1. Use short sentences to convey clear meaning
Language development plays a crucial role in laying a solid foundation for future learning, communication, and reasoning in preschoolers. Children's cognitive development often relies on their observation abilities. However, preschoolers typically have limited language skills. Therefore, parents should guide them to use short sentences to express their thoughts more clearly. Through individual perception, each child adopts various communication skills because each child's perception is unique. For instance, when a child greets others, parents can suggest saying short phrases like 'Hi there, Uncle!' When summarizing a story, just use simple yet complete sentences. Parents should spend time teaching children to use short, simple sentences in everyday situations to foster good communication habits. Additionally, ask age-appropriate questions without pressuring the child to respond immediately.


2. Distinguish between reality and fiction in stories
Preschoolers often enjoy reading stories and watching movies with various themes ranging from fiction to reality. Therefore, to prevent children from getting lost in fictional or fantastical elements, parents need to teach them to distinguish between reality and imagination.
The ability to differentiate between reality and fiction in stories is crucial as this skill will accompany children into adulthood. Therefore, parents should introduce children to cognitive development education early on so that they can develop comprehensively.
Teachers or parents can help children develop the skill of distinguishing between reality and fiction by posing questions and asking children to explain why they believe something is a fact or just fiction. Additionally, children can also ask questions with their friends such as 'Why is something true?' This helps children improve their critical thinking skills.


3. Teaching Children the Art of Sequential Storytelling
An important skill in cognitive development education for children that parents should not overlook is teaching storytelling in sequence. When narrating a past event, children tend to tell stories in a chaotic manner, without any specific order. Surely, this is quite normal and can be encountered in any child. Teaching children to tell imaginative stories is a way to help them demonstrate their thinking ability, language skills, and organize events logically. It is highly beneficial for children in learning and future career and life.
Telling stories in sequence is considered a very effective educational method to develop cognitive awareness. Here, parents should guide their children to narrate an event in chronological order. For example, 'What did you eat at school in the morning and at noon?' At this point, the child will start to recall memories, think, and narrate the journey from morning to noon.
Once the child has gradually become accustomed to this, parents can increase the level of difficulty to practice with their child and also create hypothetical situations to observe the child's problem-solving skills. This method helps the child demonstrate thinking ability, language skills, and organize events logically. It is highly beneficial for children in learning and future career and life.


4. Helping Children Differentiate Between Right and Wrong
Firstly, parents instill in children the habit of helping others. Teaching children to do chores helps them develop a mindset of caring for those around them. When someone is in need, children will actively offer help and gradually become helpful and kind individuals. Parents should involve children in household chores early on to help them realize the importance of responsibility, independence, adaptability, discipline, resourcefulness, and helpfulness, as well as teamwork skills and purposeful living that positively influence their future adulthood. These are basic and essential life skills that parents should focus on nurturing early on.
Children should not be overly dependent on others to avoid developing negative habits from a young age. Parents should not let children speak ambiguously without subjects or predicates, and children should be honest when making mistakes. Even when taking children out, parents should help them differentiate between what is right and wrong, such as 'putting trash in the designated place instead of littering.'


5. Teaching children counting skills from 1 to 10
In daily life, children encounter various objects and things. However, when children cannot perceive the quantity from the objects they interact with, it can lead to confusion, reduced awareness, and diminished imagination. Parents can assist by teaching children to count from 1 to 10. With this skill, you can start with simple methods like counting fingers, counting objects around the house, or looking at clocks.
You can play store with your child, using coins to buy toys with different quantities for each item. While playing, both of you can discuss the number of toys that can be purchased with 10 coins. Once the child is familiar with counting, increase the difficulty level for better learning and reasoning. Regarding mathematics, early familiarity with numbers supports children's cognitive development and sharpens their calculation skills. Through performing simple addition and subtraction and gradually increasing the difficulty level as the child becomes proficient.


6. Developing Comprehension of Procedural Instructions
Developing comprehension of procedural instructions is a cognitive development skill that significantly influences the future of preschoolers. Many tasks require following step-by-step procedures to be completed, such as cooking. Therefore, parents should educate this skill for children from an early age to aid in their future career development.
At ages 3-5, children may find it challenging to listen and understand procedural instructions because their memory capacity is usually shorter. Following multiple steps, especially those with high complexity, can easily discourage children and make them want to give up. Hence, parents should use short and direct steps, avoiding repetition during instruction. Additionally, parents should use clear illustrations for each step to enhance children's interest in learning.


