Depression is a clinical condition, much like the common cold or flu. To determine whether someone is suffering from depression or simply feeling sad, it’s crucial to assess the severity and frequency of their emotions or symptoms. Each individual has a unique approach to treating depression, but certain methods have proven to be more effective. With the right treatment, you can alleviate depressive symptoms and minimize their impact on your quality of life.
Steps
Diagnosing Depression

Monitor your emotions daily for two weeks. If you experience persistent feelings of sadness, such as a lack of interest or pleasure in activities you once enjoyed, you may be dealing with depression. These symptoms occur throughout the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks.
- These symptoms may last for two weeks or more, disappear, and then reappear. This is referred to as 'recurrent symptoms.' In such cases, the symptoms may be more severe than before, as the negative mood affects social life and work performance. You might skip school or work. Similarly, these emotions can lead to a loss of interest in hobbies or activities, such as sports, crafts, or visiting friends.
- If you’ve recently experienced a life event, such as the loss of a loved one, many depressive symptoms may arise, which may not necessarily indicate clinical depression. Consult a doctor or specialist to determine if your symptoms are beyond the normal grieving process.

Be aware of other depression symptoms. Beyond feelings of sadness and a loss of interest in surroundings, someone with depression may exhibit additional symptoms throughout the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks. Review your emotional state over the past two weeks and check if you’ve experienced three or more typical symptoms. These include:
- Loss of appetite or weight loss
- Sleep disturbances (insomnia or excessive sleeping)
- Fatigue or lack of energy
- Hyperactivity or complete apathy
- Feelings of worthlessness or extreme guilt
- Difficulty concentrating or indecisiveness
- Persistent thoughts of death or suicide, or attempts or plans to commit suicide

Seek immediate help if suicidal thoughts arise. If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide, seek immediate assistance by calling 113 or visiting the nearest clinic. Do not attempt to manage these negative thoughts without professional support.

Distinguish between depression and 'sadness.' Sadness is a range of emotions triggered by stress, significant life events (both positive and negative), and even weather changes. To differentiate between depression and sadness, assess the severity and frequency of emotions or symptoms. If depressive symptoms occur almost daily for two weeks or more, you may be dealing with depression.
- Major life events, such as the loss of a loved one, can cause symptoms similar to depression. A key difference is that during grief, positive memories of the deceased may surface, and the bereaved can still find joy in certain activities.

Document activities from the past few weeks. Create a list of all activities, from work and school to eating and bathing. Observe if there’s a pattern in these activities. Also, note any reduction in the frequency of activities you once performed willingly and happily.
- Use this list to monitor if you’re engaging in risky behaviors. Depressed individuals often take dangerous risks because they no longer care about their lives and may need others to care for them.
- If you’re depressed, completing this task may be challenging. Set aside specific time or ask a trusted friend or family member to help compile the list.

Ask others if they’ve noticed changes in your mood. Speak with close family or friends to see if they’ve observed any shifts in your behavior. While your personal experience is paramount, the perspectives of those around you are equally important.
- Those close to you might notice frequent crying or an inability to perform simple tasks like bathing.

Consult a doctor to determine if physical conditions are causing depression. Certain illnesses can lead to depressive symptoms, particularly those related to the thyroid or hormonal imbalances. Discuss with your doctor to identify whether physical health issues might be contributing to depression.
- Some terminal or chronic illnesses often carry a higher risk of triggering depressive symptoms. In such cases, a medical evaluation is essential to pinpoint the cause and explore potential remedies.
Seek Professional Help

Choose a mental health professional. There are various specialists in this field, each with distinct approaches: counseling psychiatrists, clinical psychologists, and psychiatrists. You may consult one or a combination of these experts.
- Counseling Psychiatrists: These professionals practice therapy to help patients navigate challenging life periods. Their methods can be short-term or long-term, often focusing on specific issues. They tend to ask questions and listen attentively, providing an objective perspective to help you identify key thoughts and phrases. They delve deeper into these ideas to address emotional and environmental factors contributing to depression.
- Clinical Psychologists: Trained to conduct assessments and diagnose conditions, they focus on psychopathology or the study of behavioral and mental disorders.
- Psychiatrists: These experts use psychotherapy and evaluations but often recommend medication-based treatments. In most regions, only psychiatrists can prescribe medication, though some areas now allow psychologists to do so.

