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If you're an American traveling abroad, the last thing you want is to draw unnecessary attention to yourself. Not only will you be more likely to fall into tourist traps, but you could also become an easier target for theft. Are you aware of the subtle habits, phrases, and fashion choices that give you away as a typical tourist? Read on to find out how to avoid standing out while traveling.
Step-by-Step Guide
Attire
Leave the sneakers behind. White sneakers (or tennis shoes) are often seen as the quintessential American footwear. Any shoes that don’t scream 'workout' will work just fine. If you must wear socks, choose dark ones or match them to your pants. Flip-flops can be another giveaway unless you're in places like Brazil, Australia, or New Zealand where they’re part of the local style. In most other countries, open-toed sandals (like Chacos, Tevas, or Keens) are questionable at best and might even be considered inappropriate. For city travel, shoes are the safest option. For outdoor activities, though, such footwear is perfectly acceptable. As for Crocs, while they’re common in the U.S., they’re often considered laughable elsewhere and are mostly worn by children or gardeners. Sneakers from brands like K-Swiss, Vans, or Adidas in darker tones with minimal logos are much more discreet and great for extended walking trips.
Steer clear of anything that directly references the USA or America. Avoid clothing that displays city names, state or national flags, or any similar patriotic symbols.
Purchase accessories from local shops, particularly ones that locals are wearing, like scarves. Sometimes, not wearing certain items could give away that you're a tourist. In some regions, hats or scarves are commonly worn, especially during the winter. In certain religious sites, head coverings may be required. It's wise to do some research beforehand and bring appropriate items with you when visiting religious places. Wearing a headscarf incorrectly might signal you're a tourist, and locals may take offense, feeling that you are misappropriating their traditions. If you're not used to wearing a headscarf, it's probably better to only wear one when necessary.
Stay away from US-branded clothing with obvious logos (e.g., Nike, Gap, Abercrombie, etc.). Avoid wearing slogan-heavy items like 'Virginia is for lovers,' as they can tie you to a specific place. While global brands are increasingly popular worldwide due to globalization, it's still advisable to opt for simple, non-slogan attire.
Dress slightly more polished than usual. Casual dress is less common outside of the US. To blend in better, consider wearing long pants or skirts and button-up shirts or blouses, rather than sneakers, sweatshirts, t-shirts, jeans, or shorts—especially athletic shorts. Blue jeans aren’t always acceptable, so think about packing 'casual Friday' business attire. Shorts should be avoided by adults, especially women, except in situations like hiking. In many places, adults in shorts can be seen as silly, inappropriate, or even disrespectful. Pay attention to local habits and adjust your grooming accordingly. Observe whether people tuck in their shirts or leave them untucked—this can vary by gender in different countries. If you're in hot weather and tempted to wear shorts, consider a lightweight long-sleeve shirt and linen pants instead. This may be a better option and help reduce sun exposure.
Dress for the local climate. Wearing shorts and a t-shirt in cooler weather (or during winter) makes it obvious you're not attuned to the local climate. Many Americans also tend to wear technical outdoor gear, like down jackets and ski jackets, as everyday winter wear. However, this isn't the norm in most other countries, even in colder ones. More formal outerwear like wool, fur, or leather coats is the standard. If you already own one or are willing to purchase one, bring it along.
Blend In with the Locals. Pay attention to the colors people wear around you. In places like London, the predominant shades are black and other neutrals, while in tropical areas, brighter colors are more common. If you're in a European city like Paris or London, wearing black will help you blend in. Your neon green hoodie or bright red shirt might be trendy in your hometown, but it’s a dead giveaway in cities like Budapest. In warmer regions, locals might dress more formally than you'd expect, so avoid loud beachwear like bright board shorts and t-shirts. To get a sense of local fashion, check online travel forums or look at photos of the area. In Southeast Asia, opt for collared shirts over t-shirts for a more acceptable look.
Leave the baseball caps, backpacks, fanny packs, and water bottles at home. Baseball caps and fanny packs are classic American identifiers. Additionally, the word 'fanny' has an entirely different meaning in some cultures. Fanny packs are also impractical and often considered unsafe. Instead of carrying bags, try to keep your personal items in your pockets or on lanyards. A local purse or tote bag can also be a good option. If you're worried about sun exposure, opt for sunglasses instead of a cap.
Be mindful of your socks. In countries like Brazil, pairing shorts with black socks is a no-go. Locals tend to wear white socks that match their outfits, and they don't pull their socks up to their knees like football players. In many places, wearing socks with shorts is considered a fashion faux pas. If you're walking around in warmer weather, like in Spain, and still want to wear socks with your shorts, choose short socks that won't be visible above your shoes.
