Women often accuse men of despicable infidelity, yet they always have plenty of excuses to justify and cleverly conceal the depravity everyone knows.
When women commit adultery, they are deemed promiscuous and immoral, while men's infidelity is not considered a significant issue. Women who cheat are condemned, criticized, and even scorned by other women. Yet when men cheat, hardly any other men bother to condemn them. Because the reasons are not too difficult to understand.
Women blame men for wicked infidelity, yet they always have plenty of excuses to justify and cleverly conceal the depravity everyone knows. The reason for infidelity? There is no shortage, but enough persuasion for men to 'follow the old path' and just go for it. Because women feel ugly for not taking care of their appearance, because they feel embarrassed, because they feel dull, because their buttocks are not big and their breasts are small so they are not good at sex,... And of course, those pretty girls out there willingly offer themselves to the cat's mouth and willingly let the dog take over, what's the harm. That's infidelity. There are hundreds of billions of reasons that men can give to justify their wicked actions.

Men juggle with five or seven relationships, and sometimes even more. Not to mention those husbands who play the role of bosses, carrying their briefcases to meetings all day long; having extramarital affairs seems justifiable. This frivolous reason for infidelity seems to stick. Women accept it, and if they can't, they still have to force themselves to. Because according to men, it's just a matter beyond their control. How can anyone argue with such 'reasonable' excuses?
Men's escapades outside are a 'right' they grant themselves. Once it's a right, no one can stop it, except that this right hurts women's hearts. These reasons are just a small part of men's elaborate excuses.

Then there are other reasons, related to the woman they call a wife. Women's nature is tender, no matter how wrong men are, a few days of remorse and apology is all it takes. Women keep telling them to be strong, but that strength eventually softens in the face of men's words. They cheat because they think women will forgive them, no matter how angry or reproachful women are, they will still consider it as nothing for the sake of family happiness. Turns out, women themselves are the enablers, the ones who cover up for men's infidelity.
Women are truly pitiful, and also blameworthy. So even if men cheat, don't broadcast it to the whole village. Don't complain loudly that your husband isn't good. Whether he's good or not, you should understand it yourself. Not all men who cheat are bad men. It's just that they shouldn't do that, because by doing so, they are hurting the women beside them.
Before engaging in infidelity, men should think about the woman who has weathered many storms to build the family nest together. Don't think they are weak, don't think they are easy to accept and forgive. Infidelity is not inherently bad for men, but it shouldn't happen. Women will suffer. It's a pain that men will never understand.
Everything has its limits, too much hurt is irreparable.
Source: himher.vn
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