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Today's article is dedicated to easy-going girls. However, the following signs won't definitively confirm but will help you further strengthen your beliefs.
1. What does it mean to be easy-going?
2. The 7 signs are indicators of easy-going girls, impossible to ignore
3. 4 behaviors of easygoing girls that normal girls don't do
4. Simply hinting subtly helps girls escape the “easygoing” label immediately
But before you refer, I want you to just read and feel it.
Don't bring your “evaluation” down to the comment section, like:
“All women are deceitful”.
Or worse, “Today's women are mostly just b****es”
But you know what, if you believe in those things, you're just as much of a b**** yourself.
And if you come to CHINHEMCOM to read daily articles, I know you won't believe in such vague things. Leave that thinking to others, but those deserving of the name, b****es!
What does it mean to be easygoing?
Talking about being easygoing, there's a lot, but some still don't understand what being easygoing is, what it means to be easygoing. Then are girls nowadays too easygoing or not?
About easygoing girls. That's personality and instinct.
Just like children, when they see a toy, they can't hide their desire. It's about personality and instinct.
'So pretty, so enticing, let me touch a bit.'
But the child on the other side shows desire in the mind, rather than expressing too much emotion outwardly.
What's different about kids like that? Maybe it's just the way they express themselves outwardly. I asked the second child, “Do you want to try touching?”
It hesitantly touched, but then after a while, it showed extreme excitement, even more excited than the first child.
'Tomorrow Uncle will let you borrow it again.' Saying that, the two kids eagerly discussed the toy, paying no attention to their previous reactions.
The story of Hitler and the British Prime Minister's mother
Whether a girl is easygoing or not, at first, they will be very different. But when you give them what they want, everything will be equally intense.
Do you know the story in Munich? Where Hitler forced Neville Chamberlain to obey him? Neville Chamberlain was the Prime Minister of England at the time, known as a conservative politician (Eventually, surprisingly easygoing)
Hitler chaired a meeting and did not allow anyone in the room to smoke. The meeting lasted for 1 hour and a half, and eventually Neville Chamberlain, a heavy smoker, had to give his mother to Hitler as a dance partner.
7 unmistakable signs of easygoing girls, unwavering in their ways
First-time easygoing girls will have many older brothers, cousins, and good guys around them.
They are surrounded by many men, with the special point being that the girl also appears to be interested in all these men.
Easygoing girls will like to be friends with easygoing older sisters. The purpose is to exchange interesting and unique stories that they can't share with anyone else.
Don't forget to look at the idols or stars they follow. Abroad, they like Kim Kardashian, Miley Cyrus, Paris Hilton. In Vietnam, they show interest and empathy for the lives of Ba Tung, Phan Kim Liên, or any other figure.
2) When they look, they want to devour you
Easygoingness is distinguished by the gaze. The way they look at you is very different.
Because as they look, in their heads they will see images of you and they are affectionate, or at least side by side. Refer to Good books about dating, books about conquering women
3) Easygoing girls take the lead when with men
Because they are easygoing, they have a strong desire for their goals.
They understand that PASSIVITY IS NOT AN OPTION. So they are more proactive, know how to suggest, speak more openly. Easygoing girls will send signals for you to realize that they truly desire you.
4) Cooler outfits (Just a reinforcing sign)
Easygoing girls want to stand out and be the center of attention for men. That's why their clothing tends to be cooler, thinner, or more translucent.
But don't misunderstand, not every cool outfit means the girl is easygoing.
5) Easygoing in love means thinking more freely
If a girl is easygoing in love, you'll notice they are more open in their conversation style.
In a personality pair like in the book Decoding the Mysteries of the Fairer Sex, it will be a modern trait. If this trait develops, she won't hesitate to talk about sex, marriage, or her lifestyle.
You can also see her thinking is very open-minded and less inhibited.
On the other hand, when talking to a determined 'preservative' girl, you'll notice she's closed off in most matters, especially relationships and the bedroom.
6) Easygoing girls aren't good at self-control
Easygoing individuals are easily drawn into games. And when they play, they often play to the end without any hesitation.
The clearest example is in a room where some girls use alcohol, candy, coke, and even weed. They are usually the easiest-going girls, and often the hub for all the men in that group when they're lonely. What is casual dating? Signs to look for
7) Everyone around you will know
It's very obvious. Because word of mouth culture in VN is unmatched. If she's an easygoing girl, your friends know, your brothers know, and of course, your sisters know.
Only one person doesn't know, and that's... her.
4 behaviors of easygoing girls that normal girls don't do
To add further assurance, here are 4 behaviors that easygoing girls often exhibit.
1) Dressing provocatively, laughing suggestively
If a girl dresses revealingly, transparently, and coolly, it could be a characteristic identifying an easygoing girl.
'Oh my, what era is this to still judge girls like that?'
