10 Things You Can Do When Your Partner Kisses Your Neck

You and your partner are in a tender moment, and as the passion builds, they slowly move down to your neck. A neck kiss is often delightful and romantic, but sometimes you may not know how to react when they get lost in that moment. Don’t worry! There are plenty of sensual responses you can offer in return.

A kiss on the neck typically means your partner wants to get closer. If you’ve been talking, this is a sign that it’s time to stop the conversation. Don’t continue speaking at this moment, as it could make things a bit awkward for both of you! If you're unsure of what else to do, just remain silent.

• It’s even more important to stay quiet if your partner comes from behind and places a kiss on your neck.

Let your partner know that you enjoy what they're doing. When your partner starts kissing your neck, tilt your head to the side to expose more of your neck. This way, they can move their lips all over your neck, including behind your ear.

• This is a wonderful way to encourage them without saying a word.

When you gasp, you're telling your partner they're doing an amazing job. If you're taken by surprise by their kiss or overwhelmed by the sensation, softly gasp to encourage them to keep going.

• This might happen naturally, especially if you’ve never been kissed on the neck before.

This sound lets your partner know that you enjoy what they’re doing. Don’t try to force a moan—let those sounds come naturally to encourage them to keep going. This might even prompt them to kiss your neck more often.

• You don’t need to moan loudly or passionately. Sometimes, a soft moan is enough to send a clear signal to encourage them.

You can embrace their neck or upper body. This way, your arms won’t feel unnecessary, and it will encourage them to continue kissing your neck. If you’re lying down together, you can gently caress their chest or arms.

• If your partner is kissing your neck from behind, turn around and embrace them.

Wrap your arms around them and hold them tight. Pull their body close to yours to show them you’re enjoying what they’re doing. If you add a moan or a gasp, they’ll certainly understand they’re doing it right.

• If you’re both lying down, try scooting closer and leaning a little on top of them.

Guys also enjoy when their partner plays with their hair! While your partner is passionately kissing your neck, use both hands to run your fingers through his hair. This will create an adorable messy look, as if he just woke up.

• Be slow and gentle while running your fingers through his hair. There’s nothing worse than accidentally getting your fingers tangled in his hair while trying to be sweet and seductive!

In general, don’t overthink it. If you enjoy what your partner is doing and feel great, you don’t need to do anything other than relax and savor the moment. Your partner might be kissing your neck because they like you and want to make you feel ecstatic. Whatever is meant to happen will unfold!

• A kiss on the neck is also a fun way to spice things up during intimacy. Your partner might be trying to impress you with a new move.

A kiss on the neck can be an invitation to take things a step further. If you’re both still fully dressed and your partner starts kissing your neck, you can reach down and start unbuttoning his shirt. Make sure he’s okay with this (you can ask him), then gently remove his shirt and caress his body.

• Neck kisses aren’t always a hint to take things further. If you’re unsure or notice him pulling back, just ask if it’s okay to continue.

Unless that’s what you want, of course. A neck kiss is amazing, but it can leave a small mark, known as a hickey. If you need to keep your appearance neat or have to go to work, a hickey on your neck might not be the best choice. Gently remind him that he can continue, but avoid sucking or biting to prevent a mark.

• You can say something like, “I love it, but please don’t leave a hickey!”

• If you feel uncomfortable with the kiss on your neck (or anything your partner does), ask them to stop.