Find a specialist. You can seek recommendations from friends, family, community leaders, local health centers, Employee Assistance Programs (if available), or your primary care physician.
- Professional associations, such as the Vietnam Psychological Science Association, offer member directories to help you locate specialists in your area.

Look for the right specialist. It’s crucial to find someone who makes you feel comfortable and at ease. An unsuitable counselor might discourage you from seeking help, delaying effective treatment. Remember, not all mental health professionals are the same; find one who suits your needs and utilize their services.
- Psychiatrists often ask questions and listen to your responses. While it may feel difficult to open up initially, most people find themselves engaging in conversation within minutes.

Ensure that you choose a licensed professional. Mental health practitioners must hold a valid license to practice in your province. The website of the Psychological Science Association provides essential information on selecting specialists, verifying credentials, and ensuring the qualifications of the practitioner.

Check your health insurance coverage. While insurance often includes mental health services, the extent of coverage depends on the severity and type of therapy required. Before starting treatment, consult your insurance provider to confirm that your chosen specialist is covered under your plan.

Ask your specialist about treatment options. Three primary therapies have proven effective for patients: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), and Behavioral Psychotherapy. There are also numerous other approaches. Your specialist will determine the most suitable treatment for your condition.
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT aims to challenge and alter beliefs, attitudes, and biases contributing to depressive symptoms while addressing maladaptive behaviors.
- Interpersonal Therapy (IPT): IPT focuses on life changes, social isolation, lack of social skills, and other personal issues that contribute to depression. It is particularly effective when a specific event, such as a loss, triggers recent depressive episodes.
- Behavioral Psychotherapy: This therapy aims to organize enjoyable activities while minimizing unpleasant experiences through techniques like activity scheduling, self-control therapy, social skills training, and problem-solving.

Be patient. Therapy often takes time to show results. Regular counseling sessions over several months are typically needed before noticeable improvements occur. Don’t lose hope if progress seems slow; addressing deep-seated issues requires time.
Discuss Medication with a Psychiatrist

Consult a psychiatrist about antidepressants. These medications influence the brain's neurotransmitter systems to mitigate negative emotions. Antidepressants are categorized based on the neurotransmitters they affect.
- Common types include SSRIs, SNRIs, MAOIs, and tricyclics. You can research widely used antidepressants online. A psychiatrist will prescribe the most suitable option for your condition.
- Your psychiatrist may trial different medications until the right one is found. Some antidepressants can have adverse effects, so maintain close communication with your doctor and report any negative or unexpected mood changes promptly. Switching medications may sometimes be necessary.

Discuss antipsychotic medications with your psychiatrist. If antidepressants are ineffective, your psychiatrist might recommend one of three antipsychotics (aripiprazole, quetiapine, risperidone). Alternatively, a combination therapy of antidepressants and antipsychotics (fluoxetine/olanzapine) may be prescribed alongside standard antidepressants. These medications can treat depression when antidepressants alone fail.

Combine medication with psychotherapy. To maximize the effectiveness of medication, continue regular sessions with your psychiatrist while undergoing treatment.

Take medication consistently. Antidepressants require time to take effect, as they gradually restore chemical balance in the brain. Generally, you should take them for at least three months to achieve the desired results.
Keep a Journal

Document your mood patterns. Use a journal to track patterns affecting your mood, energy, health, and sleep. Journaling also helps you process emotions and identify the causes of your current feelings.
- You can learn from journaling instructors, guidebooks, or online journaling platforms if you need more structured approaches.

