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In this article, let's delve into the concept of hidden meanings. Why is it the essence of attraction?
1. The Art of Subtle Communication: Unveiling Hidden Meanings
2. What Exactly Are Hidden Meanings?
3. Why is Hidden Meaning the Foundation of Communication Art?
4. 5 Examples of Subtle Communication with Women
'I'm just saying, no neighbor is kinder than ours.' The neighbor emphasized.
'Yes, nothing beats being neighbors with you two.' Dad replied as the child couldn't help but wonder, 'Why do adults talk to each other so hypocritically? The neighbors aren't as nice as she says. And dad doesn't really like that house. Saying yes, but not meaning it. Speaking the truth but not really. Weird!'
'Adults always speak with hidden meanings, son,' said the father.
I'm just like the child in the story. I really don't understand what adults are talking about. Wondering why they don't just speak straightforwardly?
Later on, as I delved deeper into the seduction art, I found myself becoming more and more intrigued.
The art of communication always contains hidden meanings within.
If you pay attention, you'll notice that there's always an underlying implication in every utterance.
Don't misunderstand. It's not about being fake or insincere. Everything we do involves incorporating a bit of art into the conquest and ultimately enjoying it.
Northerners tend to do this more often. In a Northern forum, you'll see how cleverly they insinuate. Characters aren't mentioned, but every reader understands who or what the content is referring to. Whereas Southerners are more direct, more open. Hence, communication flows more smoothly.
Sometimes I wish to be like a Southerner, straightforward, open, adventurous. Sometimes I want to remain the same, but more refined, more profound.
In attraction, there's one key element that nobody would want to teach or reveal to you. It's the origin, the foundation that casts its shadow over all subsequent skills. What I'm referring to is hidden meaning.
What is hidden meaning?
Hidden meaning is the message we convey intertwined with the main message. However, in reality, the hidden meaning is the message that needs to be conveyed. The main message is just an accompaniment.
For example: 'You don't care if I'm pretty or not.'
The message sounds absurd and somewhat insincere. Is there any man who wouldn't care if his lover is pretty or not? But the hidden meaning here is quite strong, so even if you say it a hundred times, women still won't find this statement unusual.
In the sentence above, the implication carries a reassuring meaning for the woman. Or it can be understood as, 'Right now, in my eyes, you're number one.'
Or another example that you often encounter is when a girl says this to you while confessing her feelings, 'I'm sorry, I need more time to decide.'
In 80% of situations, that's a hidden meaning. It doesn't mean she'll agree to love you after 5 days, 10 days, 6 months, 1 year. Her implication is simple: 'I don't have feelings for you.' In that case, it's best for you to understand the situation and step back.
When using hidden meanings, women won't hurt men's feelings. They believe that doing so will make men suffer less. While men using hidden meanings sound truly attractive, sophisticated, and profound.
Why is hidden meaning the foundation of communication art?
Attraction isn't an equation; in fact, it's illogical. I always see attraction as an art form. And art can't be 'straightforward', can't be forced, can't just say 'I like you' and hope the other person will also shout, 'I like you too.'
We need to do this more subtly. We need to do this more effectively. That's why there's room for hidden meanings.
All attraction stems from hidden meanings, remember that well. It's not just words. It also comes from actions, gestures, attitudes, body language, etc.
So before using attraction skills, especially like the conquering formula I introduce in Decoding the Mystery of the Fairer Sex. You need to understand hidden meanings before applying examples of attraction in the book, as well as defining examples for yourself.
Okay, to help you understand better, I'll give you 5 examples of hidden meanings in 5 different situations. So you can understand more about hidden meanings.
5 examples of hidden meanings in communication with women
Your target is Linh, you want to conquer Linh. Instead of just talking to Linh and Linh, you'll want to talk to Ngoc, get close to Giang. Sometimes you seem to like Ngoc. Sometimes Giang seems to want to keep you for herself. Your hidden message to convey is that Linh could lose you at any time.
Example 2: Striking up a conversation on the street
You strike up a conversation with a girl. After chatting for a while, she seems interested too, you'll say, 'I have an appointment in 5 minutes, let's meet again later.' The hidden message here is that you're showing your value. You're not free to spend all day flirting with girls on the street, chatting with them for hours, then bombarding them with dozens of texts. Either she gives you her phone number and hopes you'll contact her, or she'll lose you forever.
Example 3: Body language when communicating with women
I like to show slow but decisive attitude towards women. What do you think about the implication in the example above? It demonstrates confidence, strength, and masculinity. Whereas if you show yourself hastily and impulsively, you're subtly implying that you're impatient, immature.
Example 4: When you play the role of a good guy
Say no to being a nice guy. Nice guys befriend women, show up 24/7, offer rides everywhere, give gifts on every occasion. All outward actions are good, beautiful, excellent. But the hidden implication that women receive is that they'll be demanded something in return from the nice guy. A less attractive implication, that's also why nice guys often fail.
Example 5: Diverse implications
Sometimes you don't necessarily have to give a specific implication or message. You just need to say it, understanding the implication is her business.
For example, you say, 'I'm extremely nervous and confused' but your voice is firm, concise, and decisive. At that moment, the other person will wonder if you're joking, if you're really nervous, or if you're trying to impress, etc.
Or take the example of you saying, 'My job is just picking up popcorn crumbs in the movie theater' while looking elegant and sophisticated. Then the other person will always question you. And why would you say that? Because next to her are only men boasting, taking advantage of every opportunity just to show off.
Conclusion
A quick phone article about implications and the origin of attraction. Hopefully, the words aren't too convoluted and hard to understand. But regardless, I believe it will help you somewhat on the journey to conquer women.
See you in the next article!
Posted by: Thao Ly
Keywords: What is hidden meaning? 5 intriguing implications with girls
