Today's discussion revolves around deciphering the enigma that is understanding women. Many wonder if it's necessary to fathom the female psyche to woo them. Whether those successful in courtship truly comprehend the intricacies of a woman's mind is a question I cannot answer. However, those who do understand the nuances of the female psyche are undoubtedly the ones who find success in charming women.
Once again, for those well-versed in the complexities of the female mind, what happens? They always succeed in charming women!
Admiring a man requires mere physical appeal. However, loving a man demands the ability to empathize and connect with women. That's precisely why understanding the female psyche is essential.
So, how do we understand women? What's the key to unraveling the mysteries of the female mind?
I can't delve into specifics due to content length constraints, but I'll paint a panoramic picture to guide you on what needs to be done.
3 Simple and Effective Ways to Understand Women
Here, I'll outline three methods to understand women, helping you navigate the intricacies of the other half of the world in a straightforward and effective manner.
1) Understanding women always involves unveiling a mask
The number one method to understand women is realizing that every girl out there wears a mask. Every girl you meet on the street, your older sister, your best friend—they all have a mask.
Don't view it negatively. Women wear masks for an incredibly positive reason: to shield themselves from two things.
How to comprehend that women always have a mask?
For instance, a girl's vulnerability, like heartbreak, isn't something she'd openly display to strangers. Instead, she artfully conceals it with other images, such as independence and decisiveness. Only when you strip away that mask will you discover the true person.
In matters of intimacy, it's the same. Even if a girl is receptive, she won't openly reveal that she's enjoying herself. It's permissible to touch above, but strictly off-limits below. Because if you feel dampness, where does that lead your imagination, right?
The first step in understanding women is remembering you must know how to unveil their masks. In the upcoming GMTC6C course, you'll be guided on precisely how to initiate and converse with girls, teaching you this skill.
2) Understanding women: Observing their attitudes and language
The second method to understand women is to grasp their language and attitude. In Decoding the Secrets of Femininity, I discuss 8 personality types of women. But guess what, when it comes to language and attitude, almost all the girls I meet adhere to a common standard.
To understand women's language and attitude, there are many tips, but nothing is as crucial as actively listening to women for hundreds, even thousands of hours.
When listening to girls, most often it's passive, just hearing for the sake of hearing, perhaps even while multitasking. While that's normal, it's essential not to maintain that habit entirely. In 10 hours of listening, aim for 7 passive and 3 active. Pay attention, focus on observing their eyes, tone, and pitch when they speak. There's emotion in all of it.
When you focus on listening in this way, I swear, I guarantee you that in just 1 hour today, you'll understand the girl in front of you better than after 24 hours of conversation before.
3) Grasping her personality type
The final method to understand women is understanding their personality. Currently, I'm revising the 8 personality types of women, as previously, many found them a bit challenging to comprehend and apply in real life. In reality, determining a girl's personality is quite straightforward. Initially, on the surface, you'll want to figure out if the girl is introverted or extroverted. Ask her, 'Two choices. One is hanging out with not very familiar people, and two is staying at home all day. Which one would you choose?'
By doing so, you've determined whether the girl is introverted or extroverted. Whether you prefer a deep, mysterious girl or one who is active, energetic, and optimistic, you must establish this, right?
Next, to understand how she'll be in a relationship in the future, you need to determine if she's practical or dreamy. A practical girl tends to create her own business and be independent in her work. A dreamy girl is more likely to stand behind and support her man.
And if you want to know if she's easy or difficult in bed, you need to determine if she's classic or modern. A modern girl will treat sex casually, while a classic girl will consider it a significant matter, feeling a sense of loss when getting intimate with you.
Conclusion
All of these will be discussed in more detail in Decoding the Secrets of Femininity, the bestselling dating book. For now, to sum it up, if you truly want to know how to understand women, there are three things you need to explore.
1) Knowing how to unveil the masks women wear
2) Understanding women's language and attitude
3) Classifying their personality types
Posted by: Thinh Nguyen
Keywords: How to understand women, mastering the psychology of the fairer sex?