How often should you text when you're newly dating?

You’re probably excited to be dating someone you’ve just met, but you may be wondering whether you’re texting them enough (or too much) now that the relationship is still new. When chatting with this person, it’s important to send messages in moderation so that they stay interested without feeling overwhelmed. While every couple is different, there are some basic guidelines you can follow. Keep reading to find out how often you should text and whether your texting habits are healthy for both of you!

Two or three times a week if you want things to stay casual. If you’ve only been on a few dates, texting every day may come off as a bit too eager. Try texting when they’re free, like in the evening or on weekends, so they’re more likely to respond quickly. Limit your messages to just a few times a week to give them personal space and allow them the opportunity to text you first.

• You can send a text to let them know you’re thinking about them or to plan your next date.

Both of you take turns texting first.

You expect an immediate response from them.