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Are you a 'newbie' with a passion for BL? Wondering what 'Bottom' means and why it's used to describe a guy? Let's find the answers together with Mytour in the following article.
'Bottom' Defined
In English, 'Bottom' is called 'bot' (bottom), while in Japanese, it's 'uke.' This term identifies the individual playing the 'feminine' role in a relationship between two men. It is used to differentiate the roles of two men in a homosexual relationship.
'Bottom' is a widely used concept in BL films, novels, and the LGBTQ community. While the 'Top' is proactive, the 'Bottom' is passive, receiving and lying beneath. Generally, the 'Top' exhibits more masculine traits and tends to be assertive in relationships.
In Chinese, 'Top' means to give, while 'Bottom' implies receiving.
Identifying a 'Bottom's' Characteristics
To recognize a 'Bottom,' observe the following distinguishing features.
Physical Appearance: 'Bottoms' often possess a slender, petite figure, with a scholarly, somewhat feminine facial structure, appearing delicate and fragile.
Tone of Voice: They tend to speak softly, shyly, expressing embarrassment and hesitation. In some cases of excessive laughter, the 'submissive partner' may habitually cover their mouth.
Fragile, Demure Persona: 'Bottoms' avoid physically demanding tasks, opting for lighter, more delicate activities. Similar to some females, they tend to lean on or cling to another male friend or romantic partner.
Playful, Adorable, talkative, and somewhat lively, displaying a hint of foolishness. A 'submissive partner' with this demeanor is irresistibly charming and easily pampered, especially when paired with a cool, assertive partner, forming a perfect duo.
Careful Grooming: They often meticulously coordinate their outfits down to the smallest details, from accessories to clothing colors.
Beauty Enthusiast: They enjoy enhancing their appearance and often choose professions related to beauty and the arts. Their interest in beauty rivals, or even surpasses, that of females. Purchasing cosmetics and clothing is part of their daily routine.
Snacking, Socializing, Shopping with Female Friends: Similar to females, they love snacking, chatting with friends, and shopping. 'Submissive partners' tend to socialize with females as they share common interests and personalities. 'Submissive partners' avoid socializing with each other due to potential competition or comparison.
Above are some insights into the 'submissive partner.' We hope this article has addressed all your questions.
