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This article will discuss how to speak sweetly to men.
Remember, you cannot make her feel nauseous. Then, convince your partner that you speak well, that you speak sweetly.
When the interest wanes. At this point, whatever you say is no longer significant, no longer meaningful. So before learning how to talk to your partner. You need to maintain your interest in her beforehand.
Next, never turn yourself into a clown just to try to resemble her as much as possible.
For instance, if she enjoys romance novels, you don't have to read them to understand her psychology.
Or if she's close to someone, you don't have to become friends with that person, just try to understand her more.
Those actions may sound reasonable. But in reality, they only make you a clown. So forget about that!
3 Sweet and Gentle Ways to Talk to Your Partner
In this article, I'll share with you 3 tips. These are also 3 things you should do to enhance your sweet talk with your partner.
- Expressing empathy in conversation
- Showing affection in conversation
- Asserting yourself as a man in conversation
Empathy is essential when you're talking to your partner.
If you're unsure how to be accommodating in conversation, make an effort to be accommodating.
And most importantly, you must always assert yourself, you must always let her know: I am the man in this relationship!
1) Talking to your partner shows empathy
When talking sweetly to your first love, you must demonstrate empathy.
Love without empathy is like two pieces of pork rubbing against each other.
The reason I think of pork is because I suspect I'm getting fat from eating too much pork. And because pig hair and human leg hair are both 'bristly' alike.
What is empathy when talking to your partner? It means listening, but listening correctly.
Remember, talking to your partner means always showing empathy. This makes your conversations sweeter!
Now the question will be: What does empathetic listening look like? It means you listen to her, then you pay attention to her feelings.
From now on, when you talk to your partner, I want you to add these questions after listening.
“Are you in pain?”
“Are you frustrated?”
“Do you like it?”
Or any other questions related to her feelings.
When you listen to her and ask her such feeling-related questions, she will naturally feel empathy from you.
2) Sweet Talk with Your Girlfriend: Words Show Affection
Sweet talking with your girlfriend number 2 involves being accommodating in your conversation with your partner, making her think that you are yielding.
When women see that their men yield, it's the best signal. Because it shows you're a real man, a true man. Someone she can rely on.
If empathy above is a mandatory factor, then yielding during conversation makes her feel happy, fulfilled. Because she's cocooned, she's protected.
So how will you talk to your partner accommodatingly?
Spoiling with compliments shows sweetness
First, you can spoil her with compliments. Praise everything related to her. Praise whenever you can. (Don't mistake the target. I never advise praising excessively for conquest)
Your compliments don't need to be too elaborate. Use direct, straightforward compliments, the easier to understand the better.
For example, if she's wearing new clothes, you can say: “You look beautiful today!”
If she just dyed her hair, you can say: “Your hair looks beautiful today!”
Or simply: “You look beautiful today!”
Compliments are never too much for the woman beside you.
And that's also the right amount of sweetness and spoiling in talking to your loved one.
Spoiling by defending
There's another way to show indulgence through sweet talk with your partner. That is always to defend her.
The issue here isn't about logic, or whether she's right or wrong. The issue here is that you care about her feelings. That's what's important, not right or wrong!
Suppose she comes home and says: “I'm so angry today because someone in the elevator stepped on my foot without even apologizing.”
At this point, do you really need to know why? Do you really need to know who's right or wrong?
Or is it something wrong with the elevator?”
Or is it because it was too crowded then?”
Or is it whatever she did that caused the person to step on her foot?”
Don't worry about that. Sweet talking to your partner now means standing by her and showing support.
“Why did they do that? How rude of them! Is your foot hurt?”
It's just that simple! It's just that you stand up for her.
When you can do these things, she'll feel like you're indulging her, accommodating her in conversation.
And that's something you should really do. It's not about right or wrong, it's about her needing to be supported!
3) Always affirm yourself as the man in the relationship.
Sweet talking with your girlfriend number 3 is asserting yourself as the man in the relationship.
Remember my friend! Empathy and indulgence in talking to your loved one. That's what you should do!
But your aim in doing those things is not to become a woman, not to become a female friend. “Only us women understand and empathize with each other!”
Your purpose in talking to your partner is to NEVER FORGET to assert yourself as the man in this relationship.
So today I give you advice. And 1000 years from now, I'll still give advice like this. That is you must always be able to assert: I am the man in this relationship, not anything else!
So how will you assert yourself as the man in this relationship?
It's not about constantly boasting:
“I am a man.”
“A man should be like this and like that!”
“You shouldn't talk to a man like that!”
Oh!!! Occasionally you can say that if she tends to forget. But abusing that will truly make you a narcissist, someone with too high of an ego. And become a foolish person in the relationship.
So how do you assert yourself as the man in the relationship?
Sweet talking with your girlfriend: Recognizing the boundaries of a man
Simple, you must always recognize your boundaries no matter how small.
For example, it's as simple as you saying something and she goes “Hmm.”
When you recognize this and you don't want that to happen, you need to let her know your boundaries.
“You're saying 'Hmm'? Am I talking to the car washer at the end of the street?”
After you express your dissatisfaction like that, she definitely won't like it. She'll say something like, why are you so picky? You have to think about every little thing like that?
But, but she will have to respect you for that.
Those are the 3 things I want you to remember when sweet talking with your loved one. Also, if you want to know more about asserting yourself as the man in the relationship. In the Decode the Mystery of Womanhood series, I talked about it in detail. If you haven't checked it out yet, you should. But for now, goodbye!
Your pal,
Lai H.
Posted by: Duc Dong TV
Keywords: How to sweet talk and assertiveness with your partner
