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If love is simply about having sex, then people wouldn't yearn for love so much. Staying awake together for a night is easy, but sleeping together is the real challenge.
Sitting at a roadside stall, listening to young folks bragging about their romantic conquests, one can see the elaborate levels of flirting that expert players bestow upon each other. The time from acquaintance to seduction, from love to bed-hopping, to motel stays, is measured in days, in weeks, or at most a few months.
Especially puzzling is the arbitrary standard set by some men, who believe that the shorter the time it takes to get their girlfriend into bed, the higher their skill level. One can't help but shake their head sadly at the confusion and distortion surrounding love and sex among the youth these days.
What do you think, what do people desire after their relationships, after the individuals who have been and will glide through their lives? Or for you, is love about giving it all, stripping bare, proving dedication is true love? Then after satisfaction, claiming a girl, you guys think you're a true mature man—then, ready to discard what's called love and responsibility with each other.
If that's truly it, then you guys are wrong. Completely wrong! What you pursue is just the desire to conquer and boast after conquering a certain goal: like a beautiful girl, a nice girl, a proud girl... And every time you get them, you treat it like winning a big game that few can accomplish. What you boast about doesn't demonstrate much love experience, doesn't show how mature you are, just shows how naive you are.
Because mature individuals prioritize responsibility above all, they also value the person they're with, not urging, not coercing, and never deceiving just to get the other person into bed for satisfaction.
In conclusion, what you guys often proudly brag about, waving your arms and talking big every time you gather with friends, is just an action belonging to the 'child' part, not the 'human' part. And that action often deserves pity rather than pride.
Pity you're big but lack wisdom, have a heart but don't feel life, only use a part of your body to elevate the 'self' too high.
If love were simply about sex, then people wouldn't yearn for love so much. Staying awake together for a night is easy, but sleeping together is the real challenge. Having fun together fleetingly is easy, enduring pain together for a lifetime is difficult. Boasting upfront about deceiving others is easy, facing the consequences afterward is difficult...
If you're still thinking of a hundred ways to get the person of your dreams into bed with you, then wake up. Because love is not just about deceiving each other into bed!
Source: Collected
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