Bạn đã gặp được cô gái lý tưởng của mình, nhưng đôi lúc hai người không thể ở bên nhau. Bạn có thể lo lắng rằng tình cảm sẽ nhạt dần nếu không được gặp mặt thường xuyên. Đừng quá lo lắng, vì có nhiều cách để khiến bạn gái nhớ đến bạn khi xa cách. Điều quan trọng là tạo sự cân bằng giữa việc thể hiện sự quan tâm và giữ một chút bí ẩn để cô ấy luôn khao khát bạn. Để biết thêm chi tiết, hãy xem Bước 1 dưới đây.
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Hạn chế thời gian gọi điện thoại. Nếu bạn thực sự muốn cô ấy nhớ đến mình, đừng dành toàn bộ thời gian để gọi điện cho cô ấy. Nếu không, cô ấy sẽ cảm thấy như hai người chưa từng xa cách. Khi cô ấy biết rằng chỉ có thể nói chuyện với bạn trong khoảng thời gian ngắn, cô ấy sẽ trân trọng và nhớ bạn nhiều hơn.
- Hãy giải thích rằng bạn có lịch trình bận rộn và không thể nói chuyện hàng giờ mỗi khi cô ấy muốn. Tuy nhiên, đừng quá cứng nhắc, đôi khi một cuộc trò chuyện dài có thể giúp củng cố mối quan hệ.
Limit the time you spend together. If you want her to miss you, you can't be around her all the time, right? Absence truly makes the heart grow fonder, so you shouldn't spend every moment with your girlfriend, or she'll never have the chance to dream about being with you. However, don't limit your time together so much that she never sees you and forgets about you entirely. Strive for a balance where you have quality time together, but she doesn't feel like she can see you whenever she wants.
- It's all about playing hard to get. If you're always available to hang out whenever she calls, she'll know she can have you anytime.
- This means you shouldn't always be ready to go out whenever she wants. Plan ahead because you're genuinely busy, right?
Have your own life. If you want your girlfriend to miss you, she first needs to respect you as an individual. She should know you have your own life, with work, friends, hobbies like playing basketball or the guitar, all of which keep you busy. If your girlfriend thinks you have nothing to do, she'll assume she can hang out with you anytime, since you never have anything important that can't be postponed for her.
- Being busy and active makes you more attractive to any independent girl. Of course, don't be so busy that you have no time for your girlfriend, or you'll end up stressed and unhappy with your life.
Be a little mysterious. Don't tell your girlfriend everything you think or do every day, or she'll feel like there's no mystery left in your relationship. You shouldn't lie or disappear for days on end, making her worry, but you also don't need to rush to tell her everything about yourself and your plans. Make her feel like she's peeling back the layers of an onion each time she spends time with you, learning a little more about you each time. Revealing everything about yourself too soon will make you lose your charm; instead, let her discover you gradually.
- The more time you spend together, the more you reveal about yourself, but this should happen over time. If your girlfriend feels like she knows everything about you after the first date, why would she want a second?
Don't make yourself too easy to win over. You have your own life, right? So you can't answer every call or reply to her messages within seconds. Of course, sometimes you can pick up or respond immediately if it's urgent, but generally, take some time before replying or calling back. This could be an hour or two, half a day, or even a full day if you're really busy. Don't make a habit of ignoring her calls completely, or she'll get annoyed, bored, and suspicious that you're seeing someone else.
- If you always answer her calls immediately, she'll think she has you wrapped around her finger.
Be careful when trying to make your girlfriend jealous. You might think that disappearing for a few days, talking about other girls, or not sharing your feelings will make her miss you more or even get jealous, suspecting you're with someone else, which will make her want to see you more. Well, you're right, but only to a certain extent. Of course, you shouldn't push things too far or create too much distance, or let her catch you with another girl just to make her think about you more, because she might get hurt or lose all interest in you.
- She'll quickly catch on to your tricks and stop missing you altogether.
