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1. People are often irrational, ignorant, and selfish. But no matter what, love them.
Humans are truly incomprehensible. Some people are not very likable, making it difficult for us to connect and love them. Others often act unreasonably, ignorantly, selfishly, and consider themselves the center of the world, causing us harm. But regardless, let's love them.
Love is the greatest gift that people can give to each other. It is a gift that we should give to receive. Life cannot be complete without love. So, do not limit your life when you feel incapable of loving others.
It would be a tragedy if you had to narrow down the objects to love, to choose not to like these people because they do not give you what you want; Dislike those others because they are selfish, do not pay attention to those whom you think do not deserve your care.
Surely we have encountered or known some people that every time we are with them, we just feel bored, annoyed, and tense. We feel they are demanding, irrational, selfish, arrogant, and so on. At such times, remember that we are also sometimes people like that; we just don't see ourselves. Therefore, let's love everyone sincerely. Whether you believe it or not, love is still worshiped by humanity, a miraculous thing that can humanize people. Living in love, people become friendlier, lovable, more approachable, and reduce some bad qualities, as the poet Theodore Roethke once said: 'Love always begets love.'
Remember, we humans are neither better nor worse than anyone else; we are just different.
2. If successful, you will encounter fake friends and true enemies. But no matter what, strive for success
Friendship is lifelong based on mutual trust. The more sincere the friendship, the stronger the trust. There will be those who claim friendship for their own benefit, and that is entirely understandable. Therefore, what you need to do is be wise not to unintentionally lose a pure friendship. At the same time, be careful not to become a victim of your own success.
You should not run away from or avoid relationships that you think are not sincere friendships. You can see that relationship as mutual exploitation or as a collaborative and friendly partnership for mutual benefit. If they do not see any value in you other than power, position, wealth, etc., then that is their deficiency and loss.
On your part, try to take advantage of the opportunities from your success to perceive people and situations insightfully, thereby finding suitable and deserving partners. Without success, you won't have as many choices. So, no matter what, keep striving for success.
3. If you do good, people may think you're doing it for selfish reasons. But no matter what, do good
The truth is, we all face moments where we're questioned: 'Is he genuinely good or just a moral pretender?' Or we often have a cynical view, thinking those who help others are nosy. But as long as we are conscious that what we are doing is entirely right, let's boldly take action.
We live in a chaotic world, full of paradoxes. Humans will never stop doubting, but regardless, you still need to do what you believe is right. That is how you find the meaning of life, living authentically and wholeheartedly without being influenced by jealousy and unfounded speculation.
4. Being straightforward and honest may cause you pain. However, no matter what, live with integrity
When we treat each other with sincerity and honesty, we undoubtedly build sustainable relationships because only then do we truly understand each other. Without those qualities, we become naive, unintentionally causing harm to ourselves and others.
Living in a chaotic and complex world, to protect ourselves, we tend to walk carefully in the carefully crafted armor. However, the inconvenience of wearing this protective layer is the feeling of being constrained. It is sturdy but rigid and restrictive, undoubtedly limiting your growth. There will come a day when you feel suffocated to the point of almost being unable to breathe. Therefore, shed it all and boldly step out of the shell to be yourself.
Live sincerely and candidly. This requires considerable effort. Dare to seek the meaning of your life. Just do what you want, what you believe is necessary, and embrace all the consequences regardless of what happens.
5. The good deeds you do today may be forgotten. But no matter what, do good
When you do the right thing, the first and only person who needs to know and remember that action is yourself. Because that awareness, that memory, will be the foundation that helps shape the meaning of your own life.
Life has many seemingly small things that contain a tremendous meaning, capable of bringing a smile or a great source of encouragement to someone. If you can do things like making someone smile when they meet a familiar face on the street, helping someone carry a heavy load, willingly giving up your seat for an elderly person on the bus... perhaps no one will notice or remember you, but if you can't do them, then you have lost the value of yourself.
Do good because it is our nature. Do good because it not only helps others but also gives you a truly comfortable and content feeling. Do good because those things will be the beacon lighting the path to finding the meaning of life and your own values. So, just do what you think you should do without caring whether it is recognized or rewarded. Nevertheless, always believe that there is always someone witnessing and understanding what you do, and that person is none other than yourself. You are the only one who needs to know that. This life is yours, so, no matter the cost, live it to the fullest, not for anyone but yourself.
6. People often appear sympathetic to the vulnerable but follow the strong. Nevertheless, fight for the weak
Normally, we tend to sympathize with those in difficult circumstances. We express outrage at the injustices and difficulties they face. We love stories with a happy ending where the underdog can overcome all obstacles and challenges to achieve the ultimate victory. And we always hope that happiness will come to them.
