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Before crafting the Decoding the Secrets of Femininity series and amplifying the real man concept, authentic men were often labeled as alpha males. I don't deny the positive aspects of this concept, but I find it portraying all men in a singular type, a category.
But in the battlefield of romance, I observe that there are numerous types of men when it comes to winning women's hearts.
In reality, the alpha male concept isn't entirely wrong. The leader, the one at the top, always receives the best favors.
But without those beneath, how would there be someone above?
And one man's power can't possibly encompass billions of women worldwide. Qin Shi Huang had 50 children and around 100 concubines, Emperor Wu had 6 wives and over 500 concubines, Casanova had more than 300 lovers. No one can monopolize women. No matter how big a brand is, it can't capture the entire market.
Therefore, there are many other types of men who attract women. Here are the 5 most typical types in Vietnam today. As for asking where the real man is? The real man doesn't conform to this hierarchy, but he exists in many forms, many different ways.
The Top 5 Men Styles That Attract Women the Most in Vietnam
In my time, we were called players. Back then, just throw on some flashy clothes, fix up from head to toe, chat over coffee in the morning, and party at the bar with loads of snacks and sweets, known as a lively feast. It was quite the womanizing style. That's the type of men who knew how to have fun.
Nowadays, they call it playboys, but within reasonable limits. Like being fashionable, knowing how to eat, play, and enjoy life. But don't overdo it, if you're too flashy, nowadays most girls are also turned off.
You can see the absurdity of it, right? I find it paradoxical as hell too. The truth is, girls don't care much about your intelligence. Their intelligence lies in eloquence, social intelligence. They don't give a damn about your calculations, reasoning, or strategies. That's the harsh truth, girls are more into men who know how to have a good time than academically smart men.
2) Men with a lot of money who also show care
Type 2 of men who captivate women - those who are wealthy and know how to care. Let me tell you, these guys don't need to understand what conquest is, don't need to grasp women's psychology. All they need to do is say, 'I really like you, I want to care for you, pamper you.' Then, whatever you like, whatever you want, they'll get it for you. When girls see someone going all out for them, they'll be impressed.
And that's it, no need to say much. Everything is very easygoing. The downside is if you don't choose a good girl, she'll leave when you run out of money. Expectations will end when expectations are disappointed, that's it.
3) Men who know how to talk
Men who know how to talk often talk nonsense. Everyone talks, and then everyone claims to be the best talker. However, the issue is not that simple. Knowing how to talk means, first of all, understanding the gender you are talking to. Most men speak to both men and women in the same manner, not realizing that talking to men is one thing and talking to women requires a different approach. I've discussed this extensively in the Decoding the Enigma of Womanhood book.
But the issue is not that simple. Knowing how to talk means, first of all, understanding the gender you are talking to. Most men speak to both men and women in the same manner, not realizing that talking to men is one thing and talking to women requires a different approach. I've discussed this extensively in the Decoding the Enigma of Womanhood book.
So, knowing how to talk means understanding the psychology of women. When they speak like that, they are upset; when they speak like that, they need encouragement; when they speak like that, they are suspicious. You have to gauge their emotions to say what is appropriate.
In addition, you have to combine it with your tone of voice. When your voice needs to be firm, when it needs to be sweet, when it needs to be decisive, etc. Girls love with their ears and only like sweet, honey-like words. So, this type of man may not need money or know how to have fun and dress well, yet girls still like him.
4) Men unafraid of shame
Type 4 of men is the unashamed man. It may sound thrilling, but those with a bold face, unashamed, will attract many women.
Ahem... That's the bright side. On the darker side, it's about not fearing scandals, not fearing absurdity, not fearing criticism.
The issue is not whether these people are more skilled or have more qualities than you. It's like having only one arrow. You shoot it, and if it deviates, you give up. But those unashamed individuals throw one arrow after another, from one target to another, until they hit the bull's-eye.
That's the difference. Your chance is only once. Then you feel embarrassed, ugly, afraid of rejection. Unashamed men have many opportunities; they dare to create opportunities.
Type 5: The Deceptive Man
The final type of man is the one with a deceptive demeanor. Now, the issue goes like this. When men pursue their desires, they often want to have it all. But for women, they only want one.
For most men, you wouldn't want to cause pain or distress to that girl. So, even though you may still fantasize about other girls, when in a relationship, you put everything aside. But deceptive men are not like that. They say they love, they say they want to marry, but once their purpose is fulfilled, they break up.
That's why when you stop, they keep going. And the number of girls they sleep with will be higher than the majority of other men.
If you find women hard to understand, it's just because you haven't grasped women's psychology. In reality, they are too easy to comprehend and recognize once you grasp some basic but crucial principles discussed in the Decoding the Enigma of Womanhood book. Don't miss your opportunity just because of two words: DON'T KNOW!
Posted by: Nguyen Truong
Keywords: 5 types of men who captivate women the most, women easily enchanted and moved
