The Terrifying Truths Behind Men

When they want to let go, every excuse becomes rational. Don't blame men with old promises, by then they've truly been brainwashed, they've forgotten.

Men leave when they've found someone else, women leave when the love is gone. When they want to let go, every excuse becomes rational. Don't blame men with old promises, by then they've truly been brainwashed, they've forgotten.

1. Appearance

Men often claim they love a woman's inner beauty, but only if she's physically attractive. For instance, a beautiful soul inside an asymmetrical, pimpled face isn't their concern; not the kind of woman who can demonstrate their status while out in public. Men come to choose, not to be chosen. So, strive to be beautiful. Plain women inherently lack gifts. Any girl can become beautiful. The key is having enough money and wise investment before the wonders of makeup, plastic surgery, and silicon technology. Don't use men as ATM machines, unless you want them to see women merely as versatile sex toys. Don't think you can manipulate men; anything that can be bought with money is still too cheap, all physical exchanges are degrading.

2. Alcohol

Men often say that virginity doesn't matter, they don't care, they're forgiving, they'll forgive you, blah blah blah. But psychologically feeling like the leftover guy is a deep-seated emotional complex that will be registered in the depths of the subconscious. When not consciously restrained, when drunk, when angry, when feeling inferior, when jealous, we must be prepared to accept injury for what is not considered a mistake but is treated as one. Remember, after the first man, all subsequent men are just the second. Detailed, sincere storytelling becomes foolish, because when one is constantly pondering over food safety and the ethics of the chef, the pho will hardly taste good. Self-caught fish always tastes better than store-bought fish. Men expend a lot of money or time not because of the fish they desire, but to satisfy the feeling of conquest. Whether the fish is from the market, the supermarket, or the restaurant, it's still a purchasable fish. Wise women must be fish that know how to bite the right bait.

3. Love

Don't fantasize too much about men's promises. Sure, believe it, and forget it. No one loves anyone forever. Biologically, dopamine levels in the brain and adrenal glands, adrenaline, serotonin, or happiness hormone endorphins increase, creating a dreamy, ecstatic, and nostalgic feeling for new lovers. But the truth is, these hormones will gradually decrease and disappear within 1 to 3 years. Then, we live, accept each other with bonding hormone oxytocin and affection. Because we can't defy the law, accept it. Don't torture yourself with belief in eternal love. Hoping for a one-in-a-million lucky chance like a fairy tale or expecting a miraculous mutation of our love hormones? Foolish. Once love's over, either discard it, accept it, or recycle it. Don't expect to upgrade it.

4. Pain

Any wound will eventually heal. But time may not be able to surgically remove the scar it leaves on the heart. Excessive love, pampering, and sacrifice will only awaken the cursed gene in every man. Sacrificing oneself to make the one they love happy, is it noble or foolish? Don't demand gratitude when they neither need nor understand the damn sacrifice. If hurting a man who loves you. There's no need to feel guilty. Because if not, surely once or many times in life, either they'll hurt us or hurt other women. What a girl, a woman, has to endure throughout her life, is enough to allow her the right to be selfish and love herself like that. Women are always right. And the man who loves the woman must suffer, always wrong.

5. Support

Betrayal or betrayed love, they're all the same, equally painful, equally lost. There's no need to hurt another woman because of one man. Don't compare who's the wife, who's the lover, who's the mistress. When in their hearts, we're nothing but a rusty nail. In whichever role, women are equally pitiable. Whether first or last, they'll still be hurt; the man they love the most is themselves. Spend a few hours doing hair, makeup, wearing dresses to look more beautiful before meeting your husband's mistress. Stay calm, smart, and don't let them see your helplessness in your eyes, on the wrinkles, the excess fat, and the tiredness, pain on your face. These arms can hold tight, these lips can be passionate, these words can be sweet, this person may have once loved us deeply, then can also be like that with another woman. Don't have the crazy ambition that you can keep the man you love by your side for a lifetime.

6. Desire

For men, sometimes the unfamiliar is also delicious. Grilling meat in front of ascetic monks won't make them rush to eat, but it'll make their mouths water. But no one trades rice to eat grilled meat for a lifetime. Wise men only want more, they don't want to trade. Because the lifelong loyalty of a man cannot be bound. Feel lucky if your man professionally, safely, cleanly, and discreetly cheats. For example, knowing to use self-bought condoms only, knowing about HIV/AIDS, STDs, or that syphilis can be transmitted orally, how to detect hotel cameras... Oh, the profession has many intricacies! There's no need to waste money and time lying in pain at the beauty salon, to tighten facial skin, to liposuction, to breast lift, to gossip about new, exotic bed positions to keep your husband. Sometimes sushi, sometimes fried rice, sometimes salted sesame rice, when bored, make it into porridge, that's innovation, but in the end, rice is still rice. We can't be the buffet they want. Being too jealous or too trusting is both mistakes. Occasionally, check for strange accounts logged into your husband's computer, and search them on Google. Who knows, you might see your husband on some dark web sharing experiences of cultivating vegetables, writing love reports, asking for shares, or reviewing your bear. 'Make love' and 'sex' are two completely different things. Not every man understands that. Then they gradually forget the hand-holding, the tight hugs, the gentle kisses, women become old dolls to them, slowly forgetting the warm touches.

7. Void

Living a lifetime with a man is truly terrifying. Every day they seem more and more unfamiliar, more different from who they were in the early days of love. Unable to bear a life where love keeps fading away. Lurking in the kitchen, taking care of the children, receiving a little pity and care from the husband as if it were a favor. Ignoring one's aging, getting fat and sloppy, getting angry because of serving husband and children, then worrying about how to keep the husband from getting bored, not seeking other beds, younger and more attractive. Don't be proud and justify to everyone that you've sacrificed, you've been very noble, that you've done it for the family, for the children. Who cares, who's interested. For me, once love for someone else is gone, I will love myself, including children or marriage certificates, they're all equally meaningless. Each of us is born only once and only has one life to live. We have no right to sacrifice ourselves for others. Especially in this backward human society that calls itself modern, always evaluating and honoring women by what they've sacrificed for men. Truly ridiculous.

8. Release

Whatever can be held up, must be let down. Men leave when they've found someone else, women leave when there's no more affection. Once the desire to let go arises, every reason becomes reasonable. Don't blame them with old promises, by then they've truly been brainwashed, they've forgotten. Once something is broken, don't try to mend it, it just makes us pitiful and pathetic. Instead of burying oneself in the bed crying, swollen eyes and tangled hair, instead of waiting and searching like a fool, self-destructing with regret and pain. Self-respect always makes us more beautiful, higher than others. Hatred is never a wise choice. The sweetest revenge in love is forgiveness. Ten fingers clasped are not enough to keep each other.

Source: Compiled 

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