Skip the typical nylon cargo pants and travel shirts. While these may be practical and quick-drying, they're only suitable for outdoor activities like hiking or rafting. If you're sightseeing in a bustling city, locals may find your outfit laughable or even offensive. These garments are a surefire way to stand out. Thankfully, it's possible to find clothes with the same functional benefits, such as quick-drying nylon, in more stylish, subtle designs.
Match your swimwear to the locals. In many countries, it’s common for men to wear Speedos at the beach or in public pools. In places like France, men are legally required to wear Speedos in public swimming pools—swim shorts are prohibited. Also, in some countries, wearing a swimming cap is mandatory for both men and women.
Cuisine
Accept the condiments provided. Asking for typical American condiments like ketchup, salt, or pepper is a dead giveaway that you're a tourist. Embrace the local condiments and, if you're not a fan or need your American favorites, consider bringing your own small packets. It's better to carry your own rather than ask the restaurant to provide them.
Forget about the ice. In many places around the world, you'll find that drinks are served with little or no ice, a stark contrast to the ice-filled cups you're used to in the US. While you're of course welcome to request ice if that’s your preference and you're paying for the drink, asking for it can mark you as an American tourist. Plus, keep in mind that the tap water in some countries may not be as clean as what you're used to. Even if your drink is made with filtered or sterilized water, the ice might not be, which could lead to food poisoning.
Try the local dishes. Many American travelers stick to familiar US chain restaurants, but relying on places like McDonald's or Pizza Hut while abroad will make it clear you're an American. More importantly, you'll miss out on a great opportunity to dive into the local culture. Don't be afraid to try what the locals are eating—if they're eating it, it’s probably safe. Let your host or waiter suggest local specialties, and whatever you do, never spit out the food you're offered!
Adopt local dining etiquette.
- In Europe, the way you use a fork and knife is different from the US. If you're right-handed, hold the fork in your left hand and the knife in your right. Each bite is cut individually, with the knife in the right hand and the fork in the left. Rest your arms midway between wrist and elbow, keeping your elbows off the table. Avoid resting your arm between yourself and your plate, as it may be considered rude in some countries.
- In several Asian countries, using chopsticks is more common than using a knife and fork.
Order the way locals do. In some countries, for example, a salad might be served at the end of the meal, not at the beginning. In other places, what we consider a 'salad' in the US might not even be on the menu, or it might be prepared very differently.
Only request decaf if it's clearly listed on the menu.
Don't ask for a seat in the 'non-smoking' section unless you know one exists. In certain European countries, smoking indoors in public places is illegal, so there may not be a designated non-smoking area. If that’s the case, either accept the smoke or find a seat outside. Avoid making a scene.
Avoid eating while walking down the street; it's considered improper etiquette in many places.
Many restaurants offer English menus, but it's a good idea to learn how to politely ask for one in the local language.
Don't ask for tap water. It’s likely to earn you some disapproving glares. Accept that you'll be served mineral water, with or without carbonation, instead.
Etiquette
Keep your map hidden. Taking out and studying your map in a public place is considered a no-go. Familiarize yourself with it before leaving your accommodation, and if you must refer to it, find a less public spot like a store. Pre-fold the map so it's easy to pull out and read. The same applies to other items:
- If you need to use a dictionary to translate a sign or menu, do so discreetly. For example, write down the words and step aside to a quieter place to translate. Alternatively, jot down some essential words in a notebook that you can pull out easily during meals.
- For guidebooks, wrap them in a newspaper or book. You can even wrap the cover with brown paper before you leave home. Alternatively, tear out the pages relevant to your day’s itinerary and keep them bundled together.
- Avoid carrying American newspapers, magazines, or books in plain sight. Instead, pick up a local magazine or regional newspaper.
- Just like in the US, most tourist-friendly museums offer literature in multiple languages. Look for a UK flag instead of the American one on the materials.
Learn about the history, culture, and politics. Take time to research your destination online or through guidebooks. At a minimum, know which country you’re visiting, the language spoken, and the capital city. Familiarize yourself with the geography as well—confusing Copenhagen with a city in the Netherlands or thinking that Europe is a country will immediately mark you as a tourist.
Keep it quiet! Many Americans stand out for being louder than what's considered appropriate in many other cultures. Avoid large, exaggerated arm gestures and overly energetic behavior until you get a sense of the local norms. In many cultures outside the US, adults speak more softly in public places. It’s always safer to be a bit more reserved and quieter at first, rather than making a loud entrance and unintentionally making the wrong impression.