Write daily. Develop a habit of writing every day, even if it’s just for a few minutes. Some days you may write extensively, while others you might lack the motivation. Regular practice makes writing easier, so stay consistent and wait for the results to unfold.

Always carry a pen and paper. Having writing tools readily available makes it easier to jot down thoughts. Alternatively, you can use simple note-taking apps on your phone, tablet, or other devices you carry with you.

Write whatever comes to mind. Let your thoughts flow freely without worrying about their meaning. Don’t stress over spelling, grammar, or style, and ignore how others might perceive your writing.

Share what feels necessary. You can keep your journal private if you prefer. Alternatively, you might share certain entries with family, friends, or your therapist if it feels helpful. You could even start a public blog. It’s entirely up to you and your comfort level with journaling.
Adjust Your Diet

Eliminate foods that contribute to depression. Processed foods, such as pre-packaged meats, chocolate, sugary desserts, fried foods, refined grains, and high-fat dairy products, are known to exacerbate depressive symptoms.

Incorporate more foods that help combat depression. Foods less likely to trigger depression include fruits, vegetables, and fish. Consuming a variety of these provides essential nutrients and vitamins that promote overall health.

Adopt a Mediterranean diet. This region is renowned for its diet rich in fruits, vegetables, fish, legumes, and olive oil.
- This diet also excludes alcohol, which can worsen depression.

Increase intake of omega-3 fatty acids and folic acid. While there’s no conclusive evidence that omega-3s and folic acid alone can cure depression, they have shown some benefits in alleviating symptoms when combined with other treatments.

Monitor how your diet affects your mood. Pay attention to how you feel a few hours after eating specific foods. If you notice a shift in mood, recall what you ate. Do you see patterns linked to certain foods?
- You don’t need to track every nutrient but focus on the types of food you consume and how they help or hinder your emotional state.
Engage in Physical Activity

Consult a doctor or personal trainer. Before starting an exercise regimen, choose activities that align with your interests, fitness level, and injury history (if any). Seek advice from a professional to assess your readiness.
- Experts can also help identify safe and enjoyable exercises that motivate you to begin.

Start an exercise routine. Physical activity boosts mood and prevents relapse. In some randomized controlled trials, exercise has been shown to be as effective as medication. Experts believe it enhances neurotransmitter and hormone production while regulating sleep.
- One advantage of using exercise as a treatment for depression is that activities like running cost nothing.

Use the SMART system to set goals. Create goals based on the SMART criteria: Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Timely. Following this framework will help you achieve your fitness objectives.
- Start with the 'A' in SMART to set achievable goals. Accomplishing small milestones builds confidence for larger ones. If you struggle to push yourself (e.g., walking for 10 minutes), aim for consistency (e.g., walking 10 minutes daily for a week, then a month, and eventually a year). This approach helps you gauge your long-term commitment.

View each workout as a step forward. Consider every exercise session as an opportunity to improve your mood and foster a positive mindset ready for change. Even a five-minute walk at a moderate pace is better than no activity. Take pride in your achievements, no matter how small, as they propel you forward on your emotional recovery journey.

Engage in cardiovascular exercises. Activities like swimming, running, or cycling are effective in combating depression. Choose low-impact cardio options, such as swimming laps or cycling, if joint-friendly exercises are needed.

Exercise with friends. Invite friends or family to join you in physical activities. They can motivate you to exercise outdoors or visit the gym. Explain that self-motivation is challenging, and you’d appreciate their support.
Explore Alternative Treatments

Increase exposure to sunlight. Studies suggest that sunlight positively impacts mood, partly due to vitamin D from various sources (not just the sun). You don’t need to be active outdoors; simply sitting in the sun can be beneficial.
- Some specialists recommend light therapy lamps for patients in areas with limited winter sunlight, as they mimic the effects of natural sunlight.
- If spending extended time outdoors, use sunscreen and sunglasses for protection.

