Marriage often brings a whirlwind of excitement. But once the honeymoon is over, it's time to get back to business. If you've decided to take on your spouse's last name, you'll need to navigate the process of updating your name on all legal documents. Start by obtaining a new Social Security card with your updated name, as it will simplify proving your identity when updating your driver's license. With these essential identity documents in hand, you can proceed to update your bank records, employment details, rental agreements, or mortgage applications.
Steps
Obtaining a Revised Social Security Card
- While you can electronically complete the application at https://www.socialsecurity.gov/forms/ss-5.pdf, you must print it and submit it alongside your identity documents to receive your new card. Online submission is not available.
- You can either type in the details online or print the form and complete it using black or blue ink.
- Your original documents will be returned to you along with your new card.
- No fee is required for requesting a corrected or replacement Social Security card.
Acquiring a Fresh Driver's License
- Since 2013, the Department of Homeland Security has gradually implemented the REAL ID Act, which includes Enhanced Driver's Licenses. Consequently, some states have heightened their document requirements for issuing driver's licenses. Contact your local licensing authority to verify the necessary documents.
- Obtain a certified copy of your birth certificate from the vital records office in the state of your birth. This typically costs between $15 and $25.
- If you were previously married and assumed your spouse's name during that marriage, you'll need certified copies of your marriage certificate.
- If you reverted to your birth name after divorce, you'll require a copy of the court order reinstating your birth name. These documents are usually filed with the court clerk in the county where you filed for marriage and divorce, and you may need to cover a small copying fee and postage.
- Present proof of your residential address, which can include bank statements, utility bills, mortgage or lease agreements, and other official documents displaying your name (whether single or married) and address.
- Lastly, provide evidence of your citizenship. Typically, your old, unexpired driver's license and new Social Security card will suffice. If you were not born in the United States, you'll need to provide your Green Card confirming permanent residency or your naturalization papers.
- Bring all necessary documents, including your updated Social Security card.
- In some smaller towns or counties, the bureau may only be open on specific days. Call ahead to confirm operating hours if unsure.
- If you have a valid, unexpired license, you may not need to take a driving or written test, depending on the bureau's discretion.
- If you have specific clothing or headdress requirements for religious reasons, discuss them with the examiner, ensuring your face remains visible.
- Some states may allow a neutral smile but prohibit broad grins. Confirm with the clerk the appropriate facial expression.
- Be prepared to pay by check or cash, as some bureaus may not accept credit or debit cards, particularly in smaller towns or counties.
- In certain states, your new license may be produced and laminated on-site, while others will mail it to you within approximately a week.
- Some states may also allow you to update your voter registration simultaneously.
Useful Tips
- It's important to note that you're not legally obligated to change your surname after marriage. You have the option to retain your birth name, adopt your spouse's last name, or combine both with a hyphen.
- If you decide to keep your birth name, you'll only need to update your driver's license if you relocate after marriage.