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White Day is an excellent occasion to express gratitude to all the remarkable women in your life while also enjoying some fun moments. In Japan, South Korea, China, and Taiwan, women traditionally offer handmade gifts, such as chocolates and cookies, to their male counterparts and friends on Valentine’s Day. Subsequently, one month later, on March 14th, White Day is commemorated. During this holiday, men reciprocate or “respond” to the women who gifted them on Valentine’s Day by presenting them with gifts of their own.
Steps
Preparing for the Celebration
Keep track of the gifts you receive on Valentine’s Day. On White Day, it’s customary to reciprocate by giving a return gift to those who gave you a gift on Valentine’s Day, whether they are female friends, colleagues, or someone special. Make sure to jot down what you received on Valentine’s Day so you don’t forget to reciprocate with gifts for all the ladies on White Day.
Differentiate between 'giri' and 'honmei' gifts. 'Giri-choco' refers to obligatory chocolate, given to male colleagues, teachers, family members, and friends. On the other hand, 'Honmei-choco' signifies true love chocolate and is of higher quality. It is given to a romantic partner or someone one wishes to pursue a relationship with.
Prepare financially. Traditionally, men are expected to give each woman a gift worth three times the value of the gift they received themselves! This implies saving money to purchase nice gifts for all the women who gave gifts to you, or risking offense.
Selecting Presents
Opt for something white. Gifts given on White Day traditionally should be white. Consider creative options, like white chocolate for 'giri' gifts or even white lingerie for your significant other. Alternatively, utilize white gift wrapping paper or a white gift bag, adorned with pretty ribbons.
Communicate your intentions clearly. While you should reciprocate with a gift for each woman who gifted you, ensure to convey your desired relationship status. Return 'giri' gifts with similar items, such as Poko or candy. For 'honmei' gifts, opt for something special like a purse or jewelry.
- If a woman presents you with a 'honmei' gift and your feelings don’t align, it's customary to kindly express your feelings either in person or through a note, and offer a gift of equal value.
Offer confections. Marshmallows, chocolates, cookies, and other sweet treats are highly favored White Day gifts. Select some delectable goodies to express your fondness for female acquaintances. To add a personal touch, consider making the sweets yourself.
Send flowers. White blooms such as lilies, peonies, and orchids make excellent White Day presents. Alternatively, you can opt for her favorite flower variety to demonstrate your affection.
Select a plush toy. A soft, white stuffed animal is a wonderful White Day gift for younger girls. A teddy bear is a popular option, or you can choose her preferred animal.
Choose bath essentials. Perfume, body mist, lotion, scented soap, or candles make delightful White Day gifts. Opt for something with a sweet fragrance and an attractive label.
Present jewelry. White gold or platinum jewelry complements the white theme. However, reserve expensive gifts like jewelry for that special lady in your life, rather than for a friend.
Enjoy a romantic outing with your partner. Use this special occasion as an opportunity to explore. Dine at a fancy restaurant, catch a movie, or visit a museum or art exhibition. Cherish quality time with your loved one on White Day.
