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Wondering about the answer to the question of whether you should send sweet goodnight texts every night? Explore this article.
1. Sending sweet goodnight texts every night is a failure
2. What to send instead of sweet goodnight texts?
You serendipitously received a number from a friend. She is stunning, one of the campus hotshots. It's no surprise that she attracts attention from many admirers.
Your heart races every time you hold your phone, feeling the palpitations echoing in your chest. You nervously tousle your hair, unsure of how to craft an impressive text.
As usual, she responds eagerly to messages 1, 2, 3. After realizing there's nothing intriguing, a SINGLE WORD becomes her response to your LENGTHY MESSAGES.
At this point, your only option is to send a goodnight text to her every evening. You believe it will make her heart flutter. Someday, you envision holding her hand, kissing her lips, bringing her to bed for mutual satisfaction.
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Sending a goodnight text every night is a recipe for failure.
A man who knows the art of conquest understands how to woo women. His messages are both cheerful and intriguing, sparking curiosity with a touch of creativity.
If you and she are a couple, sending goodnight texts when apart expresses your genuine concern. However, moderation is key in doing so.
HOWEVER...
If you're still in the stages of getting to know, approaching, and flirting, sending goodnight texts is a message reserved for the unsuccessful.
It fails because it doesn't create attraction.
It fails because it's as dull as the person crafting it.
It fails because hundreds have sent the same before you.
If the content on this blog is written in a style resembling someone else, the 1001st time you've read it, would you find it intriguing?
Certainly NOT.
To captivate readers, I must be innovative with my content, just as you MUST be inventive with your text messages.
What to replace goodnight texts with?
Then, you should replace goodnight texts with what? First, ask yourself:
What is your purpose when texting a girl?
That shouldn't be your purpose, as those are wasteful, unreal goals, or hard-to-achieve ones.
Your purpose in texting is to set up a date, to go out with her on a specific day.
1) Limit deep-texting
Unless you're having a phone conversation or both investing time to chat, reserve deep stories. Otherwise, opt for concise and, more importantly, FUN messages.
Remember, the core purpose of a text is to share small parts of the conversation. So, let the message align with its mission.
2) Be Cheerful
Everyday life can be dull and overly monotonous. Most of us are living such lives.
Certainly, the lady you're texting is no exception. So, inject a bit of fun into everything. Making others happy will undoubtedly bring joy to you as well.
Don't think of writing cheerful messages to make an impression, as typically that becomes a recipe for frequent bitterness.
Imagine that you're stirring up your life to fend off boredom; it's much better than sending goodnight texts.
3) Evoke memories
Instead of sending goodnight texts when just getting to know someone, send messages that make her recall your image.
“I'm Hoang, the guy in black who met you at XYZ”
Where she might think:
“Uh huh” and respond to you almost the same. Usually, that's a dead-end story.
Get a bit creative with your messages:
“I'm Hoang, now in pink. Recognize me? This morning, I was in black”
Now her mind will conjure the image you've created, increasing the allure for your story.
“Ha ha, you always dress up. I bet there are many girls chasing after you”
blah blah blah
blah blah blah
“Regardless, I'll still choose black when I meet you next time.”
Of course, you can totally opt for white, green, or red when you meet her next time.
4) Perfect with 3-5 messages per set, reasonable with 5-7 messages per set
Many people text without regard for time or schedule, as long as the other person is willing to engage in conversation, you're ready to trade your time.
When texting, I believe 3-5 messages per set is perfect, while 5-7 messages per set is reasonable. If chatting, it shouldn't extend beyond 30 minutes; ideally, it falls within 12-15 minutes.
More crucial than anything, you should be the one actively ending the conversation instead of waiting for her.
On average, about 3-5 texting sessions like that, and you can already ask her out.
5) Invite her out instead of sending goodnight texts
That is your ultimate goal instead of sending goodnight texts. So, how should you invite her out appropriately?
Don't invite like: “Are you free this Saturday? Let's grab a drink.”
It sounds generic and might put pressure on her.
You can be a bit more creative, like: “Obama caught a cold, so I'm free this Saturday. You won't catch a cold from the U.S., right?”
Instead of sending goodnight texts, utilize your brain more effectively. Life demands logical thinking, so be logically sound at the right time, in the right place, and in the right context.
Because texting is just a part of the game; after successfully inviting her out, there's a lot more to do. Refer to the first date guide for more details.
Meet you later.
Lai H.
Posted by: Mystical Huyen Nguyen
Keywords: Is it advisable to send goodnight texts every night? Yes, if you're cheesy enough.
