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Dealing with rebels requires a unique approach. They play the game, but you can outsmart them. Learn how to navigate this complex situation.
Key Steps
Redirect your attention from him. If he's showing interest in someone else, show that you're unbothered. Believe in your allure and ability to attract any man. Confidence is irresistible.
Engage with his circle. Utilize social media to show interest in others. If they reciprocate, it subtly communicates your availability. Interact on platforms like Facebook where everyone's activity is visible.
Appear occupied. Schedule activities and spend time with friends.
Project perfection if you're dating him. Ensure you look impeccable and maintain an air of desirability. Play the field subtly to keep him on his toes, safeguarding yourself from potential heartache.
Embrace your rebellious side. Stay true to yourself and only adapt around him and select friends. Remain steadfast and loyal to your friends while asserting your independence. True friends reciprocate support.
Initiate a strategic game. Create fleeting intimate moments followed by apparent disinterest. Be pleasant but aloof, unaware of his desires for attention. Players thrive on recognition and would falter without it. Show interest, but effortlessly shift focus when necessary. Engage with other guys, especially in flirtatious exchanges.
Gradually reciprocate if he becomes clingy, expressing 'I need you,' or similar sentiments. Avoid typical player expectations but maintain a hint of intrigue. Show minimal interest.
Make a choice. Is he playing you, or have you captured his interest? Avoid falling into the traps set by players! Observe his behavior over a few weeks to assess compatibility. If you seek a meaningful relationship, evaluate his ability to commit. If you intended to toy with him, move on and cease communication. He may experience the same emotions girls have felt when he toyed with them.
Guidelines
- Assume the worst. Depending on his history, he may have a reputation for using girls. Protect yourself from being one of his victims! Presume he will use and discard you. Do not fall for his manipulations.
- Flirt with others openly to incite jealousy in the player. Consider flirting with one of his less intimate friends, not his best friend but someone he knows.
- Maintain your appearance, hygiene, fitness, and pursue your interests actively. Your life should not revolve around one person.
Cautions
- Avoid dating or flirting insincerely, and do not jeopardize genuine friendships. True friends are invaluable.
- Avoid making a spectacle of yourself.
- Avoid discussing the player with his friends. Close friends share everything, so assume any remarks you make will reach him.
- Ensure the person is indeed a player and you have been manipulated. Do not deceive a genuine person.
