Buzz
It's just getting into bed, right? The most important thing is how you feel afterward. If it genuinely makes everything better, then there's no reason to hesitate. Who knows, it might lead to a beautiful relationship afterward?
How does it feel to spend the night with someone you're not sure about?
Being pulled into bed with a stranger, the biggest reason in your mind is that you feel a slight affection for them. You're in a state of uncertainty, wondering whether to proceed and questioning if the stranger truly cares about you. Do your thoughts and actions really correlate in any consequential relationship, or are they merely subjective musings based on what you perceive to be right? Perhaps you're stumbling blindly through the night, on a perilous path in the dense forest—where wild creatures lie in wait for the lost wanderer. Ponder carefully on what you should do and make sure there are no regrets later on.
Is it challenging to spend the night with someone you barely know?
It indicates that loneliness has seized your heart. Honestly, at that moment, you don't think much, whether you want to or not. With an overwhelmed lonely heart and an empty soul, having a shoulder to lean on for the long night is truly unavoidable, even if it's just temporary and borrowed from strangers. You'll get into bed, be intimate—tight embraces without hesitation, hurried kisses without refusal, touches on the skin full of novelty—as if it's the last time in your life, as if it saves your very existence. Is there anything wrong to say that this pulls you out of the dark shadow of terrifying loneliness?
Are you truly living with a heart and soul like that? No emotion, no thought—that's not living, that's existing; existing passively, unconsciously, and becoming meaningless for a young person like you! What will happen when you live a meaningless life, unable to do anything for yourself, for your loved ones, and for the love waiting on the journey of life? Are you living a real life, or is it a perfect shell for tasteless and hollow things that are eating away at your soul and gnawing at the heart that once beat vigorously? Save your soul and this life as soon as you have the smallest chance, don't let disappointments or pain turn you into an empty shell from within, devoid of every emotion.
So, is it really horrifying to get into bed with someone you have some feelings for?
Better to not meet than to know each other and hope, ponder and receive emptiness. It's worse than a knife stabbing into the heart, especially after intimacy.
Posted by: Ngoc Huyen
Keywords: Sleeping with strangers, what's the big deal?
