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Flirting on Facebook is something that most young people nowadays tend to opt for when it comes to reaching out to women. It can become a powerful weapon, but it could also just be a dud bomb.
1. Mindset of flirting on Facebook
2. Effective Approach to Women on Facebook
3. How to flirt on Facebook: Interact with her
4. Summary of flirting on Facebook
If you're not willing to meet her, date her, then everything remains virtual. In reality, if two people don't know each other, and haven't met in person, then the feelings for each other are almost NONEXISTENT.
I DON'T advise spending too much time on Facebook. Instead, find something outside that's more exciting, more enticing.
Sometimes, having a few minutes of conversation with a girl in real life can be much more exciting than chatting with a 'virtual girlfriend' on Facebook for hours. That's how real connections are made.
Flirting on Facebook is as simple as this: Once you've connected with her on some level, immediately ask her out, and... boom!
That's how it goes.
The mindset for flirting on Facebook
Before knowing how to flirt on Facebook, you need to have the right mindset.
Mindset is the correct thinking you should equip yourself with. If your mindset is wrong, your methods are unlikely to be correct.
The number one mindset for flirting on Facebook is not to spend hours browsing photos and commenting.
Because you'll be drawn into her frame (which is virtual). When you see other guys liking, praising, or pledging their lives, suddenly you'll feel like you have too much competition, she has too many choices, and it's hard for you to stand out.
By keeping that mindset, you've failed right from the start. Try meeting a Vietnamese singer, and you'll feel like there are thousands of stars flying above their heads (Thanks to endorsement technology). But meet a Laotian or Indonesian singer, and you'll see they're no different from ordinary people.
That's why, the first thing to optimize Facebook, you need to stop looking at her photos and reading her comments. Don't get easily drawn into her frame like that.
2) To optimize, when sending messages, there must be a CTA (Call to Action)
The mindset for flirting on Facebook number 2 is that messages must have a CTA.
When selling a product, at the end of the page, you need to encourage customers to take action, specifically to buy the product you're selling. Without a Call to Action, it's an unprofessional sales page.
Sending messages on Facebook is similar, especially the first messages. You have to send a Call to Action message to her. Encourage her to take action, specifically to respond to you.
'Please answer insincerely, do you think the person chatting with you is hot?'
Questions like these will be very likely to get a response, like:
'Nope.'
'Oh wait, yes.'
'Are you saying I'm hot? Almost everyone tells me that.'
'Are you saying the opposite, haha.'
'No worries, you can tell me later. Who am I chatting with...?'
3) Mindset for flirting on Facebook: The more you talk, the lower the chance of conversion to a date
When first approaching, of course, you have to chat a lot. But if you're just waiting for her to come online to chat, or responding continuously when she sporadically replies. That's a sign of failure. She'll never agree to a date, not even give you her phone number, let alone.
Always keep your chats short and enticing. And don't forget your main purpose is to go on a date.
Effective ways to flirt on Facebook
The knowledge I'm about to share below may be shocking or unbelievable because it doesn't follow society's general standards. And frankly, it's not logical either.
1) Change relationship status
The first way to flirt on Facebook is to change your relationship status.
Don't set your relationship status as 'dating' or 'married.' Who wants to intrude as a third party? 'Single' is even worse, it just makes her think you can't find a decent girlfriend.
Change your relationship status to 'It's complicated.' Why? Women like complexity and ambiguity. That's the answer!
2) Occupation, University, High school, Elementary school
Many people like to display their detailed bio. Graduated from Elementary School in what year, Failed University in which year, What are you currently doing, where, etc...
Some people also fake these details. Like graduating from the 'School of Life' or job titles like 'Professional Moocher' or 'Non-Profit CEO', etc...
If you're using Facebook to optimize career development, you can list your position and current job. If not, I suggest you remove all the information. Because even if you're a real CEO, she doesn't necessarily need to know. That's flirting on Facebook number 2.
3) Current location
Fill in where you're currently living. No girl in Hai Phong wants to get to know a man in Soc Trang. Because the relationship will hardly progress further.
Also, when adding friends, you need to observe where she's currently living. Is it near where you live? Long-distance relationships are worse than you think, check out the article CHINHEM has shared.
4) Flirting on Facebook: Followers
If you have a large number of followers, display it. Women like to be friends with celebrities. 'Moreover, someone with a lot of followers must have something interesting.' She thinks.
5) Think about the photos you post
The next step in flirting on Facebook is to think about the photos you post.
The photos you post will focus on 2 main issues.
Increase your value: These are photos that increase your value in the eyes of women.
Women like: These are photos that make women want to be a part of your life.
6) Likes, groups
The next step in flirting on Facebook is to modify your likes, groups.
When clicking on your profile. Women will want to know what you like, to understand more about you. No one will be interested to know that you like pages like 'Clean Vegetable Lovers Club' or 'Forever Alone Group'. Therefore, you have to be very careful with what you like on Facebook.
Next, the number of likes should only be around 30 pages. Because you don't want to become someone who easily likes, or easily likes mediocre things. Instead, you should focus on 4 things: luxury, success, travel, and lifestyle.
From appearance to interests. That's how modern people still search for information about each other. On Facebook, photos and likes lists will help you show that.
Finally, women will want to know how you behave? Are you polite, refined? Or just a rude and uneducated person? It all comes from your comments.
7) Flirting on Facebook: Comment thoughtfully
I'm not sure now when commenting, whether people on your friends list can see it anymore (Facebook constantly updates). However, whatever the case, comment thoughtfully.
Most people like to comment negatively and crudely, but you're not like that. When commenting, use positive and humorous language. Those things will reveal a part of your personality to her.
Flirting on Facebook: Interacting with her
You've got a complete profile, plus identifying the target clearly. Next, the more important thing is to interact with her.
So how do you do it?
Start liking her photos, statuses
This will help you become someone 'ordinary' on Facebook. But it's just a prerequisite for messaging her. Because knowing someone often likes you, she will 'politely' reply to your messages instead of ignoring them.
And of course, your message must be the type of message she can't ignore.
There are many ways to influence her psychology. But the simplest method is to connect with her status.
For example, if she just checked in at a restaurant and seemed very excited about it, send her a message connecting to that restaurant. For instance:
'Hi, I saw you just checked in at ABC restaurant, where is that located?'
If she replies, continue to connect with other questions, such as:
'Do you have any recommendations for food?'
Remember not to come across as annoying when asking her, instead try to reignite her interest in that restaurant. Your goal is to talk to her, not to discuss the restaurant location, right?
Then, after 1 or 2 days, you'll also have a reason to talk to her through the restaurant review. At this point, everything can connect on a deeper level.
Pay attention to her responses, and make the conversation flow naturally
As I mentioned above, pay attention to her responses, and keep the conversation natural and flowing. And be sure she'll notice your efforts to connect, and if everything is interesting, she'll definitely feel comfortable chatting with you.
Finally, when the time is right, it's time for you to set up a date with her. This is the crucial moment as I mentioned at the beginning of the article. At this point, you may want to consult an article for useful advice on the first date.
Summarizing the art of flirting on Facebook
Above are the entire ways to flirt on Facebook. If you want to go further, consider the Decoding Real Messaging Course. This is a messaging course for alphas, real men, high-value men provided by Chinh Em.
See you again in the next posts.
Posted by: Nguyen Van Binh
Keywords: Flirting on Facebook: Sparking Interest with a Stylish Profile