Spend more time outdoors. Engage in gardening, walking, or other outdoor activities to reap the benefits. Some activities may involve physical exercise, but they don’t have to be strictly fitness-oriented. Enjoying fresh air and nature helps relax the mind and body.

Explore creative activities. Creativity and depression are believed to be interconnected, such as heightened sensitivity in creative individuals. However, depression often arises when one cannot realize their creative potential. Therefore, regularly engage in writing, painting, dancing, or other creative pursuits.
Consider Alternative Treatments

Take Chi Ban. This herbal remedy is used to alleviate mild depression. However, research has not proven its effectiveness in improving mental states. It is available at natural health stores.
- Follow the dosage and frequency instructions on the packaging.
- Purchase herbal supplements from reputable suppliers. Regulatory bodies do not always strictly monitor supplements, so purity and quality vary by manufacturer.
- Avoid combining Chi Ban with antidepressants like SSRIs, as this may increase serotonin levels and cause severe side effects.
- Chi Ban may reduce the effectiveness of other medications, including birth control, antivirals (e.g., HIV treatments), blood thinners (e.g., Warfarin), hormone replacement therapy, and immunosuppressants. Consult your doctor if taking other medications.
- Due to limited evidence of its efficacy, some countries do not recommend Chi Ban.
- Health organizations advise caution with homeopathic remedies and recommend consulting healthcare providers for safe and coordinated treatment.

Use SAMe supplements. Another alternative is S-adenosyl methionine (SAMe), a naturally occurring molecule. SAMe deficiency may contribute to depression. This supplement can be taken orally, injected intravenously, or intramuscularly to boost SAMe levels.
- Production of SAMe is not strictly regulated, and its effectiveness and composition vary by manufacturer.
- Follow the dosage and frequency instructions on the packaging.

Acupuncture. This traditional Chinese medicine technique involves inserting needles into specific points on the body to release energy or restore internal balance. You can search online for licensed acupuncturists or ask your doctor for a referral.
- Check with your health insurance provider to see if acupuncture is covered.
- Evidence on acupuncture's effectiveness varies. Some studies suggest it can normalize neuroprotective proteins and be as effective as Prozac. Others show it compares favorably to psychotherapy. While these studies lend credibility to acupuncture for depression treatment, further research is still needed.
Medical Device Treatments

Ask your specialist about Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT). This method is used for severe depression, strong suicidal tendencies, psychotic episodes, or when other treatments fail. The process involves light anesthesia followed by electrical stimulation to the brain.
- ECT has a high response rate (70%-90% of patients respond).
- Drawbacks include potential side effects like cardiovascular issues and cognitive impairments, such as temporary memory loss.

Consider Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS). This method uses magnetic fields to stimulate the brain. It is approved for patients with major depressive disorder who do not respond to medication.
- Daily sessions are required, which can be challenging for some individuals.

Explore Vagus Nerve Stimulation (VNS). This relatively new treatment involves implanting a device to stimulate the vagus nerve, part of the autonomic nervous system. It is approved for patients unresponsive to medication.
- Data on VNS effectiveness is limited, and potential side effects include complications from the implanted device and interference with other medical devices.

Consider Deep Brain Stimulation (DBS). This is an experimental method not yet approved by health authorities. The technique involves implanting a device to stimulate a brain region called 'Area 25.'
- The effectiveness of DBS remains limited. As an experimental treatment, DBS is only used when other methods fail or are unsuitable.

Explore Neurofeedback. This treatment aims to 'retrain' the brain by helping patients with depression regulate their brainwave activity. New forms of neurofeedback are being developed with the aid of functional MRI (fMRI) technology.
- Neurofeedback is costly and time-intensive. Insurance companies may not cover this treatment.
Tips
- A treatment technique may not succeed. When working with a healthcare professional, don’t be discouraged if the first or second method fails; it simply means you should try another approach.
- Avoid illegal drugs!
Warnings
- If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide, seek immediate assistance by calling 113 or visiting the nearest clinic. Do not attempt to manage these thoughts without professional support.
