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My child used to not be very attractive, but after a period of perseverance in trying various beauty methods for my child from a young age, my child has improved significantly.
Reading your confession about having an unattractive daughter in 'Mother's guilt for having an ugly daughter,' I see you as a brave mother for honestly criticizing your daughter's flaws. Only when you love and care for your child can you dare to express your true thoughts. I agree with you that having an unattractive daughter will be very disadvantageous in the future. Nowadays, everywhere you look for jobs, people also require height and appearance. If your child lacks these factors, it will be very difficult.
But hey, instead of sitting there complaining and feeling sad, I advise you to go online and research ways to raise a beautiful child. Your child is still young, so there is still time to help improve their appearance. I remember my Sumo child used to not be very attractive either, but after a period of my perseverance in 'touching up,' my child, who is now only 6 years old, has improved significantly. She is always praised as 'beautiful like a princess.'
Sumo's praise makes me feel as good as if I were being complimented myself. Everyone praises my good parenting skills, saying that I have a child 'as beautiful as a painting,' but in reality, it just takes attention and perseverance to follow a few small secrets. Here, I'll share with all mothers some tips to help raise a child as beautiful as an angel.
1. Beautiful eyebrows with betel leaves
In my family, we naturally have light eyebrow genes. From my grandparents to my parents and me, we all have the same trait—thin eyebrows with a pale color instead of being bold and defined. When I found out I was having a daughter, I worried a lot. If Sumo inherited the family's genes, her eyebrows wouldn't be beautiful. So, I kept asking around for ways to improve that issue, fearing that like her mother, she would have to painstakingly draw her eyebrows every time she went out.
Ways to beautify your child from an early age with betel leaves
Back then, my cousin told me that to make eyebrows grow long and arched, right after giving birth when the baby is not even a month old, you can buy betel leaves, cut off the stems, and use the sap to draw the shape of the eyebrows. I heard that later the eyebrows will grow along that curve, so they will look beautiful. Furthermore, she also said that if you don't use betel leaf stems, you can use 'co nhoi' grass to draw eyebrows for the baby while still in the first month. Actively drawing the eyebrows with 'co nhoi' grass also makes them dark, tidy, quick to grow, and arched.
I was a bit hesitant not knowing if it was true, but when I saw the eyebrows of her two daughters that immediately made me want to do the same for my child because they were so beautiful and defined. Thanks to the effort of 'styling' the eyebrows for my child, now everyone who sees Sumo has to praise her impressive eyebrows. Remember, for boys, draw 7 times, for girls, draw 9 times, to ensure effectiveness.
2. Fair and rosy skin thanks to coconut water
Girls with dark and dull skin will look less attractive, suffer in choosing clothes, and may not make a good impression on others. My husband and I are lucky to have fair skin, so luckily Sumo also inherits this beauty from her parents. However, I still use some natural remedies to maintain her fair and youthful skin.
Beauty tips for children from an early age using coconut water
When Sumo was 6 months old, I started giving her coconut water. When introducing coconut water to her, I only gave her 2-3 teaspoons a day at first, once a day, then gradually increased both density and quantity. I usually give her coconut water about 1 hour before her rice meal, and it's essential to drink during the day. I'm very meticulous and careful about beautifying my child, so when choosing coconut water for her, I only let her drink it right after opening, never if it's been left out for more than 10 minutes. Everyone says they're careful, but I'm willing to go the extra mile for my child's health and future.
3. Use coconut oil for dark eyelashes, straight hair
To raise a beautiful child, you can't forget about beautifying eyelashes and hair. I don't know about others, but personally, I love girls with long, smooth black hair. Unfortunately, I don't have hair like that, so I promised myself that if I had a daughter, I would take care of her hair. 'Hair is a person's crowning glory,' so I always prioritize my child's hair.
After knowing I was having a daughter, I had to search online for many keywords related to 'how to naturally make hair smooth and black,' and my choice after days of searching was coconut oil. Now, every time I shampoo Sumo's hair, before rinsing, I apply a little coconut oil, massage gently, and then rinse with water. I use it regularly once a week, and now her hair is always shiny, not only that but also thicker, grows faster, and healthier.
Beauty tips for children from an early age using coconut oil
Another small tip for mothers who want their children to have long and curly eyelashes is to be diligent in applying coconut oil to the lashes before bedtime. Mothers, use a cotton swab dipped in coconut oil and brush the lashes, stroking from the roots to the tips for both upper and lower lashes. Thanks to its rich nutrients, coconut oil can stimulate eyelash growth and make them thicker.
