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Someone once told me that men shouldn't bother reading books about understanding women because the more they try, the less they understand. Hence, there's this thick book on women's psychology with over a thousand pages, all filled with gibberish.
1. Understanding the Psychology of Women Is Never Wrong
2. How Many Types of Women Understanding Books Are There?
3. Which Gender Writes Books on Understanding the Female Psyche?
4. Best Books to Understand the Female Psyche
5. Fascinating Insights into Psychology to Help You Understand Girls Better
It's simply a matter of perspective. Right and wrong are just tiny boundaries, while gain and loss are two completely different things.
You'll miss out on understanding her more if you don't try. Conversely, you'll gain the 'full package' of a woman's contribution if you know how to scratch the right spot.
And I'm endeavoring to assist you in scratching the right spot.
Understanding women's psychology is never wrong
Understanding women's psychology is never wrong.
For instance, even something as simple as girls enjoying 'selfies' isn't understood by everyone. Don't misunderstand, women don't often masturbate like men do. What I mean is uplifting their spirits by taking some really artistic photos.
That's why women often prefer to appear in fancy places to do this.
Speaking of taking photos, I just remembered today is Noel, a day that doesn't mean much to me. Maybe because I'm not religious, I'm not fond of taking photos. And the truth is, I don't really understand this day.
So, I opted to retreat to my usual café. Savoring the chaotic urban traffic scene. And pondering over the calculations of a guy approaching middle age in the days leading up to Tet.
And in this scenario, I want to talk about books on understanding women and the related truths about women's psychology that you should understand and appreciate.
How many types of books on understanding women are there?
There are only two types of books on understanding women in the current market. One is by international authors, and the other is by local authors.
The advantage of international books on women's psychology is that they cover a wide range of different races. It could be American girls, European girls, white girls, black girls, girls of color. From Western Europe to Eastern Europe.
But the downside is that it's too culturally different from Vietnam. They're too ahead of us, if we adopt it, it might be a bit overwhelming.
The advantage of domestic books on understanding women. Because they're written about the psychology of Vietnamese girls, they'll be more suitable for readers. For example.
“Do foreign girls flirt as much as Vietnamese girls?”
“Do foreign girls care as much about men having to 'take care of themselves' as Vietnamese girls do?”
“Do foreign girls talk a lot about 'love at first sight' like Vietnamese girls?”
That's something you'll have to verify for me. Books on understanding women vary from place to place.
Which gender writes books on understanding women?
Besides categorizing by international and domestic authors, you can also categorize books on understanding women by the author's gender.
For example, books on understanding women written by women tend to focus on themselves. “As a woman, you must be strong. Always vibrant, be yourself.
Books on understanding women written by men have only one purpose: to conquer women.
After successfully conquering, the next purpose is how to maintain the relationship with your partner?
Learning to understand women's psychology is like that. There's nothing trivial about it, right?
The scripture says: “You will live twice as long if you marry a good wife.”
But I say: “You will suffer twice as much if you marry a bad wife.”
If you don't believe, just look around and observe. You'll see what I say makes sense.
Best Books to Understand the Female Psyche
Some books on understanding women you can read:
1) Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
2) The Art of Seduction
3) Decoding the Mystery of the Fairer Sex
4) Winning Women with Honesty
Out of these 4 books on understanding women, only Decoding the Mystery of the Fairer Sex is by a local author. If you know of any other books, please add them in the comments below.
Fascinating Insights into Psychology to Help You Understand Girls Better
1) Women are attracted to mature men
Back when I was young, I couldn't understand why girls my age could like and love much older people, with their bulging bodies and worn-out souls.
It's because women mature much earlier than men. In other words, they age faster than you, cope with situations better than you.
Because they have a broader perspective when they're young. So, most will choose to love older people. They don't see potential from your young peer, but more specifically, they don't want to wait.
If you've still been reading articles on Chính Em for the past 6 months, I believe you've matured a lot. And if you multiply this by 10 (5 years), then you've realized how much you've learned, right?
Young men often lack experience and don't know what women want, nor do they know how to handle situations when she's sad, angry, or upset. In short, they need more time to mature. So, make sure to diligently read books on understanding women.
2) What you say doesn't matter; what matters is how she feels?
A truth in almost all books on understanding women is: What you say doesn't matter. What matters is how the other person feels?
The connection to a woman's mind is always disrupted. They may feel bland and bored when men praise them, such as praising their beauty, sexiness, allure... But it's also just like that, sometimes it drives her crazy with pleasure.
The issue here is how to make her feel that. How to make your words directly impact her mind?
What you do matters much more than what you say. For instance, after kneeling down with her and saying “I love you,” it will mean much more to her than saying “I love you” at a regular moment.
Connecting with women's psychology is crucial, so I recommend you check out the article on 7 effective ways to connect with a girl's psychology.
3) Understand the 2 concepts of reason and emotion before referring to books on understanding women
Don't delve into books on understanding women. It'll be too “difficult” if you don't understand the simple concepts of reason and emotion in girls.
If women were the ones responsible for making judgments and decisions in every situation, I believe those would be the WORST decisions.
I say this because women aren't as rational as men. As men, life teaches us to suppress and hide emotions. If you express them, it's like you're a woman.
A distilled takeaway from book on understanding women number 4, they're very difficult to predict.
If a man has a terrible day, he'll come home, take a deep breath of smoke, or find a quiet corner to contemplate. Of course, not forgetting to smile at his wife/girlfriend.
That's because men know how to compartmentalize everything, we clearly distinguish what's what.
But if a woman has a terrible day, clearly it will significantly affect her mind. And of course, her actions too.
At this point, she'll need you to be a shield to absorb all the frustration, or she'll need you to disappear to figure this out on her own.
For instance, my ex-boyfriend's sister used to vent her anger towards me when arguing with her own sister. Even though I had nothing to do with their quarrel. It's just that they couldn't separate things clearly.
Refer to the article How to talk to your girlfriend when she's angry to learn how to help her escape from anger.
5) Enjoys claiming the role of a man but lacks the ability to lead
Being a man, you must know how to lead your woman.
Even before two people fall in love, you must be the one leading everything.
Some men are often ridiculed by others for being 'henpecked' by their wives, which has some truth to it. It's when the husband can't make decisions and has to follow the wife's instructions.
These individuals are often dominated by their wives and gradually lose all the qualities typical of a man.
What will be your choice? Being led by women, or leading women like any other real man?
Understanding Women: A Recap
Through the above article, I've introduced you to some books on understanding women. As well as pointed out why it's important to learn how to understand the female psyche.
I hope this article helps you understand more about the female psyche. See you again in the next articles.
If your love life seems to be going really badly. Don't make it worse just because you don't understand. Take all my experience and knowledge about women in the Decode the Mystery of Beauty book series. I can't wait to guide you even more.
A day near the end of the year.
Posted by: Nhu Quynh
Keywords: Understanding Women: Revealing the Secrets of the Female Psyche