But few of us dare to take risks, to sacrifice ourselves for others. Ironically, when speaking up to defend the underprivileged, we have turned ourselves into the pitiable second party, putting our future, career, and honor at stake... So, in many cases, our hearts lean towards them, but reason chooses a different path. We go with the majority, wanting to avoid trouble, and live in indifference. Of course, not everyone vulnerable is innocent, not everything they do is truly worth caring about. Time and wisdom will help you discern who among them truly deserves your care and support.
In such situations, trust the guidance of your heart and your own judgments. Doing good not only has meaning for others but also has meaning for ourselves, as it creates the true meaning of life. Expand your empathetic heart to those who suffer.
7. Individuals with grand ideas may be overwhelmed by those with lowly scheming. But no matter what, always think big
The world desperately needs great individuals with personalities that think big, with generosity, dedication, principled living; those who dare to explore completely new methods, appreciate and seize opportunities, individuals capable of seeing the world completely differently from its current state...
The world also needs individuals with the ability to present groundbreaking ideas that can make a difference to propel humanity forward. But ironically, those with aspirations to bring a brighter tomorrow for humanity become threats and sources of fear for ordinary people. These ordinary folks are not necessarily evil, nor are they the 'scum' of society; on the contrary, they may be educated, have status, and lead comfortable lives. However, their limitation lies in a narrow and short-sighted vision.
For them, life is only what appears before their eyes, and they are entirely content with such a life. Therefore, they do not want change or disruption. The ordinary are always dominated by fleeting desires, personal needs, and fears. Sadly, the number of ordinary individuals is always hundreds of times greater than the great ones in this world. They are present everywhere, in all social classes, every profession, and they are even found in both government and non-profit organizations. Wherever they are, whatever they do, they always try to subdue the great minds with thoughts and dreams of a grand scale, all just to protect their personal interests.
A big idea – a bold dream – will give more meaning to your life. It will chart a direction and set goals for you to strive for. If the implementation of those ideas 'falls' to the ground, just pick it up, dust it off, and try again. Every step toward achieving goals and realizing dreams carries great significance, bringing us belief and happiness when contributing to the world.
8. You might face betrayal when helping others. Nevertheless, always lend a helping hand
Life is diverse, so we don't always know how to handle everything. Knowing when to seek help and where to find it are fundamental factors for the survival and happiness of every individual.
Some people always reject help because they dislike the feeling of helplessness, having to rely on others. Others, while not refusing, feel extremely frustrated because they think their self-esteem is damaged.
Look around, and you'll see that everywhere there are people in need of assistance. These individuals are especially sensitive when someone recognizes the reality of their deadlock. So, if they respond to your kindness with hostility, believe that it's not what they want. Don't let their self-pity or pride hinder you from doing good. You yourself have received help from many people, so help bring those good deeds to many others.
Take action and experience the profound meaning of your actions. And if you're going to do it, do it with all your heart to contribute to positive changes in the lives of those around you, as well as for yourself.
9. Achievements that took you years to build can be destroyed in a moment. But regardless, keep on building
What you diligently construct throughout your life: your career, relationships, accomplishments... can crumble or be destroyed at some point, perhaps overnight, or they may persist for a long time and suddenly vanish. It's the inevitable law of an ever-changing world.
Old buildings are pulled down to make way for new skyscrapers. Over time, newer innovations replace previous ones. Ideas evolve to keep pace with life. Sometimes, the legacy we leave behind is only a belief, a memory, an experience... but they are entirely worth the effort we put in. No matter what happens, the crucial thing is the joy in the process of building all of that will forever belong to us.
10. You give life your very best, and in return, you might receive a harsh slap. But nevertheless, live life to the fullest
Live life to the fullest, no matter what happens. The price for dedication may be steep, but it will undoubtedly be much higher if you decide not to live fully, for then you cannot live true to your nature.
The world doesn't demand that you always present yourself, always think of others and forget yourself. The world also doesn't demand constant sacrifice. But if you want to live a meaningful life, seize every opportunity to contribute your strength, and if possible, create them.
Give to see what you have. Don't view helping others as a sacrifice, but as an opportunity to express your humanity, capability, and values. Each person is inherently unique upon birth. Each of us holds certain values for ourselves, the community, and society.
So, we are always in a position ready to contribute. If you don't dedicate yourself to this world, what part of yourself are you planning to give to another world? Life is the gift bestowed upon you by the creator. Live in a way that makes this gift more meaningful. Live with full commitment and act according to what your personality, conscience, and awareness dictate.
How the world responds to you is not important. Because more than anyone else, you know what you are doing, and you have tasted the flavor of a truly fulfilling life. Living true to your nature is the most meaningful thing that makes this life delightful.
