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1. Embrace the Power of Smiles
Smiles speak a language more special than any national language on Earth because people everywhere understand its meaning. A bright, radiant smile will make you approachable, friendly in the eyes of others, and they will feel much more affectionate towards you.
Your expression tells the world what kind of person you are. If you always smile, people will perceive your life as enjoyable, and they believe you are continually successful. Maintaining a cheerful demeanor ensures you receive smiles in return.
2. Avoid Aimless Glances
When facing a dull story, reactions often include glancing around for something more interesting, stifling a yawn, or indulging in nail-biting boredom. These subtle cues indicate deep-seated ennui, silently begging the other party to stop talking. Polite individuals never behave like that but instead try to patiently endure in silence until the very end.
It seems discourteous to be engrossed in a smartphone while someone is speaking or enjoying an outing with you. To remedy this, temporarily halt any frivolous antics or distance yourself from technological distractions. Allocate more time for conversation, as it is an excellent way to enhance your communication skills.
5. Remember Each Name
Some people have the uncanny ability to remember names. If you don't possess that skill, find an alternative approach: “Hello there… Oh, greetings, my dear friend. Welcome! You're the one who assisted me in completing that project. I'll never forget…”.
The name is the sweetest word one can hear. If you happen to forget it, substitute with other pleasant words. You'll quickly forget if you merely try to memorize names by rote. However, if you highlight facial features and names as memorable images, recalling them becomes effortless. When introduced to a name, pay attention to what makes them uniquely interesting or appealing. Select a distinctive feature and imprint it into your memory by vividly emphasizing it.
During conversations, frequently mention that name when appropriate. Later, you might need to jot down the person's name on paper along with the image you've associated with it. Review this list at a suitable time, especially before attending an upcoming workshop or meeting where new attendees might include familiar faces.
6. Mastering the Art of Listening
When others are speaking, refrain from creating noise, stay silent, and look into their eyes attentively. Leaning slightly forward is even better, enough for others to sense your enthusiasm for what they are saying.
If you can pinpoint issues in the relationship that make you uncomfortable, address them immediately. Express it with kindness, and you'll avoid pushing your partner into a defensive stance. To initiate a fruitful conversation, start with a thoughtful question, even if you have to begin with a broad query about your relationship. Be prepared to listen attentively.
7. Regular Practice
It's not by chance that our elders advise, “Learn to eat, learn to speak, learn to wrap, learn to open.” The ability to speak, or more precisely, to communicate, is the key to connecting with those around you. Even if you're naturally inclined, regular practice is never redundant. Even when you don't feel confident, it's essential to courageously practice. Break free from the safety threshold you've set for yourself to move towards positive outcomes. The habit of consistent practice is not only beneficial in communication but in any scenario, serving as a positive sign to bring you closer to success.
8. Maintain a Positive Attitude and Smile
Strive to be friendly, optimistic, and positive towards others. What you need to do is maintain a positively cheerful attitude towards life: when things don't go as planned, stay optimistic and learn from your mistakes. If you smile frequently and live joyfully, others may respond more positively to you.
In addition to the advice given above, you can try attending workshops with seasoned speakers. Observe the gestures and demeanor of the speakers, and pay attention to the changes in their tone. Before you know it, you'll start noticing gradual improvements in your communication style, and once you've mastered this skill, you'll experience positive impacts on your work and relationships.
9. Talk About Their Hobbies
The 'I' makes people enjoy talking about themselves. So, alongside sharing about yourself, listen to others talk about themselves. When you see someone wearing a t-shirt with the image of a music star, discuss that star. If the other person responds, it means you've created a friendly atmosphere in your conversation with them. If your partner doesn't react, it indicates they might be cautious or prefer discussing work only.
Offer words, actions, or compliments to uplift others. Make others feel welcomed, anticipated, respected, and valued during communication. If you let others know they are valued, there's a higher chance they will bring positive things into your life. Ensure everyone is engaged in the interaction or communication process, including using body language effectively and asking open-ended questions.
10. Be Attentive to Others' Emotions
To enhance communication skills, you cannot overlook the importance of being attentive to the emotions of the other person. You can't continue communicating when the other person is not interested in your conversation or, in other words, does not want to engage.
Positive emotions signal that you should continue in that communication direction, while indifference or lack of interest means you should either shift the conversation or pause the communication at this point.
