Buzz
1. Embracing Personal Happiness
Defining happiness is a myriad of interpretations. However, life itself proves that true happiness comes when you stop demanding, cease complaining, and always feel an abundance of energy and joy.
'Wishing you a hundred years of happiness,' does this sound familiar? It does because at every wedding, people wish each other just that. And inadvertently, a thought is engraved in your mind: Happiness requires a partner.
I have loving parents, supportive friends, a job with an income sufficient for my needs, and the health to fully enjoy this life. What more could I ask for? To me, that is happiness.
Even though labeled 'single,' women can create their joy, their happiness. You will always know how to pamper yourself and cherish your being.
3. Take full control of your own life
When I express this opinion, many people ask me: Are married women passive? I answer simply like this: Whether our women are married or single, we always have to stand in an active position in our lives.
I remember one time, around 2 a.m., my university friend called and cried, saying she was about to get married, that the other family would arrange everything for her, buy a house, buy a car... her parents had agreed and planned everything. I laughed, then just marry him.
If you are ready to face difficulties that may come at any time, always have a Plan B in every plan, be strong enough to overcome everything, be willing to take responsibility for all your decisions. Well then, life allows you to be single.
4. Satellites Surrounding You - No Shortage and No Need to Decline Dates
When presenting this list, I pondered quite a bit, wondering if it's too bold. Not at all, because we're modern women.
I have a younger single sibling who never responds to messages or date invitations from the guys around her. I asked, and she said: No emotions. I burst into laughter: Soulfully impaired, indeed. No emotions or maybe because you still remember someone, because you've suffered before, because you think you've outgrown the flirting stage. You're completely wrong!
Everyone is like that; we've all dated, loved, had our ideal man. So, continue doing that while you still can.
When you're single, you have the right to be pursued. Just let it be; it only proves that you're just not ready to get married yet.
7. You are mature enough to understand: Love is not everything!
During my university days, I loved someone who claimed I was their first love and that no one could ever replace me in their heart. Upon graduation, we parted ways, and they fell in love with someone else. I came to understand: Nothing is unique!
Later, I fell in love with a man who made promises of marriage and a lifetime together, yet disappeared without a word. I learned: Nothing is everlasting!
Pressured by my parents to get married, I found someone suitable through matchmaking. We introduced each other to our families, thinking a wedding was imminent. However, at the last moment, he said: It's just a fleeting feeling for me. I realized: Nothing is definite!
Do you know, after numerous heartbreaks, I not only survived but thrived. And I realized: Nothing is impossible!
10. You are a beautiful and beauty-conscious woman
You radiate joy and happiness, content with your life. Your financial independence and passionate work ethic define you. Be the master of your destiny, a truly beautiful woman surrounded by admirers.
Your life is yours. Take the time to beautify yourself, both literally and metaphorically. Shine for yourself, and no one will dare to label you with a single word like 'single.'
