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Is your boyfriend sick and you're unable to be by his side to take care of him? When you're far away, it can be tough to know how to help him feel better. But sometimes, just sending him a message to show you care can make all the difference. Here are some ideas for texting your boyfriend when he's unwell.
Steps
Ask him how he's feeling.
This is a good opening line. You might feel helpless not being able to take care of your boyfriend, but if he realizes you care, that can mean a lot. Occasionally check in to let him know you're thinking about him.
- "How are you feeling? Is your fever down yet?"
- "Are you feeling any better today?"
- "I’m thinking of you! Have you noticed any improvement?"
- Don’t worry if he doesn’t reply immediately. It’s normal for someone who’s sick to be sleepy, and the more rest he gets, the faster he’ll recover.
Ask if he needs anything.
Sometimes, people feel embarrassed asking for help. When sick, people are often too exhausted to even handle household chores. That’s why sending your boyfriend a message offering to help with certain tasks can be very helpful, especially when you're not too far away.
- "Do you need me to feed the pets?"
- "Do you want me to call the doctor or make an appointment for you?"
- "Can I help you with your laundry?"
Offer to help him buy groceries.
You could leave groceries at his doorstep. When sick, people often feel anxious about not being able to go out and do errands, especially when they’re unsure when they’ll be well enough to shop for what they need. If you can buy essential items like soap or toilet paper, that would help him a lot.
- "I’m running to the store later! Do you need anything?"
- "What food do you need? I’ll send it to you."
- If you don’t hear back, you can buy some of his favorite food (just make sure it won’t spoil) and have it delivered to his doorstep. Text him to let him know it’s outside.
Remind him to rest.
Rest is the key to recovery. He might be the type who hates staying still, but the most important thing when you're sick is to do nothing, no matter how restless you feel!
- "I know you have a lot to do, but make sure you get some sleep today. Sweet dreams!"
- "You can leave the work for tomorrow (or even the day after). The most important thing is that you get better, so rest today."
Tell him that you miss him and can’t wait to see him again.
Being sick at home alone can make someone feel lonely. Whether it's been a while since you two saw each other, or you're just apart until he gets better, let your boyfriend know you’re looking forward to his recovery.
- "I miss you so much."
- "I’m counting the days until we can be together again."
- "The faster you get better, the sooner I’ll be able to give you a big hug!"
Record a sweet voice message using Voice Memos.
Let him hear your voice! If your boyfriend has been alone for a while, this could be a comforting gift. Video calls can feel tiring when someone isn’t feeling well, but recording a voice memo is both convenient and a cute way to stay connected.
- "I have something funny I want to tell you..."
- "This song has been stuck in my head all day... tell me you know this song!"
- If he's feeling up to it, you could try calling him on video. He’ll be happy to see your face!
Crack a joke.
Nothing lifts his spirits better than a good laugh. It's true what they say: laughter is the best medicine. You know your boyfriend’s sense of humor, so send him something you know will make him laugh. Here are some ideas:
- "Alright. Next year we’re getting flu shots!"
- "I just sent you some hot peppermint oil... (Vicks VapoRub)"
- "Cheers to a glass of vitamin C!"
Let him know food is on the way.
Order food online and have it delivered to his place. He might be too tired to cook or go grab some takeout, so this is one of the most helpful things you can do for him. You can also text him something like:
- "Is there anything you’re craving?"
- "Have you eaten today? I’m sending food over for you!"
- "In 10 minutes, the best soup you’ll ever taste will be at your door."
Recommend some movies or TV shows.
The day feels endless when you're sick and have nothing to watch. But having nothing to watch is even worse than turning on the TV and not liking anything that's on. Send your boyfriend a few movie titles you think he might enjoy.
- "Here’s a movie I watch when I’m feeling down."
- "I bet you need some good movies to binge today. Here are a few I know you haven’t seen yet!"
- "This movie is so good, even if you end up falling asleep halfway through 😉"
Remind him that you’ll be there when he needs you.
It’s comforting to know someone is just a phone call away. You might have a lot on your plate and can't check in all the time, but that's okay. Your boyfriend doesn’t expect you to do everything for him, but letting him know you’re always there for him shows how much you care.
- "I always keep my phone with me, so text me if you need anything!"
- "I wish I could be there with you, but don’t hesitate to call if you need anything."
Send him a picture or something you saw during your day.
If he’s been sick for a while, he might be feeling isolated. It’s sad when you lose connection with people, and your usual routine gets disrupted. Your message will help him feel connected—not just to you, but to the outside world too.
- "I saw this and thought of you!"
- "Isn’t this sunrise beautiful?"
- "I miss those mornings when we were together."
Play a game with him to help pass the time.
Send your boyfriend a link to the word game, Words With Friends. Each turn might take a little longer if he falls asleep, but thinking carefully before each move will keep him from getting too bored during the day.
- "Just a heads up, I’m not letting you win just because you’re sick!"
- "This is fun... but next time, I’m taking the crown!"
Send him a care package with personal care products.
After sending the package, text your boyfriend to let him know when it will arrive. Pack everything he needs to recover quickly, such as cold medicine, cough drops, tea, and a box of tissues. You can also add some candy, a warm blanket, or a deck of cards. If you’ve ever received a surprise gift like this, you’ll know how heartwarming it can be.
- "The emergency sick care kit is on its way to you!"
- "I left a few surprises at your door! Get well soon. Love you lots."
- "All of my not-so-secret healing formulas are waiting for you outside. Love you!"
