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Sometimes, staying at home in the evening can get pretty boring, but it’s a whole different vibe when your girlfriend is there. If you're looking to spend more time with your girlfriend at home without feeling bored, there are plenty of exciting things to try! We’ve compiled a list of fun activities that you might find really useful.
Steps
Ask each other fun questions.
These questions will keep the conversation going and help you learn more about each other. If you're unsure what to say next, think of some conversation starters or question-and-answer games. Keep the atmosphere light and fun with games like “Which way would you go?” or “Things I’ve never experienced.” As you and your girlfriend ask each other questions, you'll find more topics to discuss and grow closer.
- For example, you could ask questions like “If you could choose between going to the future or traveling to the past, which would you choose?” or “What’s your favorite childhood memory?”
- There are countless books and card games with questions for couples that you can buy if you need inspiration.
Watch the movies you loved during your childhood.
Revive sweet memories with old movies. Invite your girlfriend to list all the films you both cherished during your youth. Try to think of a few movies you haven't seen in a long time to relive those nostalgic moments. Make some popcorn, grab a cozy blanket, and prepare a comfortable spot to relax and enjoy the show.
Dance to your favorite tunes.
Impress your girlfriend with a dance move. Create a playlist of songs or albums you want her to listen to. Turn up the music and start your private dance party for two. You can try a few dance moves to enjoy the music and the time together.
- Try following a few dance tutorial videos if you want to learn some new steps.
- If you get tired, you can relax and continue enjoying the music.
Step outside to stargaze.
Admire the beauty of the night sky. Lay out a blanket on the lawn during a clear night and sit back to gaze at the stars. Try spotting shooting stars, constellations, or use your imagination to create your own star formations!
- This may be a bit difficult if you live in a big city, as the streetlights can obscure the stars.
Set up a camping experience right in your backyard.
Organize an outdoor meal to change the setting. Prepare some sandwiches, fruits, and snacks commonly taken on camping trips. Lay the food on a blanket or table outside and enjoy the fresh air of nature with your girlfriend.
Cook together.
Head to the kitchen with your favorite recipes to practice teamwork. Ask your girlfriend to pick a few recipes that look delicious and choose a dish that's a bit easier to prepare. Divide the tasks so you both can cook together for fun. Once done, you'll have a tasty dish that you made yourself.
- If you're not familiar with cooking, look up cooking classes online and learn together with your girlfriend.
Engage in board games.
A small competition can be a fantastic way to pass the time. There are plenty of two-player games you can enjoy with your girlfriend, especially if neither of you is overly competitive. Try games like chess, Monopoly, mystery-solving, or any other board game if you want to exercise your brain a bit.
- Playing jigsaw puzzles is also a great way for you two to bond together.
Play video games.
You'll find tons of competitive and cooperative games. Hand your girlfriend a controller and search for an exciting game you both would enjoy. Be sure to pick one with a multiplayer mode so both of you can play together. If not, take turns playing the same game—it's still a lot of fun.
Read a book together.
Spend some quiet time together reading a good story. Choose a book that both of you enjoy and read it together. You can either read separately or take turns reading aloud to each other, followed by a discussion about your favorite parts and highlights.
- Try to read at the same pace so one of you doesn't have to wait for the other to finish.
Decorate the house.
Show off your creativity and make something that brightens up the space at home. Gather some paints, gloss, and other materials you want to use. You can make homemade picture frames, decorate vases, or create paper flowers to decorate the dining table.
Create a scrapbook or photo album.
This is a fantastic way for both of you to collect and revisit memories. Print out a few pictures of you and your girlfriend to have more options. Work together to create scrapbook pages or a photo album using your handmade items. That way, you'll always have something to flip through whenever you want to relive those moments.
- For example, you could make a photo album about a recent vacation or create a scrapbook page about your first date together.
Build a pillow fort.
Relive childhood with some fun kid's games. Clear a space in the room and drape a few blankets over the chairs to build a fort. Bring in some pillows or cushions to make it more comfortable. Don’t forget to prepare some snacks and games or a music player to enjoy.
- Build the fort in a room with a TV so you can relax inside and watch a movie together.
Visit a virtual museum.
You can explore countless paintings and artifacts from museums all while sitting on your sofa at home. Even if your area doesn't have many museums, you can still browse global collections online. Find an art or history museum you like and explore their digital collections. You can discuss a piece with your girlfriend or ask her what meaning she thinks it holds.
- Many museums offer free online collections, but you might need to purchase an e-ticket for full access.
Exercise together.
If you're an active couple, you can support each other in achieving fitness goals. Find a workout video with exercises that both of you can easily follow without getting exhausted. Make sure there's enough space for both of you to work out. You can motivate each other to complete the exercises, and by the end of the session, you'll both feel revitalized.
- If you don't have weights or gym equipment, you can look for exercises that require just body weight.
Redecorate the room.
Give your room a makeover to make it feel cozier. Time at home is a great opportunity for both of you to create handmade items together. Try rearranging the furniture, painting the walls a new color, or decorating the room in a different style. Discuss with your girlfriend beforehand to choose a decoration style that will satisfy both of you once it's finished.
- If you're still living with your parents, make sure to ask for their permission before starting the redecorating process.
Plant a garden.
Strengthen your relationship by planting a garden together. Talk with your girlfriend and select a few flowers, plants, or vegetables that you both enjoy growing. After planting, you’ll care for them together, watching them thrive. With a little time and patience, you'll be able to enjoy beautiful flowers and fresh homegrown vegetables when the season comes.
- Some easy-to-grow plants for beginners include hostas, marigolds, succulents, and mint.
- Some vegetables that are easy to grow include cucumbers, bell peppers, tomatoes, and carrots.
Enjoy a spa day at home.
Release the tension and relax to relieve stress. Play some calming music and light a few candles to create a romantic atmosphere for the evening. Slip into a robe or your most comfortable clothes. You can give each other a massage, apply face masks, or burn some fragrant incense to unwind together.
- If you’re not a big fan of spas, treat your partner to a relaxing session to de-stress.
Indulge in a romantic bubble bath.
Light a few candles and soak in a bath for a soothing evening. If you have a large tub or a Jacuzzi, fill it up with water, drop in a bath bomb, bubbles, or rose petals. Get into the tub and unwind together.
Try something new in the bedroom.
Discover ways to reignite passion in the bedroom. If you're feeling playful and affectionate, show your partner that you're open to adventure by stirring things up a bit. You both can try some new positions, roleplay, or experiment with a new toy. Just make sure she's excited before attempting anything new.
Advice
- If you like, you can invite a few friends over or call another couple via Skype or FaceTime.
