1. Speech during the Threshold Ceremony
Dear honored guests and all present here.
Firstly, allow me to convey the utmost respect on behalf of the groom's family to the bride's family. We sincerely wish good health and prosperity to the relatives from the bride's side gathered here today.
Allow me to introduce the members of the groom's family present at the threshold ceremony today, including myself, Nguyen Van A, the uncle of Nguyen Van B and the representative of the groom's side. Here is Mrs. Le Thi Kim C, the grandmother of Nguyen Van B, followed by the parents and aunts of the groom....
After a period of getting to know each other, the relationship has matured, and today, the two are eager to come together under one roof, to be husband and wife. Following the wishes of the couple and with the permission of the bride's family, our groom's family is here to introduce ourselves to the bride's family and seek their approval for the union.
For today's threshold ceremony, our groom's family has prepared 5 ceremonial gifts to be presented to the bride's family. We hope that the bride's family will approve, allowing the two to become husband and wife. I would like to invite the mother of Nguyen Van A and Mrs. Le Thi C to open all the ceremonial gifts brought by the groom's side. Our groom's family also hopes that the bride's family will accept the ceremonial gifts and agree to the happiness and union of the couple.
On behalf of the groom's family, I would like to thank the bride's family for their warm welcome, making today's betrothal ceremony a successful and beautiful event. We hope that both will love and support each other, standing side by side on the journey of life, fulfilling the duties of both families.
Our family appreciates the presence of uncles, aunts, and grandparents who attended today's ceremony. With that, we seek permission to leave and look forward to meeting the bride's family again in the upcoming bride reception and wedding ceremony.
Thank you!


2. Speech during the Groom's Family's Bride Request Ceremony
Respected grandparents, parents, siblings, and dear friends of both families.
Firstly, on behalf of the groom's family, I extend warm wishes for the health of the elders, siblings, and close friends from both families present here to celebrate the happiness of the couple...
Allow me to introduce myself as... of the couple... With the approval of both families, today, our family seeks permission to represent the groom's side and respectfully offer the betel nut tray to the ancestors on the bride's side. We also seek permission to welcome the bride... into our family and make her a part of our lineage. Simultaneously, our family seeks permission from Mr. ... and Mrs. ... for the bride... to become their daughter-in-law. We kindly request the acceptance of the betel nut tray and the bride request from the groom's family.
Dear grandparents, parents, siblings, and friends of the couple.
The auspicious moment has arrived, and on behalf of the groom's family delegation, I sincerely thank the warm reception from the bride's family towards our delegation. We hope that the bond between the two families will strengthen over time. Now, with the permission of the elders, siblings, and friends, the groom's family invites the bride... to their home to organize the wedding ceremony. We kindly invite the grandparents, parents, siblings, and friends of the couple from the groom's side to join in the celebration with our family.
I sincerely thank you.


3. Speech during the Groom's Family's Engagement Ceremony
Dear guests and all esteemed attendees.
Firstly, on behalf of the groom's family, I extend heartfelt wishes for abundant health, prosperity, and happiness to all distinguished guests.
Allow me to introduce the members of the groom's family: I am named... and represent the groom's family. Present at today's ceremony from the groom's side are: Mr. ... as the ... of the couple; next is Mrs. ... as the ... of the couple, and other members of our family.
After months of getting to know each other, the couple... and ... have explored their relationship and desire to move towards marriage to be bonded together for a lifetime. Following the wishes of the couple, today on this auspicious day, our groom's family has prepared 9 ceremonial gifts for the engagement ceremony to present to the bride's family, hoping that the bride's family will accept and allow the couple to be united in matrimony.
Next, I would like to invite Mr./Mrs. ... as the ... of the couple... and Mr./Mrs. ... as the ... of the couple... to open the ceremonial gifts so that everyone can witness, and we hope for the family's approval for the couple to embark on a happy union. Thank you.'


4. Speech during the Wedding Ceremony
Representative from the groom's family:
“Respected guests, dear family members, and all distinguished attendees! On behalf of both families, I sincerely thank the presence of our elders, esteemed guests, and all of you who have gathered to witness the marriage ceremony of our two beloved ones today. In this festive season, I wish you all abundant health, family happiness, and prosperity. Today, our family organizes a warm family meal and cordially invites all our elders, aunts, uncles, and esteemed guests to raise a toast to celebrate the happiness of our two children, namely... and ... I sincerely thank you.”
From the bride's family:
“Our ancestors had a saying that when the son is mature, he finds a wife, and when the daughter is mature, she finds a husband. Our daughter... is the eldest in our family, and this year, she has reached the age to settle down. With the blessings of the moon and stars, she has chosen her life partner, and today, we celebrate the wedding ceremony of our daughter... and her groom... Though our daughter... has grown up, she still lacks experience in life, and she has much to learn from the experienced elders, especially from her in-laws. Our family hopes that with guidance and reminders from both sides of the family, she will become a gracious daughter-in-law and a responsible wife. We wish the couple a lifetime of happiness and harmony.
On this auspicious day, both families unanimously agree to organize the wedding ceremony for the couple, allowing them to officially become husband and wife. We hope that our elders, aunts, uncles, brothers, and sisters from both sides will join in joy, raise their glasses to congratulate the happiness of the couple. Thank you.”
From the groom's family:
“To the entire extended family.
I want to express gratitude for the dignified reception from the entire bride's family. Thank you for the warm, thoughtful, and secure reception. I appreciate the sincere and responsible speech delivered by the representative from the bride's family and the advice given to the couple. Once again, on behalf of the groom's family, I would like to thank the grandparents, parents, uncles, aunts, and brothers and sisters who have devoted their valuable time to bring our child... into our family. We promise the bride's family that we will guide, assist, and fulfill our responsibilities to quickly integrate the couple into our family life and traditions. Following this, I invite both sides of our families to partake in betel chewing, drinking water, singing joyfully to wish blessings upon the young couple. Thank you sincerely!”


5. Speech during the Wedding Vows at the Restaurant, Wedding Reception Center
Dear honored guests, relatives, and friends.
On behalf of the groom's family, I extend our sincere gratitude to all the elders, brothers, sisters, and everyone who took the time to attend the wedding of our beloved couple, ... and ....
Our family is delighted to welcome ... as the daughter-in-law into our home. We promise the bride's family that we will guide, support, and fulfill our responsibilities to ensure a harmonious and warm life for the newlyweds. We also seek advice from the elders and family members on the bride's side to help the groom adapt to his new role. Your insights and wisdom will be invaluable in the journey ahead.
Now, let us all raise our glasses to toast and celebrate the happiness of our two loved ones.