Exactly, things aren't always as they seem. A normal girl can also dress coolly. Someone with a 'cinematic' inclination can also dress coolly. But typically, to attract men, girls will equip themselves with two main weapons.
1) Inviting gestures
2) Dressing provocatively
Dressing revealingly and coolly may simply make her feel more beautiful. But on the other hand, it's also like a symbolic message, 'I'm ready to welcome you.'
Notice the seductive smile
Another signal is the seductive smile. A girl dressing provocatively may not necessarily be easygoing. But a girl dressing provocatively and smiling seductively adds another layer. At this point, you may vaguely gauge her level of easiness.
Seeing a girl dressed provocatively, men often tease playfully: 'Hey, where are you off to?'
For those girls who aren't easygoing when dressed revealingly, they usually feel scared and walk away. Or they show a snobbish attitude because the teaser isn't worthy. But for easygoing girls, they'll smirk and respond in a way that suggests they want the conversation to continue. Like:
'Where I go is none of your business, is it?'
'With the weather so nice like this, it's time for some fun. Where else would I go?'
Therefore, behavior number 1, if you see her dressed provocatively while laughing suggestively with men. That could very well be a characteristic of an easygoing girl.
2) Easygoing girls prefer hanging out with guys rather than girls
If you're flirting in the traditional way, you should also take the time to observe her relationships. If she's surrounded by mostly guys—brothers, cousins, foster brothers, or close male friends. That's a very alarming sign.
Behavior number 2, if she has many complicated relationships with men. At the same time, she also prefers hanging out with guys rather than girls. Those are the characteristics of easygoing girls.
Easygoing girls are often identified, isolated, and talked about behind their backs when they hang out with other girls. That's why they choose to hang out with guys for more comfort. It's easier for them to choose and be around men.
So if you see her today, say: “She's bringing her cousin from the countryside to visit.”
Or, “Oh, that's just her foster brother.”
In such cases, you should remain silent and observe for a while. Because the story may be more complicated than just having cousins or foster brothers.
Easygoing girls aren't good at restraining their sexual desires.
Talking about restraining desires, we have those girls who aren't good at controlling their materialistic desires. Or in other words, gold diggers.
Then we have those girls who aren't good at controlling their food cravings. They could be the ones with a chubby waist and plump cheeks.
And here we have those girls who aren't good at restraining their sexual desires. They are the easygoing girls we're talking about.
Typically, girls are very good at restraining their sexual desires. No matter how stimulated they may be, even if it feels like a floodgate about to burst, they can still control themselves.
But not with easygoing girls. They're the ones who aren't good at restraining their burning desires within. Or simply put, they think: 'Why should I restrain my desires?'
If she hints at going to a motel on the first date. If she puts your hand in 'that' place when she sees you hesitating. Or if she actively speeds up the process of getting to bed. Those could very well be the traits of easygoing girls.
4) Enjoys body contact, thinks more freely about sex and lifestyle.
The ultimate identifying feature of an easygoing girl is that she's not afraid of body contact. No matter what you consider 'sensitive' areas, you'll find her quite responsive when you accidentally or intentionally 'brush' against them.
Another characteristic is thinking more freely about sex and lifestyle. Easygoing girls tend to have a more liberated lifestyle, more carefree, indulgent, and less concerned about tomorrow.
Imagine if you could spend an entire hour discussing sexual positions, erogenous zones, or unforgettable sexual experiences. Understand that those are signs of an easygoing girl.
Or you could observe through their lifestyle mindset. If a girl is willing to drink with men until she's drunk, or if she doesn't mind partying and playing along when invited, then she's precisely the easygoing type.
Just a subtle suggestion can help a girl break free from the 'easygoing' label.
For easygoing girls, they either don't care or aren't aware of being perceived as easygoing by others.
For other women, they'll try to appear NOT EASYGOING but still find ways to achieve their goals.
How?
These are hints, signals that she deliberately wants to convey to you.
For instance, if a girl talks to me and occasionally looks at me with a playful smile while playing with her hair, I silently understand she's a bit interested. But if she does the same and then pushes my hand away occasionally, pretending to fix her clothes, dress, to catch me sneaking a peek, I'll understand it's a hint to escalate things. It can be any level, but surely it has to be more than the current level.
You see, just a bit more subtle actions, and women quickly shake off the label of being easygoing while still achieving their goals.
Conclusion
Men need women, and women need men, but each gender has its own way to achieve their goals.
With easygoing girls, you shouldn't be too strict with them either. Because from a certain perspective, they are also the ones bold enough to take initiative to reap what they want in life.
If you want to know exactly the steps to conquer a girl. If you want to know in detail the techniques to enchant a girl. Refer to The Mystery Decoded of the Fairer Sex to learn what I and successful people out there are doing.
Posted by: Miền Nguyễn Thị
Keyword: Recognizing Easygoing Girls, 11 Telltale Signs You Can't Miss
