How to Become More Attractive

Appearance may not be everything, but it’s certainly not a bad thing either. Whether for personal reasons or just a desire to look better, many factors influence your appearance, beyond just genetics (or the jeans you're wearing). To become more attractive, you need to adopt the right attitude, style, and techniques.

Pay attention to your wardrobe. Spend time choosing clothes that make you feel comfortable and confident when you look in the mirror. Keep in mind that comfort doesn’t mean dressing like you just rolled out of bed. Similarly, looking stylish doesn’t mean blindly following trends: never wear clothes that don’t suit your body just because they’re in style.

• Develop a proper dressing style and learn how to select outfits that flatter your figure, whether you're male or female. Look for clothes with colors and cuts that make you appear slimmer.
• Always dress appropriately for the occasion. Going to the movies? Casual attire is fine; a formal dress will look out of place. Similarly, when going out, leave your Converse sneakers at home and take the time to wear something more stylish.

Determine the appearance you desire. Do you want to look professional? Like a businessperson? An ice skater? This method will help you easily define the style you aspire to. However, you should avoid copying the way others dress – often, it won't suit you since your body size and shape are different from theirs.

• Don’t hesitate to look silly. Becoming attractive and developing a high aesthetic sense is a skill you can learn through trial and error. If others compliment you or if you feel good about yourself, you're on the right track.

Learn how to apply makeup correctly. Poor makeup will make you look worse, not better. If you're used to heavy makeup, try opting for a more natural approach. To enhance your eyes, learn how to shape your eyebrows to better suit your features.

• The simpler, the better. Light makeup will make you appear cuter than when you apply a thick layer of foundation and a ton of mascara.
• Sometimes makeup can cover facial hair, but it doesn’t always do the trick. If you have darker patches of hair on your face and wish to conceal them, consider waxing, using hair removal creams, or plucking them.

Get a haircut. Choose a hairstyle that suits your face shape. Don’t keep long hair if it makes you look older. You may hesitate to cut off that hard-to-grow long hair, but you’ll be amazed by the elegance and vitality that short hair can bring.

• If you don't believe in the power of a bad haircut, search for images of your favorite celebrities on Google. They can quickly go from being incredibly attractive to looking disheveled – sometimes, just because of their hairstyle.

Drink plenty of water. Drinking enough water not only helps you lose weight but also gives you clear, fresh skin. Aim to drink 2-3 liters of water daily (sometimes through the food you consume). The taller you are, the more water you need.

• Try to avoid dehydrating drinks like coffee and soda. They are loaded with sugar and empty calories. Pure water is the best choice for enhancing your beauty.

Maintain personal hygiene. One of the easiest ways to become more attractive is by regularly taking care of your body. Small details can make a huge difference; after all, who wants to be around someone who doesn’t take care of themselves? Focus on:

• Cleanliness: shower daily, wash hands frequently.
• Fragrance: use deodorant; if you like, add a light spritz of perfume.
• Skin: apply sunscreen; moisturize daily to keep your skin soft; if you have acne, try to manage it.
• Hair and body hair: keep your hair neat and clean; if you have unwanted body hair, consider shaving or waxing.

Don’t forget to take care of your hands and feet. Regularly trim your nails and keep them clean; if you have long nails, you can paint and style them. Often, the smallest details stand out the most.

• For the rest of your hands, apply hand cream after washing your hands to keep them soft and smooth.
• Your feet are just as important. Use body lotion after showering; keep your feet clean and remember to pay attention to foot odor.

Brush your teeth and floss. Brush at least twice a day, especially after drinking coffee or smoking. No one wants to be around someone with bad breath. Flossing is also very important – did you know it helps reduce the risk of heart disease and gives you fresh breath?

• Also, visit your dentist regularly to ensure you don’t have cavities and to whiten your teeth if needed. You can whiten your teeth at home or with the help of your dentist.

Pay attention to your health. People who look healthy are generally more attractive. What better way to look fit than actually being healthy? Now is the perfect time to take care of your body. Start with the basics: drink plenty of water, eat healthy, and maintain a balanced body.

