How to Attract Women

Get to know her. Talk to her and listen carefully to what she says. Ask about her family, where she grew up, her beliefs, and other political topics. Find out what she likes to do in her free time. Avoid being critical or rude to her answers, as these are her personal opinions, not yours! Respect her views, opinions, and beliefs. Women often appreciate being respected. If you want to become more attractive, showing respect is the perfect starting point.

• For example, ask about her hobbies, and then inquire about why she enjoys them. This is a great way to bring up conversations about her family and where she was born...

Identify common interests. She likes Rock music... you like Rock music... and just like that, you have something to talk about! Ask about the type of music she listens to, the movies she enjoys, and what she likes to do in her free time. Discover common ground because this is a great opportunity to get to know each other and bond.

Be a good friend. To attract women, you first need to become their friend. Becoming friends with her and showing her how amazing she is is the best way to catch her attention. Let her see how happy she will be by your side, and how much happier you will feel when you're around her.

• Encourage her when she's having a tough day, help her take her mind off things, be there for her when she needs support, and listen when she talks.

Avoid being creepy. Don’t stare at her or avoid making eye contact. Don’t linger around her without saying anything. Avoid focusing on... parts of her body (even if it might seem tempting). If you don’t know her well, don’t give the impression that you're interested in a relationship, and refrain from flirting. These actions will make her uncomfortable and definitely make you less appealing.

Build self-esteem and confidence. Confidence and self-esteem are highly attractive traits. Women are drawn to guys who are confident in themselves and their abilities. Boost your confidence by engaging in volunteer organizations, learning new skills, or traveling.

• For example, you can build your confidence by joining volunteer organizations like the "Asian Volunteer Organization (VIA)". This will provide you with the opportunity to prove to yourself and others that you can make a meaningful difference.
• You can also boost your confidence by learning new skills, such as picking up one or two foreign languages. There are free websites, like Livemocha, where you can easily learn languages without spending money.

Avoid comparing yourself to others. Doing so won't make you feel better about yourself. The only person you can truly become is yourself, and that’s a wonderful thing! Show the world how amazing you can be and never try to change who you are just to meet someone else's expectations.

• Don’t pretend to be someone else. Girls will sense if you're fake, and it won’t be attractive. Trying to act tough when you were raised with good values? That's not a great idea, and she will notice. Be yourself. Girls appreciate that.

Take care of yourself and your appearance. Don’t neglect personal hygiene or your wardrobe. Why should a girl like a guy who doesn’t care about himself? Shower regularly, use deodorant, wear clean clothes that suit you, and brush your teeth often.

• Don’t worry about wearing designer clothes. She’ll notice you more if your clothes fit well and complement your look, rather than just showing off a brand name on your chest.
• Avoid overdoing it. A bit of gel in your hair can look good, but if it looks too wet or stiff, it’s not a great look.

Be approachable. Don’t come off as angry, sad, or unapproachable. If you always seem upset when talking to her, how will she ever want to talk to you, let alone date you? Smile, be friendly, and make it easy to strike up a conversation. One obvious way to do that is by simply talking to her.

Be a great guy. Be someone that girls would want to date. You don’t have to be a genius, but at least be knowledgeable and curious. Be a kind guy who always strives to improve the lives of those around him. And improve your own life too. This is crucial. Go out and work hard to create a better life for yourself.

• You can boost your knowledge by reading books on topics that interest you. Did you know there are plenty of books on the evolution of weapons, such as swords? Or how dinosaurs hunted? Visit a library to learn more.
• Care about your dreams. What do you want to do? What are your passions? Girls are often drawn to guys with passions—they want to believe that you’ll love them as much as you love... football, for example.

Be kind and funny. Always try to help her and smile at her. A smile might make her day better. Avoid being distant or spending too much time talking to your friends when she’s around. Make an effort to spend quality time with her and converse with her kindly.

Perform well in school. You don’t need to get perfect grades, but at least aim for an 8 or 9. Strive to achieve high marks, but don’t turn into a complete bookworm. Girls don’t like guys who are overly academic or those who are too obsessed with sports. Do well in school while also participating in sports.

• Being organized is important too. You don’t want to appear messy in class, constantly digging through your books in front of her. Most girls like guys who submit their homework on time.

Engage in sports activities. This is a key step to attracting girls, especially if they are also part of the school’s cheerleading team or enjoy sports themselves. Girls typically prefer guys with well-built, muscular bodies. Playing sports can help you stand out, and they love guys who stand out. Join sports and aim to be part of the school team.

• You need to know that "attraction" is a crucial part of starting a romantic relationship.
• Girls appreciate guys who understand them, and knowing how to listen is very important.
• Complimenting her appearance will boost her confidence.
• Understand her thoughts, and you’ll know how to connect with her.
• Always be kind, considerate, and respect her opinions and feelings.
• Avoid texting or doing other things while talking to her. Instead, focus entirely on her and talk to her directly.
• Funny stories and jokes are enjoyable as long as you know what you're joking about, so be careful not to cross the line. Some girls enjoy a witty sense of humor, but don’t go too far or make it cruel, as it can damage your reputation.