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Discover if you possess the qualities of a natural charmer by recognizing these subtle signs.
2. 5 signs that reveal you are a charmer without being aware
Let me affirm this: I see many comrades here thinking they lack in certain aspects, believing they lack qualities or aren't good enough, rich enough, or handsome enough like someone else.
Never lose faith in yourself. You possess all the qualities to charm, it's just a matter of understanding it correctly.
Before delving into the signs you have, let me explain what charming means.
What is charming?
What is the art of charming women? Simply put, it's the skillful pursuit of women, adept at winning the heart of whomever they set their sights on. If you encounter such a person, those around will dub him a 'charmer'.
However, many mistakenly believe that being a charmer is innate, something one is born with. They think from the moment one's parents give birth, they possess such abilities, or perhaps it's a heavenly gift bestowed upon them.
No, that's a misconception. Being a charmer is cultivated through training, experiencing the highs and lows of love, and engaging in numerous real-life scenarios.
The crucial point is, most men are born with this capability. It's just a matter of awareness, or perhaps underestimating these qualities.
Discover 5 signs that reveal you're a natural charmer without even realizing it.
Here, I'll unveil 5 subtle signs that indicate you're a true charmer, unbeknownst to you. From these qualities, you can propel yourself further and earn admiration from men around for your charming abilities in winning hearts.
1) You've been fond of girls since a very young age.
The first sign of being a charmer is having a fondness for girls from a very young age.
Oh, does liking girls have anything to do with being a skilled charmer or adept at winning their hearts?
Absolutely. If you've liked girls since childhood, it simply indicates one thing: you have a passion for girls.
And what happens to those who pursue their passions?
They will go to great lengths to attain that passion, much like riding a big motorcycle. You might not have the money now, perhaps still on an allowance. But if you're passionate about motorcycles, you crave conquering those roads. Eventually, when you've earned enough, you'll satisfy your passion for vehicles.
I'm just like you; I've liked girls since I was very young. In third grade, I stole a picture of the girl I fancied. I saved my breakfast money to gift her a high-end pen, engraved her name on the cap, and always wore it.
Even now, I maintain that same passion. Though the enthusiasm for passions may fluctuate, I've learned how to sustain and coexist with it over time.
What about those who, despite liking girls since childhood, don't see results?
It's simple, my friend – you've given up on the art of charming. It's gone, mate.
2) You don't stop because you're tired.
The second sign that you're a true charmer is that you don't stop because you're tired. What does that mean?
Similar to sign number 1, even if you have passion and the desire to pursue it, you haven't achieved it yet if you've stopped due to fatigue.
For example, imagine in your mind a beautiful, intelligent, and obedient girl. You yearn for this by the age of 21. But reality hits you with a girl who is nothing like that. She's average-looking, a bit stiff, rebellious, and hard to please.
But because your legs are tired, you don't want to search anymore. You think that even if you search, you won't find anything, as you're not as good as others.
That very mindset has altered your game compared to the initial desire you set out with.
3) Charmer sign: You're a sensitive man.
Sign number 3 that you have the qualities to charm women is that you're sensitive.
What does sensitivity mean?
It can be understood as refined men. They observe details better than other men.
But it's not about measuring fish sauce or counting onion bulbs, in case you've mistaken it for meticulous calculation, my friend.
Men are the gender that looks far and wide. Most tend to view everything with a broad perspective, but sometimes it can turn slightly indifferent or less attuned to a girl's emotions.
Sensitive men in charming
Sensitive men can perceive these things, making it easier for them to win women's hearts. For instance, a simple detail like a girl wearing high heels for a long time can be very painful. If a man is sensitive, he will recognize and empathize with such situations.
“Are your feet hurting, or just sit here, no need to walk anymore.”
Or “Are your feet hurting, or would you prefer to wear my shoes.”
I categorize sensitive men into two types. One, those who have had this personality from childhood, with their minds already sensitive to such things. And two, those who become sensitive through experience. If constantly criticized and judged by previous girls, you'll naturally improve with the ones that come after.
That's why I often say, “The stones thrown by the previous girl will be the gift for the ones that follow.”
4) Has style
Sign number 4 reveals that you have the qualities to charm women because you have style.
Style results from a combination of two things. Firstly, your dressing style and secondly, your charisma.
Regarding dressing style, if you blend in with a thousand people out there, you fail. Instead, you must appear unique and attractive in the eyes of girls. Many are skilled at this from a young age, having the ability to choose their style. Conversely, many lack that 'sense'.
If you're interested, leave a comment; in future posts, I'll elaborate further.
The second aspect is your charisma. What's most important? Firstly, your gaze, secondly, your smile, and next, your posture.
Once you possess the two mentioned aspects, you will have what's called style. This is fantastic for becoming your number one woman charmer.
5) Being a Learner, Extracting Experience Makes You a Woman Charmer
The final sign that you're an adept charmer is that you know how to learn and extract experiences. No one becomes proficient in any field out of the blue.
Brian Tracy once said:
“Those currently in the top 10 in any industry were once the worst in that very field.”
-Brian Tracy
My starting point wasn't too shabby in this domain. I was just like those guys back then, some had relationships and intimate experiences by 18. But to reach where I am now, I had to read many books, learn from various people, of course, date, make friends, and be with numerous girls. Importantly, throughout the 8 years of developing this website, I continue without stopping.
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Even the world's number one charmers have to learn
Even those at the top of this industry over a decade ago, like Mystery, had to learn. Neil Strauss, a disciple of Mystery, naturally had to learn. Later on, figures from RSD like Tyler Durden, Jullien, Max, they all had to learn and reuse many PUA techniques in a motivational manner. In my personal evaluation, it seemed vague and less effective.
I won't delve deeply into these matters. In summary, everyone must learn to gain experience to become skilled. If you're the same, continuing to learn conquest knowledge every day, undoubtedly, your understanding will improve, and your capabilities will gradually become better.
Conclusion
Those are the 5 qualities that, as it turns out, make you quite the woman charmer. They are the inherent prerequisites to become adept at wooing women.
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Posted by: Nong Thuy
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