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The mission of leaves is to be green, of clouds is to drift leisurely, and of women is to be beautiful, not to 'show off' to the world or to seduce men but to love themselves. Women should beautify themselves not to satisfy the 'eye-cleaning' needs of men, but to satisfy themselves.
Nothing makes a girl confident and joyful in life like her neat appearance. A new day will start off lucky if you step out looking fresh before smiling at yourself in the mirror. Fulfillment isn't because they are the most beautiful queens in the world, but because they always remain the most beautiful they can be.
They're not disappointed and regretful because of an unattractive waistline, tangled hair, or a skin 'painted' with thick layers of freckles. Simply because they've spent enough time and care on their appearance.
Nothing makes a girl feel insecure and negative like a sloppy, bored appearance. She'll cry (inside) when she can't 'bring home' a gorgeous dress just because her overly plump figure doesn't fit. She'll feel self-conscious to the point that even her smile seems crooked with dark, cracked lips. Therefore, women, no matter how busy they are, should take the time to beautify themselves, so they don't have to agonize over mistreating themselves.
Even without the means to go to the gym, exercise at home. Without the money to go to a beauty salon, buy high-end cosmetics, then make your own natural beauty products. Don't complain that 'I don't know how' because Dr. 'Google' will guide you from tips for pore-tightening face masks, natural exfoliating soap to smart diet menus or belly fat reduction exercises.
Women should beautify themselves not to satisfy the 'eye-cleaning' needs of men, but to satisfy themselves. Don't blame your fate saying 'I'm too busy' because 20 minutes of aerobics and 10 minutes of applying a face mask every day won't get you fired by your boss for not completing tasks or get divorced by your husband for not taking care of the family properly. If you truly value yourself, you won't hesitate to spend 30 minutes every day to preserve your beauty - an invaluable but limited resource.
'Already married/have a boyfriend, why bother with beauty, planning to lure a few more men?' - whether said seriously by a respectable husband or jokingly by a boyfriend, both lack respect or are insensitive, lacking in delicacy.
Speaking thus is no different than belittling beauty, seeing it only as a 'seduction' tool. If truly loving and understanding their life partner, men would respect her need for beauty, understand that beauty is also a career, and women who cannot pursue this career will inevitably feel lost in life. Pursuing a beauty-career may sound daunting, but it's not always about cosmetic surgery; becoming a makeup expert is also a path to success.
An elderly lady with silver hair, always styling her hair elegantly to proudly show that she is still as beautiful as when she was a young girl in Hanoi; a small business owner applying gentle lipstick, greeting customers with a bright smile every day; an office worker wearing a beautifully tailored dress bought with her own hard-earned income after a month of diligent work—they are all 'flowers' who appreciate the value and natural beauty of themselves.
The mission of a leaf is to be green, of the sky is to drift leisurely, and of a woman is to be beautiful, not to 'show off' to the world or to seduce men but to love herself. Beauty brings enthusiasm for work, pride in the presence of loved ones, a relaxed, free, and positive spirit.
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