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A perfect holiday cookie exchange leaves you feeling warm, satisfied, and filled with sweet joy. On the other hand, a poorly planned one can be underwhelming, overly competitive, and make you question the limit of how many cookies is too many. Avoid this fate with these expert tips to host a cookie celebration that your guests will fondly recall well into the next year.
1. Stay Organized
A cookie exchange, also known as a swap, is a festive gathering where each guest brings a different type of cookie. Everyone arrives with their creations, and you end up with an assortment of colorful, flavorful treats to taste and take home. To keep things running smoothly, it's essential to stay organized. While spreadsheets aren’t for everyone, having a document, even handwritten, to track who is bringing what will save you from confusion. This helps avoid having multiple batches of the same cookie. While it might seem harmless, having too many peanut butter cookies could lead to unspoken cookie rivalries. To avoid any cookie drama, tell your guests that repeats aren’t allowed. They'll likely send you their chosen cookie type quickly, making your planning even easier.
2. Inquire About Food Allergies
When inviting people, be sure to ask about any dietary restrictions. It’s frustrating to attend a party and find you can only enjoy the cookie you brought. You don’t need to micromanage your guests’ contributions, but it’s helpful to offer a variety of options to accommodate those with gluten sensitivities. Since you already know what cookies each guest is bringing, you can create labels listing each cookie’s name and the allergens it contains. For a guest with nut allergies, consider setting up a nut-free cookie station.
3. Set Expectations for Quantity and Quality
You’re always going to have that one friend who shows up with three dozen cookies, and another who barely manages to bring seven. It’s a smart move to set a specific number for each person. Typically, one or two dozen cookies per guest should do the trick. Then think about quality. It’s not about everyone using fancy butter, but whether store-bought cookies are acceptable. You know your friends better than they do. If you’re certain they'll never lift a spoon to mix dough, let them buy their cookies from a local bakery. Many bakeries have delicious holiday treats that can add a nice touch. But be careful—two boxes of Entenmann’s might feel a little off at a festive gathering.
4. Plan the Layout Carefully
I’ve been to cookie exchanges where all the cookies are arranged on one big table, and guests form a quirky conga line to grab them. It gives me major wedding buffet vibes, and I’m not a fan. I usually prefer a more laid-back setup, so I’ll have three or four different cookie areas scattered around. This is probably influenced by apartment living and not having a proper dining room, but I’ll set cookies up on coffee tables, TV consoles, desks, or kitchen counters. This way, there’s no crowding, and it’s easier to accommodate people with dietary needs.
5. Provide Takeout Containers
Provide paper containers and paper bags (or those reusable totes you secretly despise). While you can ask guests to bring their own containers, there will inevitably be a few who forget, or show up with something too small. Personally, I prefer the long, rectangular paper kind with a tab top. They’re inexpensive, disposable, and flexible enough to accommodate bulging cookies without crushing them, but firm enough to provide some protection. Have your guests pack up their goodies directly into these containers.
6. Avoid Overwhelming Leftovers
Encourage guests to ‘exchange’ cookies before diving into the eating part. They can walk around with their takeout containers and pick a few of each cookie. Once everyone has chosen their favorites, open the floor for a little indulgence. This is when the real enjoyment begins – with filling your face and giving compliments! Once everyone is done packing up, let them grab a few more treats to take home, but don’t forget to save a stash for yourself.
