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We all make mistakes at least once in our lives. However, apologizing promptly and sincerely makes it easier for the person you've wronged to forgive and move on. So when you mess up, don't forget to speak a heartfelt apology. If you're unsure how to apologize in a way that makes the other person feel comfortable forgiving you, the following apologies will guide you.
Sincere apologies in friendships, love, adulthood
I. Compilation of the Most Sincere Apologies
1. Most Genuine Way to Apologize to Your Lover
In love, even a small mistake can hurt your partner deeply. Whether you're right or wrong, it's important to apologize to your partner to preserve your love. Don't let trivial matters jeopardize your relationship. Love your partner wholeheartedly, providing them with safety and peace of mind.
1. I know I was wrong to get angry with you. But I know I would be even more wrong if I didn't send this apology to you.
2. You could hit me, scold me... if that would make you happy and relieve your anger. Please forgive my mistakes, my love.
3. Holding onto anger will create wrinkles, making your face look worse. So, don't stay mad at me for too long, smile. When you've cooled down, text me, okay?
4. I truly apologize for hurting you so much. Since we've been mad at each other, I've realized you mean everything to me, and my life is incomplete without you. Please forgive me.
5. Apologies aren't enough to make you forgive me, but I don't know what else I can do for you to forgive me. I wish and promise not to make you cry because of me.
6. I apologize for making you sad, for making you shed tears because of me. I promise I'll never make you sad again. Smile, my dear.
7. I know I was wrong, please forgive me. I love you and miss you dearly.
8. If I could, I would turn back time to before I hurt you, so you wouldn't cry, wouldn't suffer because of me. Please accept my apology.
9. You're the one I cherish and love the most. Please forgive me this once. I promise not to repeat the same mistake.
2. Genuine Apologies in Friendship
1. I apologize for my actions and words that may have hurt you.
2. Sorry for the times I made you feel uncomfortable and for the times I couldn't be there for you.
3. I'm sorry for the misunderstandings, clumsiness, and selfishness that made you sad.
4. Please don't stay mad at me, my dear friend. I hope our friendship will remain beautiful forever. Please accept my apology.
5. Sincere apologies can help salvage a relationship on the brink of breaking. Will you accept my apology?
6. My life would be dull without you. Please accept my heartfelt apologies and sincerity.
3. Apologies for Parents
Parents are always forgiving, forgiving all their children's mistakes. However, to make you and your parents feel more comfortable, when you make a mistake, send a sincere apology to them.
1. Mom and Dad, I sincerely apologize for disappointing you.
2. I apologize for causing you worry, Mom and Dad. And I also thank you for always being tolerant and forgiving towards me.
3. Mom and Dad, the pain I've caused you makes me incredibly sad. I truly apologize.
4. My actions are truly regrettable, and I apologize for all the sadness I've caused you, Mom and Dad.
5. I've been selfish. You're wonderful parents, but I haven't appreciated that, always causing you heartache. I hope you can forgive and accept my apology.
6. My heart aches knowing I've hurt you, Mom and Dad. I'm deeply sorry.
7. You're amazing parents, and I regret every moment of argument I've caused. Please forgive me for hurting you, Mom and Dad.
8. I deeply apologize to you, Mom and Dad, for the things I've done. I'm sorry for not making an effort.
9. I apologize for the times I've been angry, the times I've been stubborn and played without considering you, Mom and Dad.
II. How to Make a Sincere Apology
To have an apology that reflects your sincerity and regret, you should understand the following steps:
Step 1. Being Granted Permission to Apologize
Those who are offended often wish to hear the offender explain, apologize to ease their minds, and potentially forgive them. Therefore, when you've done something wrong, hurt someone, you will be allowed to apologize. However, sometimes you need to wait until the offended party calms down to easily send your apology.
Additionally, after you apologize, you need to explain why your actions or words have hurt them so they can easily forgive you.
Step 2: Letting the Recipient Know You Feel Remorseful
You should tell the listener that you regret the words spoken, actions taken recently, causing them pain thereafter. If possible, you want to go back to change everything. Avoid saying to someone you're apologizing to, 'If I hurt you, I apologize.' Not only does this statement make the listener less angry, but it also hurts them even more.
Send your sincerest apologies to the person you're causing harm to.
Step 3: Choose the Right Time to Apologize
When you choose to apologize at the right time, your apology is more easily accepted and forgiven by the listener. Additionally, you should mentally prepare and be ready for everything.
Step 4: Your Words Don't Hurt the Recipient Again
Alongside expressing remorse, apologizing to the person you've hurt doesn't dwell on the past but promises not to hurt them again.
Step 5: Expressing Desire for Forgiveness
When you apologize, you always hope for their forgiveness, to rekindle the relationship. You should say, 'I understand you need time to think about this.' This statement will show that you're understanding, caring about their feelings, and always waiting for them to forgive at any time.
Step 6: Nurture the Relationship
After sending your apology, you should nurture the relationship between the two of you to make it better, to mend the wounds you've caused to the other person.
Not all apologies will be accepted and forgiven by the other person, as it all depends on whether you truly want to apologize and whether your apology is sincere enough. If you've hurt someone and you want to apologize, don't forget to show sincerity in your apology.
Different from Vietnamese, in Spanish, the level of apology varies depending on the situation. To apologize correctly in Spanish, you need to check out this article.
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