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Kissing: it's not just a fun activity, but a way to connect with your partner and enhance your relationship. If you're bored with the usual kisses, don’t fret—we've put together a list of exciting new kisses to try with your boyfriend today! Check out the list to find your next favorite kiss for when you and your BF share a special moment together.
Steps
Lip Kiss
This timeless kiss is perfect for almost any situation. Move in toward your boyfriend and gently pucker your lips, keeping them closed. Press your lips against his for a few seconds, then pull away.
- A quick kiss on the lips is ideal for public settings, as long as it’s brief!
- Your lips should fit together seamlessly when you kiss—comfort is key, no awkwardness allowed!
French Kiss
Reserve this kiss for a steamy makeout session with your boyfriend. Get close and gently press your lips together, then slightly part your lips. Gently slide your tongue into his mouth, then quickly pull it back out. The trick is not to overwhelm him with your entire tongue—just start with the tip and match his pace.
- French kissing is a more intimate kiss than a simple peck. Once you're French kissing, it means you and your boyfriend are more comfortable and connected.
- Always try to mirror your partner’s movements while kissing.
Biting Kiss
A playful bite can set the mood for more. While kissing, gently (GENTLY!) nibble on your boyfriend’s lips, earlobe, neck, or jawline. Be mindful not to bite too hard—if he pulls away or flinches, stop and make sure he’s okay.
- Too much pressure could leave a hickey, which can be tricky to explain. Your boyfriend may not want to answer questions about mysterious red marks from his friends or family.
Lip Trace Kiss
Use your tongue to trace your boyfriend’s lips before you dive into a makeout session. Get close to his face, but before your lips meet, extend your tongue slowly and trace his lower lip. Keep it light and gentle, almost ticklish, without using too much saliva. This playful move will drive him wild!
- If you’re feeling daring, you could try this in public (just maybe not around the parents). Otherwise, save it for a private moment where you can fully enjoy the experience.
Lizard Kiss
Similar to the French kiss, this one involves a little tongue play. While your lips are sealed against your boyfriend’s, quickly extend the tip of your tongue out, then pull it back in (like a lizard's tongue). These quick, subtle motions can really heat things up, and it's a fun variation if you're getting bored of the usual French kiss.
- Concerned about swapping saliva? Don’t worry! Studies suggest that exchanging saliva with someone can actually boost your immune system, making you feel healthier and more vibrant.
Neck Kiss
Turn up the heat with this sensual kiss. If your kissing session needs a little spark, pause and lean down to softly kiss your boyfriend’s neck. The neck is packed with nerve endings, making a light kiss feel incredibly intense!
- You can also target his jawline to really get his heart racing.
- Feeling confident with your neck kisses? Add a subtle nibble or bite for an extra thrill.
Earlobe Kiss
Give your boyfriend a little excitement with a soft kiss on his earlobe. This area is another erogenous zone that can really turn him on for whatever comes next. Lean in and gently kiss, suck, or nibble his earlobe (feel free to add some tongue if you're in the mood).
- Not everyone is a fan of ear kisses, and that's perfectly fine. If your boyfriend pulls back or looks uncomfortable, move to another spot.
Finger Kiss
Your hands are one of the most sensitive parts of your body. Take your boyfriend's hand and softly kiss the tips of his fingers and his palms. If you're feeling playful, you can even take one of his fingers into your mouth and gently run your tongue around it.
Single Lip Kiss
This playful tease lets your boyfriend know there's more to look forward to. Lean in and softly kiss his bottom lip while he kisses your top lip (or vice versa). Since your lips aren't fully pressed together, it’s a subtle hint that you're ready for more later.
- Studies published in the Scientific Journal suggest that most people tend to lean to the right when kissing. If you're unsure, try leaning that way!
Angel Kiss
A kiss on the eyelid conveys to your boyfriend that you’ll always be there for him. While you're both relaxing or lying down, lean over and plant a gentle kiss on his closed eyelid. Be tender and keep the kiss light—this way, your angel kiss remains sweet and meaningful.
- This is a great kiss to offer if your boyfriend is feeling stressed or anxious. It can help soothe him and remind him that you're always there for support.
Stomach Kiss
Pause on your way lower to give his stomach a soft kiss. His lower stomach is full of sensitive nerve endings, so light kisses can make it feel electric. Gently kiss, suck, or nibble his tummy to mix things up during your makeout sessions.
- If you’re feeling bold, you can lightly press down on his stomach to enhance the sensations (but only if his bladder is empty).
Arm Kiss
The inner part of the arm is highly sensitive, yet often overlooked. Move your lips to your boyfriend's inner elbow and lightly kiss or trace it with your tongue. This particular spot is an erogenous zone that will make him shiver with anticipation, heightening his excitement for what’s to come.
Feet Kiss
If his feet are clean, why not stimulate those nerve endings? If kissing feet isn’t something you’re into, don’t worry—massaging them works wonders as well. Use some lotion or massage oil and gently press into the arches and balls of his feet. If you're feeling daring, add a few kisses along the way!
- If you're fond of feet (no judgment here!), try sucking on his toes. It can be incredibly sensual, especially since feet are often left out of foreplay.