4. Stretching arms and legs from an early age for long legs and slender arms
My mother-in-law is also someone who values appearance, so when she saw my determination to beautify my child, she was delighted. Not only did she encourage me, but she also actively provided effective beauty tips from our ancestors, including the technique of stretching arms and legs for newborns to have long legs and slender arms. My mother-in-law also emphasized that under no circumstances should the baby be carried under the armpits to avoid leg deformities.
Beauty tips for children from an early age using the stretching technique for arms and legs
At first, I only dared to gently stroke my child's tiny fingers from top to bottom; as for stretching the legs, the technique was more difficult, it had to be done from the thighs down to the ankles, gently and regularly, but when moving from the thighs down to the knees, it had to slightly press inward. When Sumo was still a baby, I used to do this with her once a day in the morning after changing diapers. But as she grew up and I dreamed of her having slender and graceful legs like a model, I would actively stretch her legs every time I changed her diaper, bathed her, or played with her... So now, whenever someone touches her arms or legs, she automatically stretches them out for a massage.
5. Red lips thanks to olive oil
To give Sumo soft and rosy lips, I regularly apply olive oil to her lips. Especially in dry weather like now, without careful care, young lips can easily become dry, cracked, and even bleed. When applying olive oil to the lips, mothers don't need to worry if their child accidentally swallows it because olive oil is completely edible and very safe.
In addition to its beauty benefits for the lips, olive oil is also considered a miracle remedy for soft hands. After using it for a while, Sumo's hands are soft and naturally white, everyone who holds them has to praise and tease, 'Your hands will definitely be comfortable and happy in the future.'
Beauty tips for children from an early age with olive oil
6. Learn swimming, cycling to give children long legs
Raising a child with long legs and tall stature is perhaps the desire of many parents, and I am no exception. I've never had the advantage of height, so I always have to equip myself with high heels. Therefore, to help my child avoid the struggle with figure like me, I choose to have Sumo engage in sports that promote height growth from a young age.
At the age of 5, I started teaching my child how to swim because, as I understand it, swimming is one of the sports that promotes overall physical development, especially height. Swimming helps increase the production of nitric and lactate hormones, which are growth hormones that improve height. Moreover, children who enjoy swimming will have a strong immune system due to their confident, cheerful, independent, and adaptable mindset. Movement underwater also stimulates nerve fibers in the brain to develop. Therefore, children become smarter and more flexible through swimming lessons.
In addition to swimming, I also encourage Sumo to ride a bike every day. According to recent studies by experts, if children are trained to ride bikes from a young age, they will reduce the risk of heart disease and many other dangerous illnesses by over 50%. At the same time, if they learn to ride a bike early, children will equip themselves with a sense of autonomy, independence without depending on the help of family members, increase flexibility...
7. Eat plenty of green vegetables, soybeans for a well-rounded bust
To help my child have a well-rounded bust in the future, I researched and inquired about many formulas. Ultimately, I was most impressed with the two most familiar and simplest ways: feeding my child plenty of green vegetables and giving her soy milk.
Beauty tips for children from an early age with soy milk
In my child's daily menu, one of the indispensable types of vegetables such as cabbage, broccoli, cauliflower, spinach... cannot be missed. These leafy green vegetables contain many indoles and sulforaphane, which are phytochemicals (natural chemical compounds found in plants) capable of defeating toxins and carcinogens. When preparing green vegetables, I often choose 'boiled' dishes instead of stir-frying because boiled dishes will preserve nutrients well and cause less alteration.
The second 'medicine' that can help my child develop her bust is soy milk. Soybeans contain a substance called phytoestrogen, or plant estrogen. This is a substance with a structure similar to the estrogen hormone of humans, a female hormone that affects many characteristics of the female body, including the bust. Therefore, I always believe in and give my child soy milk every day. However, mothers should note not to give their child more than 500ml of soy milk per day. Drinking too much can cause indigestion, bloating, diarrhea, and adversely affect the digestive system.
Those are the tips for raising my princess-like beautiful child. Mothers can refer to them, I guarantee they are effective because now, seeing my beautiful daughter, chubby, snow-white skin, lips as red as lipstick, I feel very happy for properly taking care of her. Perhaps not only myself but any mother would want their children to be beautiful, smarter than their peers, so I am extremely proud to see Sumo fairer, brighter than many peers.
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