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Barking is an inherent trait of dogs. Whether you’re a dog lover or not, this is a reality everyone must accept. In suburban settings, the sound of a dog barking is often as unavoidable as the noise from a nearby highway. However, if your neighbor’s dog barks relentlessly every time you step outside or howls throughout the night, disrupting your peace, you don’t have to endure it silently. Remember, you didn’t choose to adopt the dog or neglect its training. When addressing a neighbor’s barking dog, staying calm, courteous, and reasonable is key, but legal action is an option if needed.
Steps to Resolve the Issue
Initiating a Friendly Conversation
Choose the right moment to approach your neighbor. To ensure a productive discussion about the dog without causing defensiveness, timing is crucial. Start by suggesting a convenient time for both of you to talk. If they’re open to discussing it immediately, you might resolve the issue quickly.
- Consider visiting on a Saturday morning when they’re outside doing chores. Always wait for an invitation before entering their property and avoid startling them. Begin with casual conversation about their week, then gently bring up the topic of the dog.
- If your neighbor reacts with anger, defensiveness, or threats during this or any subsequent conversation, cease further attempts to resolve the issue yourself. Contact the police, report the barking problem, and inform them about the hostile response to your polite request.
EXPERT TIP
Beverly Ulbrich
Dog Behaviorist & Trainer
Dog Behaviorist & Trainer
Expert Trick: If a face-to-face conversation with your neighbor about their barking dog isn't possible, consider writing a polite and concise letter detailing the issue. Deliver it by placing it in their mailbox or attaching it to their door.
Assume your neighbor is unaware of the issue. They might not realize the dog is barking excessively or know how to address it. A friendly reminder, coupled with suggestions for managing the dog's behavior—such as recommending a reputable dog trainer—could resolve the situation. Your neighbor may be oblivious to the disturbance, especially if the dog barks while they're away at work.
Allow your neighbors to resolve the issue. After your initial discussion or a planned conversation, your neighbors might feel remorseful and take immediate steps to address the problem. Letting them handle it themselves can help maintain a peaceful relationship. They may already have strategies to manage their dog's barking but haven’t had the chance to implement them yet.
- Be patient and give your neighbor time to make adjustments. Changing routines or conducting training sessions to reduce barking can take time.
Follow up with your neighbor. It’s possible your neighbor might be hesitant (not motivated to act) or resistant (offended by the suggestion), which could require further action from you. However, remain polite and approachable. Conducting conversations during the day in public spaces, like during weekend yard work, ensures the interaction stays safe and transparent.
Recommend solutions to reduce barking. There are numerous methods to stop excessive barking, such as regular exercise and training. Research various options and present them to your neighbor respectfully. Approach the situation as a collaborative effort to find a mutually acceptable solution. This approach can also strengthen your position if the issue escalates legally.
- If your neighbor is receptive and you’re willing, you could offer to cover the cost of an anti-bark collar or assist in finding a professional dog trainer. However, this is entirely optional.
Build a relationship with the dog. Sometimes, befriending the dog is easier than dealing with the neighbor. Ask the owner for the dog’s name and request an introduction. If the dog becomes familiar with you, it may bark less when you’re around. Use a calm tone to call the dog by its name when it barks. With the owner’s consent, offer the dog a treat or toy to show friendliness and calm it down.
- If you establish a good rapport with both the neighbor and the dog, you might consider offering to walk the dog during the day, especially if it barks while the owner is away.
- However, this level of involvement is entirely up to you. If you’re not a dog person, already have your own pet, or simply don’t have the time, you’re under no obligation to help with your neighbor’s noisy dog.
Deliver a final warning. If your neighbor continues to ignore the issue, reach out one last time. Clearly state that you’ve raised the barking problem multiple times without improvement. Emphasize that you’d prefer to resolve this between yourselves but will involve others if needed. At this stage, avoid threatening to call the police unless the neighbor becomes aggressive or threatening.