Nipple Kiss
Some men find nipple stimulation particularly pleasurable. If your boyfriend has already taken his shirt off, consider leaning down and placing a quick kiss or gentle suck on his nipple. If he moans and leans into you, that’s a clear sign he’s enjoying it, but if he tenses or pulls back, he may not want you to continue.
- Not sure how to interpret his body language? Just ask! A simple question like “Do you like this?” won’t spoil the mood, and it’s always nice to know your partner is enjoying what you're doing.
Hello Kiss
Welcome your boyfriend with a sweet kiss and warm embrace. If it’s been a while since you’ve seen him, show him how happy you are to be together. Lean in and wrap him in a hug while sharing a soft kiss, holding it for a few seconds. He’ll feel so appreciated, he might not even know how to respond!
- If you’re in public, keep the hug and kiss brief—under five seconds.
Forehead Kiss
This tender kiss expresses your deep affection for one another. If your boyfriend is being particularly sweet or if you’re simply feeling full of love in the moment, lean over and plant a gentle kiss on his forehead. This gesture communicates care and warmth, letting him know you don’t expect anything in return.
- While a forehead kiss is often romantic, it can also be a sign of affection between friends or family members.
- You can also try kissing him on the top of the head for a similar effect.
Cheek Kiss
Show your boyfriend you’re thinking of him with a sweet kiss on the cheek. If he says something endearing or makes you laugh, lean in and plant a quick kiss on his cheek. It’s a simple way to show affection while letting him know how much you enjoy being together, and it’s a sweet gesture in public.
- Cheek kisses can also be used with friends or family members if everyone is comfortable with it.
Butterfly Kiss
This playful kiss uses your eyelashes to create a soft, fluttering sensation. Move close to your boyfriend’s face, then press your eyelashes against his cheek or forehead. Gently blink your eyes to create a tickling sensation as your lashes brush against his skin.
- If you want a change from the usual lip kisses or greetings, this light kiss is a fun way to keep things interesting.
Nose Kiss
Rub noses with your boyfriend for a sweet, intimate gesture. Get close to him and softly tap the tip of his nose with yours. Gently rub your noses together in a tender, affectionate way to show how much you care.
- While this isn't exactly a “lip kiss,” it’s still a cute moment you might want to share in private.
Air Kiss
This simple and charming greeting works perfectly when you see your boyfriend. Place your cheek gently against his and make a kissing sound near his ear. If you wish, you can repeat the same on the other side as well.
- This is a non-invasive way to greet your boyfriend, making it ideal when you're around family or others who prefer a bit less PDA.
Spider Man Kiss
Recreate the iconic upside-down kiss from Spider Man for a playful twist. Have your boyfriend lie back with his head hanging toward you, then lean over and kiss him upside down, just like Spider Man and MJ did in the movie.
- This kiss can be even more fun if you’ve just come out of the shower! (MJ’s kiss takes place after a rainstorm, so she’s a bit damp as well).
Lip Gloss Kiss
Make it a fun challenge by applying your favorite lip gloss. Kiss your partner passionately until their lips are coated with gloss too, then step back and have them guess the flavor. If they guess right, you get to decide their reward!
- You can even try tinted gloss, but make sure your boyfriend is okay with it.
Candy Kiss
Exchange a kiss and a sweet treat or drink. Place a piece of candy or a sip of alcohol in your mouth, then kiss your boyfriend and pass it on. When you pull away, he'll get a taste of whatever you had in your mouth!
- Let your boyfriend know in advance so he isn’t caught off guard by the surprise!
Underwater Kiss
If you’re near a pool or lake, this is the perfect kiss for you. Have your boyfriend dive beneath the water, and follow him. Hold your breath, then press your lips to his underwater. Gently exhale into his mouth so he can breathe and stay submerged a little longer.
- If you don’t want to share breath, just give him a quick peck on the lips while you're both under the water.
Join the Discussion...
What’s the reason behind kissing? What does it really mean when people kiss? Why is it something we enjoy? I spent a long time just thinking about pressing my mouth against someone else's and it started to weird me out... can someone explain it to me?
Kissing is a way of showing affection. It's not just romantic either. Parents kiss their children, friends kiss friends, and many cultures use kissing as a greeting. Plus, kissing feels good, and it releases chemicals that can reduce stress and create feelings of pleasure.
Lauren Sanders
Matchmaker & Dating Coach
Matchmaker & Dating Coach
People kiss in various situations and for different reasons. For instance, if someone kisses you on the first date, it could suggest they are interested in developing a relationship with you. The act of sharing a kiss shows a level of comfort, as it involves exchanging personal space and even saliva, indicating they see potential for something more. However, some people are just naturally affectionate.
Kissing can also be a sign of affection. If someone kisses you right away, one of their primary love languages might be physical touch, as this is something that not everyone is comfortable doing early on. People who are more touch-oriented tend to express love through touch.
Kissing can also be a sign of affection. If someone kisses you right away, one of their primary love languages might be physical touch, as this is something that not everyone is comfortable doing early on. People who are more touch-oriented tend to express love through touch.
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Always make sure that any new kissing technique you try is something your boyfriend is comfortable with! Consent is key, and it's important that he knows if you're exploring something different.
