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The phrase 'white lotus' is a borrowed term from Sino-Vietnamese. Simply put, 'white lotus' means 'white lotus flower.' The white lotus flower is known as a symbol of purity, innocence, and purity. If a girl is called a white lotus, she is both internally and externally very pure and virtuous.
But in reality, it's hard to find a 'white lotus' in the true sense, so nowadays the internet community is using it as slang with a different meaning.
White lotus is used to refer to girls who have an innocent appearance, always seem innocent, naive, etc. If you treat this person well, nothing will happen, and they may even be sweeter to you than others. But when you do something against them, or if you want to confront them, they are 'not to be trifled with.'
We still criticize and see the despicableness of 'green tea,' but the higher-ranking tea is the 'white lotus,' always appearing innocent and pure but actually very hypocritical and cruel. Always playing the weak, needing protection to exploit and deceive others.
II. Signs to identify the white lotus girl
1. Always pretending to be fragile, innocent, and blameless
Just like the name 'white lotus,' these girls appear innocent, pure, always pretending to be fragile and in need of protection. They use their innocent and weak appearance to charm and approach boys.
2. Inner self is completely different from the simple exterior
In stark contrast to their innocent, saintly, weak appearance, these white lotus girls are often hypocritical, full of malice, always scheming, deceiving others. You will find it difficult to gauge the inner thoughts of these white lotus girls because they are very adept at hiding their emotions.
3. Exploiting trust to speak falsehoods in ethics and reasoning
Using their innocent appearance, always speaking of ethics, ways of life to deceive others' feelings. Boys will always trust and think everything the 'white lotus' says is correct. When gaining the trust of a boy, these white lotus girls will use arguments, twisted moralities, ways of treating others,... to potentially break the feelings of the boys with their lovers, or exploit the boys to achieve their goals.
4. Approaching even those who are 'already taken'
White lotus girls often appear weak, thus often relying on boys for anything they can get help with. These girls will appear when boys are sad, depressed, or even when they argue with their lovers, argue with their wives... They often go out together, go beyond the boundaries of friendship.
If caught, if jealous, the white lotus will immediately appear innocent, blameless. These girls do not directly destroy the relationship between the two of you but always quietly stay by the boy's side when given the chance, and make the boy's lover jealous.
5. The clearest expression of the white lotus
- Does not actively pay: if a girl likes you, she will think for you and will be willing to share the bill when necessary. With white lotus girls, they only receive and never spend.
- Always keep an inconsistent attitude: the attitude of white lotus girls towards you is not stable, when they need help they will appear very enthusiastic but when you no longer have any value to exploit, they will be indifferent to you.
- Never take the initiative to contact you: white lotus girls befriend you only for their own purposes, wanting to take advantage of you, usually they will not have genuine feelings for you. So they will never take the initiative to contact you because they don't really care about you.
6. Common phrases often used by white lotus
“I don't know anything at all.”
“I didn't mean it, I'm sure she'll forgive me, right?”
“I didn't realize she was so sensitive, I was just hanging out casually, please don't make her upset!”
“You must treat her well, okay? I also hope to find a good man like you, but no one seems to like me.”
“You're so talented, I really like someone who's smart and caring like you.”
“Why didn't you reply to my message? Do you know how worried I was?”
“Even though I can't be openly with you, being by your side like this is enough to make me very happy, I don't wish for anything more.”
“Maybe you don't know, but I truly wish for your happiness, I can only be happy when you're happy.”
“I'm sorry, I didn't expect things to turn out like this, I really don't know anything at all.”
“Oh, please don't misunderstand, I just asked him to help me a little!”
“Don't be mad at her, it's my fault, I shouldn't have...”
So it can be simply understood that white lotus are those girls who appear innocent, saintly, and pure on the outside but have deep, unpredictable inner thoughts. They approach boys with malicious intentions, exploiting their trust to deceive them. In life, you can never judge a person's heart by their appearance. Hopefully, with the above sharing, you can somewhat understand more about the 'white lotus' to know how to 'avoid' them. Thank you for your attention and support.
