The New Year's Eve feast on the 30th Tet, in addition to symbolizing bidding farewell to the old year, welcoming the new one, and fostering family unity, is an expression of respect, inviting grandparents and ancestors to partake in the Tet feast. With the act of inviting grandparents on the 30th Tet, it is essential to prepare a ceremonial feast and thorough ancestral rituals, including both ancestral procession and New Year's Eve rites.
The Tradition of Bringing Grandparents Home for Tet
1. Ritual for Inviting Grandparents on the 30th Tet
Before arranging the ancestral altar for the procession of grandparents, every family should clean the ancestral shrine and tidy up the house. Those performing the ritual should take a thorough bath, dress modestly, and present themselves with reverence and respect for their ancestors.
Following that, the entire family will prepare the ceremonial feast for inviting grandparents. Depending on the region and the family's financial situation, the timing and content of the ceremonial feast may vary. However, for the ancestral procession feast, it is essential for the ancestors to ensure the presence of gold items, fragrant flowers, a tray of five fruits, candles, and ritual salt.
After the ancestral procession ceremony, the homeowner should pay attention to ensure continuous incense burning. If prone to forgetfulness or lacking time, using coil incense or stick incense is suitable, as they burn for an extended period.
2. Ancestral Ritual on the 30th and 29th Tet
The ceremony of inviting ancestors on the 30th Tet is highly significant, and it's crucial to pay attention to avoid any taboos and potential mistakes.