Don't show off or boast. If you start pulling things out of your bag in public to flaunt your recent purchases, it's as if you're shouting, 'Look at me! I have money, and I'm ready to spend it – unless you want to take it from me!'
Avoid commenting on the local culture and people. Even something as simple as saying, 'I absolutely love the scarves here!' will give you away as a tourist. And don't make the mistake of assuming people can't understand you just because you're speaking English. Many people across the world are fluent in both their native language and English.
Respect personal space. Not every country has as much 'space' as the US (unless you happen to be in New York City). When you're standing at a counter, avoid spreading your arms out. On a bus or train, be mindful of not stretching your legs into someone else's space. Also, be aware of physical contact—some places, like South Asia, have strict customs about not touching the head or feet. Don’t be alarmed if someone stands very close to you in line, and if you leave too much room, expect someone to step into the gap.
Limit chewing gum. Outside the US, it's not as common, and in some situations, it can be seen as bad manners.
Don't wear your camera around your neck. It's inevitable that you'll want to take photos while traveling, but wearing a camera strapped around your neck for convenience will immediately identify you as a tourist. If you can, store it in a pocket or bag and only pull it out when you're ready to snap a picture.
Make an effort to speak the local language. When visiting a country where a different language is spoken, why not show respect by learning a few basic phrases? Simple words like "Hello", "Please", and "Thank you" go a long way. Even if your accent isn't perfect, the effort you put into speaking the local language will be appreciated. While you're at it, learn how to order some of your favorite foods and, if necessary, how to politely decline others. It’ll make dining out a lot easier.
Don't just extend your hand for a handshake. In the West, a handshake is a standard greeting, but in places like Thailand, it’s reserved for business interactions with Westerners. Instead, try the wai—hands pressed together in prayer position in front of the chin with a slight bow. In India, shaking hands with the eldest or most important person is customary, but a handshake with women may not always be appropriate. Do some research on local customs and learn the proper way to greet people.
Understand the local manners and habits. In some countries, simply saying "excuse me," "I'm sorry," or "please" might instantly mark you as a tourist. Be sure to research local etiquette to avoid unintentionally standing out.
- Learn the essential phrases of the local language.
- Take your time. Life in many countries moves at a slower pace, so slow down to avoid rushing. This will not only help you make fewer mistakes but also reduce the chances of getting lost or making incorrect decisions.
- If you're traveling alone, particularly as a woman, it might help to carry the local newspaper under your arm or open it while traveling on public transport, such as buses or trains.
This advice comes from the experiences of fellow Mytour readers like you. If you have any tips or insights to share, feel free to submit them below.
- When asking a local for directions, information, or any questions, first acknowledge them with a warm smile, a friendly greeting, or a polite "Excuse me?" Wait for them to respond rather than launching directly into your inquiry.
- In many countries, including several in Europe and Japan, cash is the most common form of payment. Attempting to use a credit card is a clear sign of being a tourist, and many businesses may not accept cards. Be sure to research how to handle payments in advance.
- If visiting Chile, be cautious about wearing shirts featuring local sports teams. Chileans who do not support those teams may take offense.
Warnings
- Avoid wearing a fanny pack. Pickpockets can easily unzip it without you noticing and steal its contents.
- Do not give money directly to beggars or street children, as much of it goes to criminals who exploit them. If you feel compelled to help, seek out local charities instead.
- Keep your valuables close to your body, especially money, ID, and credit cards. Use inner pockets or those with zippers or buttons to secure them. These are more difficult for thieves to access unnoticed.
- Be cautious with backpacks. If you choose to carry one, be aware that thieves may distract you while an accomplice cuts open the bottom of your bag and takes your belongings.
- Don't be ashamed of your American identity. Take pride in your heritage, even if you choose to keep it discreet. Embrace the qualities you admire in others as well.
- In many Middle Eastern markets or bazaars, vendors may pretend not to speak English to discourage haggling. It's common to haggle, but if a seller types a price on a calculator or writes it down, it’s often best to walk away. Prices will usually drop if you do. If possible, have a local guide you on what’s considered reasonable during these negotiations.
- Keep your passport in a safe place, such as a hotel safe, unless local law requires you to carry it. Only take it with you when absolutely necessary, like when you're traveling. Carry a different form of ID for general identification purposes. If your passport is lost or stolen, retrieving a replacement from the nearest embassy can consume valuable time during your trip.
- Distribute your cash, credit cards, and other valuables in different places on your person. Don’t carry more than you're willing to lose in your wallet. Keep a small amount of cash easily accessible, and the rest hidden securely in a money belt or hidden pouch. If you're robbed, surrender your wallet without hesitation—resisting rarely ends well.
