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If you don't want to become the wrong person at the wrong time, you must accurately pinpoint the emotions to confess.
This can be seen as the age-old dilemma of our comrades.
We're always caught between two thoughts, either keep silent and watch her belong to someone else, or speak up and risk her immediate avoidance.
To successfully conclude a long-term courtship, nothing is more suitable than confessing at the right time with full emotions.
Below are the best moments for us to do that.
When is the right time to confess? Illustration: For example
1| When unrequited love lingers too long
Confessing is the quickest way for comrades to find an exit from unrequited love, whether it leads to joy or sorrow, it's still an escape.
Sadly, confessing one's love in unrequited love often ends up being just confirmation of hopelessness. But fear not, only those who dare to love and speak are true men.
2| When she starts initiating texts consistently
That's the clearest sign of being conquered. Her continuous texting indicates two things.
She wants to satisfy her own longing while also signaling for comrades to quickly 'stake their claim'.
There's no exact number, but if she consistently bombs you with messages for about 2 weeks, it's game over.
3| When a special day is approaching
People often advise not to make promises in moments of joy, as in our excitement, we tend to be more lenient in every decision.
Birthdays, Valentine's Day, even Christmas, all are perfect opportunities for comrades to make their move. The success rate shoots up significantly.
Seizing special days to express oneself. Illustration: For example
4| After she breaks up with her boyfriend
Of course, if she just broke up yesterday and you confess today, you might as well be picking up discarded shoes. The post-breakup phase for girls needs to go through several stages.
After enduring enough ups and downs of love, it's when she accepts the departure of her ex but still hasn't truly accustomed to loneliness. This is when you cleverly approach and swiftly make your move.
5| When both are about to meet after a long time
To say it's ripe might not be accurate, it's just that if you don't speak up now, you might not have another chance to confess.
About to enlist, about to study abroad, or about to start a career... just take a leap of faith to confess. Whether she agrees or not, she'll definitely be impressed.
I know many who pretend they're about to leave town just to confess. It's effective but comes with consequences.
6| When she keeps mentioning memories
Day in and day out, she keeps bringing up places where you both and your friends visited. Let's reminisce about the fun memories there together.
'I remember when you did this...', 'I still remember when you said...', 'That green shirt you wore that day looked really good on you'... these are the phrases you'll frequently encounter.
I'll wear that green shirt on our first date, how do you feel about that?
A truly beautiful love when confessing becomes merely a formality. Illustration: For example
7| When both are confident that things will still be exciting after starting the relationship
The phrase 'love is beautiful only when it's still budding' holds true in some cases. The best phase of love often arrives before the nod of agreement.
That's the moment when both are still eagerly anticipating and emotions are still fresh. If you're confident you can maintain those feelings, then go for it!
Wishing comrades success!
Posted by: Du Nguyen
