface of your success, they do not see the hardships, struggles, and losses that you have endured, those dark sides.
Human life spans only a few decades, at most a hundred years. Therefore, do not let negative-minded people, those who constantly speak ill of you or even undermine you at all times and places, affect you. Instead of dwelling on those negative words, spend that time loving yourself and cherishing your loved ones. Ladies, live a life like this!
No matter how beautiful and talented you are, there will always be people who dislike you (Source: Internet)Some Choices Are Only Valuable to Oneself
According to many, women should not pursue too high of an education or have a highly successful career, but rather leave that to their boyfriends or husbands. The duty of women is to have a stable job, work 8 hours a day, then return home to be a wife, mother, and homemaker. Many women in the East are influenced by these ideologies and dare not dream, or even live for themselves.
Women have the right to choose a stable job and a peaceful, comfortable life, but they can also choose a brilliantly successful career, a luxurious life that many dream of. Therefore, don't let the idea that being a woman means having a stable job and taking care of the family dictate your choices. Women have the right to live according to their own desires, the right to happiness, the right to pursue their dreams. We only live once, so don't live to please others, but rather, to please ourselves.
As a woman, always love yourself (Source: Internet)Strong Women, Capable of Lifting Up and Letting Go
There are many beliefs that women must endure the injuries caused by men, even if they are belittled by them, always finding explanations for these things that are not true. This shows that women are not strong enough, persistent enough, and dare not let go of that relationship.
As a woman, you must be strong enough to take control of your own life. When treated poorly, don't hesitate to leave him. Women deserve to have a happy life, just keep striving and improving yourself, and you will meet someone good enough, who will appreciate and care for you.
Women should be independent, strong, and make decisions according to their own desires. Passionate love is acceptable, but always stay vigilant to avoid being hurt, taken advantage of, or underestimated. Learn to let go at the right time, save yourself from the sorrows and difficulties of love.
Life doesn't have to be a competition with anyone. What's yours will be yours, and what isn't yours, no matter how much scheming, plotting, or competition, will never be yours.
Strong women are capable of lifting up and letting go, living for themselves (Source: Internet)Notable Quotes from 'One Lifetime Lost'
1. In life, people often want to 'receive' without being willing to 'let go' – it's a common occurrence, but the truth is: You must have the courage to 'let go' in order to 'receive' the rewards. Those who want everything often end up losing everything. Once you understand this principle, you'll know how to make your choices.
2. The pain caused by men isn't true suffering, it's just temporary emotion. Women who can't support themselves are the ones truly suffering. A woman without money who divorces is called 'divorced', while a woman with money who divorces is called 'returning to single status'. A woman without money getting married seeks 'long-term meal tickets', while a woman with money getting married pursues 'true love'.
3. Upon reaching thirty, I believe women should live like this:
Find someone who cares, provides warmth, doesn't betray or deceive, deserving of our genuine affection. If not, it's perfectly fine to live happily single. At least we won't have to live in misery and regret.
Having a career that you cherish, even if it doesn't make much money, even if it's extremely difficult, is still better than going to work every day feeling like you're visiting a grave. Don't force yourself to do things you don't like, or you'll find yourself increasingly frustrated, tired, and exhausted.
Having a few close friends, not needing to chat all day long or gather all the time, but always having empathetic hearts, is what truly matters. It's important not to feel exhausted when you're together. Don't force yourself to socialize with people who have different ideologies, or you'll be the one suffering.
The book 'One Lifetime Lost' brings many values to modern women (Source: Internet)Hoping that the information about the review of the book 'One Lifetime Lost' shared by Mytour in the article will help you gain more insights into the value of women. Let go of those outdated thoughts and live for yourself. Don't forget to follow the latest posts on Mytour's blog to stay updated with other useful information!
