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6. Engage in Genuine and Open Conversations
The first date is all about getting to know each other; hence, strive to be sincere and open. Pretending to be someone else only leads to further complications, so be yourself when conversing with them.
While you shouldn't become someone else, topics like sexual needs, past relationships, and life difficulties should be discussed later. Although most of us consider religion and politics as taboo topics, if worried it will cause trouble later on, don't hesitate to address it.


7. Propose Splitting the Bill
Sometimes it's challenging to decide who should foot the bill for a date. Typically, the one extending the invitation is expected to pay, but it's still polite to offer to contribute. If they decline, you can suggest going Dutch and pay for your share.
They might still refuse, but making the offer shows that you're not expecting a free meal. While men are often expected to pay, such gender norms are less common with younger generations.


8. Focus on the Present, Maintain Balance in Conversation
When engaging with present company, focus on everyday topics rather than delving into past issues, whether personal or pertaining to your date. Revisiting past disappointments or grievances is likely to dampen the mood and hinder prolonged conversation. This can lead to a decline in the outing's enjoyment and a premature end.
During conversations, it's important to strike a balance between talking about oneself and focusing on the other person. While sharing about ourselves is natural and showcases our personality, excessive self-centeredness can lead the other party to lose interest and perceive you as egocentric. In conversations, it's beneficial to both share about oneself and ask questions to show genuine interest in the other person, fostering emotional connection and understanding.


9. Dressing to Impress
When we talk about dressing to impress, it's not necessarily about wearing suits or tuxedos like celebrities do for parties or red carpet events. Instead, aim for outfits and hairstyles that are neat, clean, and perhaps a hint of fragrance wouldn't hurt. Opt for a shirt paired with jeans, stylish yet youthful. It's essential to choose attire that fits well, avoiding clothes that are too tight or too loose.
Moreover, selecting the right pair of shoes is crucial. Choose shoes with subtle, harmonious colors that match your outfit, and select footwear appropriate for the type of clothing you're wearing. For instance, shirts with trousers should be paired with leather shoes, while jeans with t-shirts should go with sneakers. Pay attention to your attire and hair—it's incredibly important for a first date.


10. Planning for Future Dates and Keeping in Touch
If you're genuinely interested and eager to meet them again, don't wait too long. Suggest another date and continue to stay in touch. Plan the next outing together and inquire about their preferences for food and activities to make arrangements for the next date.
If you've had a wonderful date, remember to reach out to them the next day. Thank them for spending time with you and express your desire to meet again. If they don't answer the phone, leave a message. While calling is often the best option, you can still keep in touch via text or social media if that's how you usually communicate.


