Buzz
Italian is quite formal, especially in comparison to English. When initiating a greeting in Italian, the customary expression is buongiorno (BWON JOOR-noh), translating to 'good day.' Come evening, one might opt for buona sera (BWO-nah SEH-rah), meaning 'good evening.' While ciao (chow) is familiar for 'hi,' it's reserved for familiar settings like amongst friends, family, or peers of similar age.
Steps
Using Traditional Greetings
Use buongiorno to acknowledge individuals during daylight hours. This salutation, buongiorno (BWON JOOR-noh), is customary when addressing strangers, elders, friends, and acquaintances alike during the day. It directly translates to 'good day.'
- Similar to other Italian greetings, buongiorno serves as both an initial 'hello' and a parting 'goodbye.'
Transition to buona sera as evening approaches. Beyond 4:00 p.m., buongiorno loses its appropriateness. When dining out or meeting others in the evening, opt for buona sera (BWO-nah SEH-rah) to convey 'good evening.'
- Italians typically observe an afternoon nap (known as riposo) between 2:00 and 4:00 p.m. Any time post-riposo is generally considered evening.
- Italian rs are trilled. Trilled rs have a slightly shorter, more clipped sound than rolled rs, differing from the English r. For an approximation, pronounce Italian rs like a d, with the tip of your tongue clipping the top of the back of your front teeth.
Inquire about the person's well-being. A greeting is more than just a simple 'hello.' To ask 'How are you?' use come sta (KOH-meh stah) when addressing a stranger, particularly if they're older or hold authority. For peers or friends, utilize come stai (KOH-meh STAH-yee), the informal variant.
- The standard response to come sta is bene grazie (BEH-neh GRAHT-see-eh), meaning 'I'm well, thank you.' If they've already inquired about your well-being, you might respond with bene grazie, e tu? (for peers) or bene grazie, e lei? (for formal situations).
- In formal settings like business meetings, asking come sta might be deemed too personal. Instead, inquire about their trip if they've traveled to meet you. Alternatively, compliment their achievements or express admiration for their leadership or expertise.
Offer a handshake upon first meeting. Italians embrace a warm and sociable culture, often involving physical contact. It's customary to shake hands when greeting someone, even casually on the street.
- If you're a woman, in many regions of Italy, it's customary for you to initiate the handshake when meeting a man.
- While shaking hands, maintain direct eye contact and a smile. Italians typically don't cover your hand with their other hand but may touch your elbow or upper arm.
- Friends and family in Italy commonly greet with air kisses, one on each cheek, irrespective of gender. However, in Southern Italy, men often reserve kisses for family members exclusively.
- If uncertain of the custom, follow the lead of the other person.
Utilize pronto for phone greetings. In English, answering the phone involves saying 'hello.' In Italian, it's customary to use pronto (PROHN-toh), meaning 'ready.'
- Pronto is exclusively for phone greetings. Using it otherwise may lead to perplexed reactions.
Exploring Slang or Informal Greetings
Opt for ciao to greet familiar acquaintances. While ciao (chow) is widely recognized as an Italian greeting, it's reserved for friends and close family. Using ciao with strangers or individuals of seniority can come across as impolite.
- You might be acquainted with ciao bella (chow BEHL-lah), meaning 'hello beautiful.' This expression is often used playfully, but exercise caution when using it with those you're less familiar with.
- Ciao serves as both a greeting and a farewell, applicable upon arrival or departure.
Address a gathering of friends with ciao a tutti. In formal contexts, individual greetings are customary. Even within a group of friends, it's courteous to acknowledge each person individually, particularly if your familiarity is limited.
Consider salve for versatility in greetings. Salve (SAHL-veh) translates to 'hi,' suitable for various situations. Unlike many Italian phrases, salve is appropriate across formal and informal settings.
- If a close bond exists, salve may appear overly formal. In such cases, ciao is more fitting.
Utilize bella when addressing younger individuals. While technically meaning 'beautiful,' bella is commonly used as a casual greeting akin to ciao, particularly among the younger demographic. However, exercise discretion as it may seem juvenile to those over 30 or in formal settings.
- Bella is often accompanied by terms like bella lì or bella zio, meaning 'guys' or 'dudes,' respectively.
Try come butta for a casual 'what's up' in Italian. While come sta suffices, adopting come butta (KOH-meh BOOT-tah) lends a more laid-back vibe, aligning better with peers. Exercise caution in public scenarios, however, as it may be perceived as too forward or disrespectful.
- Reserve such slang for informal contexts, avoiding usage in professional environments like restaurants.
Introduction Etiquette
Share your name following your initial greeting. Upon meeting someone for the first time, it's customary to introduce yourself in Italian by saying mi chiamo (mee kee-AH-moh) followed by your name.
- If you wish to inquire about the other person's name, you may use come ti chiami (informal) or come si chiama (formal). Alternatively, if you've already stated your name, you can use e tu (informal) or e lei (formal), both meaning 'and you.'
Express your pleasure in meeting them. Upon learning someone's name, it's courteous to say piacere (pee-ah-SHEHR-reh), signifying 'pleased to meet you.' Alternatively, you can say piacere di consoscerti (informal) or piacere di consocerla (formal).
- If interacting with someone of similar age informally, you might opt for incantato (or incantata for females). This term, akin to 'enchanted' in English, is often used flirtatiously.
- Italians typically maintain a degree of formality. When addressing an elder, it's respectful to use their title along with their last name until instructed otherwise.
Reveal your place of origin. Particularly for tourists in Italy, individuals you meet may inquire about your place of origin. To disclose this information, you can say vengo da (VEEN-goh dah) or sono di (SOH-noh dee), followed by your country's name (or city if it's well-known).
- To inquire about someone's origin, you can ask di dove sei (informal) or di dov'è (formal).
- Italians may also specify their city of origin, similar to saying 'I'm a New Yorker' in English, such as sono Milanese or sono Romano.
Discuss your Italian language proficiency. At this juncture in conversation, if your Italian is limited, it's advisable to inform your conversation partner. Alternatively, if you seek to practice Italian, you can request they continue conversing in the language. Consider using phrases such as:
- 'Parli inglese?' (informal) or 'Parla inglese?' (formal): 'Do you speak English?'
- 'Può parlare più lentamente?': 'Please speak more slowly.'
- 'Parli un'altra lingua oltre l'italiano?': 'Do you speak a language other than Italian?'
- 'Parla italiano con me': 'Speak to me in Italian.'
- Accent marks over letters merely indicate which syllable of the word should be stressed. They don't change the sound of the letter.
Quick Reference
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