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Be the last thing she thinks about every night. If you want your girlfriend to miss you, you should be the final thought on her mind before she closes her eyes and falls asleep. This will make her think about you more and remember you subconsciously. Therefore, you should make it a habit to call or text her goodnight before she goes to bed. If she doesn’t particularly like this approach, don’t force it to avoid coming off as overly eager. However, she’ll definitely remember you more if she hears your voice right before sleeping.
Make her wonder if you’re thinking about her as much as she’s thinking about you. After a romantic date, call her for about a minute to check in after she gets home, but don’t go on and on about your feelings. Let her know you had a great time, but avoid contacting her the next day. This will make her wonder if you’re thinking about her as much as she’s thinking about you. Once you achieve this, you’ve got her hooked. If something happens the next day that genuinely makes you think of her, you can let her know, but don’t make it a habit.
- If your girlfriend says she’s been thinking about you, you don’t need to play it too cool. Let her know you’ve been thinking about her too, but avoid saying too much.
Leave her something to remember you by. If you want your girlfriend to miss you, leave her with something that reminds her of you. It could be a cute teddy bear you gave her for her birthday, a sweater that smells like you, or a photo of the two of you from your first date. Having something like this nearby will definitely make her think of you more often. Giving her a gift or leaving behind a personal item is a great way to ensure you stay on her mind.
- Give her a ring or bracelet that she’ll see every time she wears it.
- Give her a photo or something to hang on her wall so it’s always in her sight.
Charm your girlfriend even when you’re apart. Whenever you talk while being apart, you need to spark her interest so she always wants to see you again. Even if you only have 20 minutes to talk to her each day, make the most of that time. Make her laugh by sharing a funny story about something crazy that happened to you that day, ask about her plans, and make her feel special in your eyes. She’ll enjoy talking to you, and hearing your voice will only make her want to see you more.
- However, not everyone enjoys talking on the phone. You don’t need to have long phone conversations if it’s not your thing. Just make the most of your time when you do get to talk.
- If you’re worried about what to say, try thinking ahead about what you want to discuss before calling. Come up with three things you can talk about, and let the conversation flow from there.
Write a letter. If you want your girlfriend to miss you while you're apart, a sweet and unexpected gesture is to write her a letter. Nowadays, no one writes letters anymore, so she’ll truly appreciate this romantic effort. She’ll treasure the letter, read it over and over, and think of you often. You don’t need to write a long essay or about anything profound—just check in on her and let her know you’re thinking of her.
- Don’t worry about writing a perfect Shakespearean letter. She’ll be impressed by your effort, not your literary skills!
Treat her like a queen when you’re together. While playing hard to get when apart can make her miss you more, when you’re together, be fully devoted to her. Make her feel special, compliment her beauty, and plan romantic dates so she remembers you fondly when you’re apart. Talk about her interests, praise her, and take the time to truly listen to her.
- Don’t be afraid to say you miss her—it’s not a sign of weakness but a sign of how much you care!
Advice
- Try not to become obsessed. Have fun but know when to stop.
- Be yourself. If she likes you, she likes you; if not, move on.
- This takes time. Don’t expect her to miss you overnight or in just a few days. Be patient and don’t get discouraged. The results will be worth the wait.
- Remember, not all girls are the same. These are basic tactics that work for most women.
- If she already has a boyfriend, don’t use these tactics—it’s cruel.
- Don’t disrespect her, like asking for another girl’s number.
- Girls love guys who are true to themselves.
- Respect her feelings.
- Don’t act like a bad boy—just be yourself.
- Obsessing over a woman and strategizing to win her over can make you lose your charm. Stay true to yourself, even if you’re different. If things don’t work out, there’s someone else out there.
Warnings
- As mentioned, avoid becoming obsessed, or you’ll lose your chance. It’s better to take things slow rather than coming off as desperate.
- If she shows disinterest, stop pursuing. Nothing is worse than annoying the girl you like. If it’s meant to be, she’ll come to you—if not, it’s better to move on.