• Get enough sleep each night. Have you ever heard the term 'beauty sleep'? It was coined for a reason. If you sleep for 8 hours, you’ll look better.
• Quit smoking and avoid alcohol if you are a regular drinker. Both habits damage your skin, bones, teeth, hair, and internal organs.

Exercise to stay in shape. High-intensity interval training is a great way to burn excess fat quickly and improve cardiovascular health. If you're shy about going to the gym, exercising at home is a private (and cost-effective) way to stay lean. All you need is a workout routine you can stick to. Whether it’s going for a walk after dinner or cycling around the neighborhood. You can do whatever feels best for you.

• Taking care of your body through exercise is essential for achieving a beautiful physique. Exercise has numerous benefits, inside and out. Aesthetically, it helps tone muscles, improve posture, and make you move with more confidence. It also increases blood flow to your muscles and skin, giving you a healthy, radiant complexion.

Confidence. Self-esteem can offer you significant benefits. To start, improve your posture to become more confident—slouching and dragging your feet will never make you attractive, no matter how beautiful your genes are. Also, learn how to connect with others through body language to appear more approachable. Confidence is the most appealing factor.

• To have a good posture, push your chest forward and hold your head high. Keep your gaze forward, not down at your feet.
• To develop a friendly body language, avoid crossing your arms and keep your head up, not buried in your phone.

Don’t compare yourself to movie stars or get caught up in the allure of cosmetic surgery ads. Everyone has some feature that is uniquely beautiful—whether it’s their eyes, smile, hair, or personality. Always take the time to look your best, but not by comparing yourself to others.

• Becoming beautiful doesn’t mean you must spend hours after waking up applying makeup or constantly dressing in trendy outfits. It simply means striving to be yourself.
• No matter what stands out about you, make it your focal point. Maybe you don’t have a body like Barbie or Ken, but remember, no one on this planet does. You can adjust your body as you desire, and that’s what matters most.

Be a good person. Cultivate good qualities to complement your attractive appearance. You need to know humility and honesty. Only then will others have more reasons to appreciate you. Have you ever met someone who you thought looked okay, but once you got to know them, you realized they were truly likable? Physical appearance is not the most important thing—it’s also about the soul within you.

• Similarly, have you ever seen someone who was stunningly beautiful but, when they spoke, oh my, they should have stayed silent? A person's attitude can instantly turn them from captivating to ordinary.

Show your uniqueness. People are often drawn to rare and distinctive things. You are an individual—no one else in this world is like you—and you should take advantage of that. It’s easy to be tempted to blend in with others, but remember, imitators won’t be remembered. Be yourself and express your wonderful qualities.

• Emphasize what makes you unique, whether it’s your hair, body shape, weight, eyes, etc. Let your appearance reflect your distinct personality. This is the key to standing out.

Smile. Frowning often is like wearing a sign that says "Stay away from me." Even a small smile can brighten your face, make you seem more approachable, and therefore, more attractive. What could be more inviting and approachable than that?

• A genuine, beautiful smile is the answer. Beauty doesn’t stem from your physical appearance—it comes from your facial expressions and body language. Be graceful and happy, but don't fake it. Otherwise, people will think you're trying too hard.

• While appearance can attract others, it’s your personality that keeps them around.
• If you love yourself, others will naturally be drawn to you. Nothing is more attractive than a cheerful and healthy attitude.
• Eat well. It helps your body function properly, prevents weight gain, and makes your hair shinier and skin smoother.
• Be yourself and take pride in who you are. Don't follow others—do what you believe is best for you.
• Before starting a diet, research it thoroughly. And if you’re cutting back on sweets, take it step by step and occasionally allow yourself a little treat.
• Always be yourself; what others think doesn’t matter.

• Don’t lose yourself. Trying to fit in and become more attractive doesn’t mean you should erase who you truly are. Keep that essence. Remember, happiness comes when you accept yourself.