Document the ongoing issue. While waiting for your neighbor to address the problem, continue gathering evidence. Keep a detailed log of the dog’s barking frequency and duration, or consult other neighbors who share your concerns. If your neighbor shows no willingness to resolve the issue, this documentation will be crucial for future steps.
Asserting Your Rights
Understand local regulations. Involving authorities should be a last resort, as it can strain your relationship with your neighbor and take considerable time to resolve. However, if all other options fail, ensure you know your rights and how to enforce them.
- Local laws vary; some areas have specific barking dog ordinances, while others address it under noise or nuisance regulations. Contact your local government for clarity.
- If you’re part of a neighborhood association or share a landlord, review any applicable rules or lease terms regarding noise complaints.
- Some municipalities offer mediation services to resolve disputes without court involvement. Reach out to local authorities or legal offices for guidance.
Contact animal control. While animal control no longer removes dogs without notice, they may assist with nuisance barking. Check if they handle such cases or if police involvement is required.
- Be prepared to provide evidence and follow up persistently for action to be taken.
- If the dog is barking due to distress, such as being trapped or lacking water, contact animal control immediately. Notify the owner if possible, but prioritize the dog’s well-being.
Involve the police. Contacting the police can either escalate or resolve the situation quickly. Proper preparation is key.
- After familiarizing yourself with local ordinances, report the violation using the non-emergency police line.
- Avoid using emergency lines (like 911) for barking complaints unless required, as misuse could result in penalties.
- Provide thorough documentation, such as logs, recordings, or neighbor statements, to support your case.
- Maintain a respectful demeanor throughout the process to prevent your neighbor from portraying you as the aggressor.
Take legal steps if necessary. If court action is required to address a noise or nuisance violation, present your case calmly and clearly with the evidence you’ve collected.
- You might sue your neighbor in small claims court for disrupting your peace and enjoyment of your property. While this won’t make you wealthy—and could even cost you—presenting a well-documented case may compel your neighbor to quiet their dog.
- If local nuisance laws are insufficient, consider starting a petition and reaching out to elected officials to advocate for stronger regulations.
Dealing With Occasional Dog Barking
Evaluate the situation. Unless you live in complete isolation, occasional dog barking is unavoidable. Dogs bark for various reasons, such as fear, anxiety, attention-seeking, or even illness.
- Before taking action, assess whether your expectations for silence are realistic. Brief barking during play, when someone passes by, or when the dog wants to come inside is normal and usually short-lived.
- However, if the barking is prolonged (e.g., ten minutes or more), sounds distressed, or feels threatening, you may have valid grounds to address the issue.
Explore soundproofing solutions. There are multiple ways to reduce noise from your neighbor’s dog and other sources. Soundproof windows, though costly, can also lower heating expenses. Alternatively, soundproof curtains offer a more affordable option. These measures can also minimize other unavoidable noises, like traffic or sirens.
- By reducing the noise that enters your home, you may find the dog’s barking less bothersome.
Use an anti-barking sonic device. These devices emit a high-pitched sound when barking is detected, which is inaudible to humans but may deter the dog. Essentially automated dog whistles, they can be effective in some cases.
- If your neighbor agrees, consider collars with built-in sonic devices, unpleasant scents, or bursts of compressed air to discourage barking.
- While these devices are unlikely to harm the dog, their effectiveness varies, and the discomfort they cause may raise ethical concerns.
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Maintain respect in all interactions, regardless of your neighbor’s behavior. Escalating the situation won’t resolve the issue and may provoke a negative reaction.
Warnings
- Avoid addressing the dog’s issue directly without involving your neighbor. Doing so could lead to legal consequences, particularly if the dog is harmed.
- Refrain from threatening to call the police, as this creates hostility. While you have the right to involve authorities if necessary, avoid using it as a bargaining tool.
- Do not disturb your neighbor at night to complain about the dog. This could anger them and reduce their willingness to cooperate.
