How to Buy Condoms

You find yourself in the condom aisle, faced with countless options in the pharmacy. Your heart races as you try to choose quickly, hoping no one notices you’ve been standing there for 10 minutes. With so many sizes, types, colors, and scents, it’s hard to know where to start. But don’t worry, you’ve come to the right place! Keep reading to learn how to pick the right condom for your size and preferences—next time you visit the store, you'll be able to choose with confidence.

Decide which material works best for you. Condoms are made from different materials, each providing a unique sensation. It’s best to try a few types to find the one that feels the most comfortable for you. When used properly, all types are effective at preventing pregnancy, but some are better at preventing sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) than others.

• Latex condoms are the most common and affordable. They work well if used correctly, but if you or your partner have a latex allergy, you'll need to choose another type.
• Sheepskin condoms are an alternative for people allergic to latex and looking to avoid rubber. However, sheepskin condoms do not protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Only use this type if you’re in a monogamous relationship and both partners have been tested for STIs.
• Polyurethane (PU) condoms are thicker and stronger than latex, and they’re a good option for those with latex allergies. These condoms warm up to your body temperature, so it feels like you're not wearing anything at all. The downside is that they tend to be more expensive than latex condoms.
• Tactylon condoms stretch better than others and fit most shapes of the penis. Many people say they feel more snug than regular latex condoms. However, they can be harder to find and cost more than latex options.

Choose the Right Fit. Most condoms will fit an average-sized penis, which typically measures between 10 to 18 cm. Try a standard-sized condom and check how well it fits. If you can easily put it on and it stays in place, the standard size works for you. If it's too loose and slips off, try a smaller size. If it's too tight, causing discomfort or looking like it might tear, try a larger size. Testing different sizes is the best way to find the right fit. You can look up condom sizes online or on specialty websites.

• The shape of the condom can also affect the fit. Different brands create condoms with slightly different shapes, so it’s best to try a few to find the one that matches your penis shape. Generally, any condom shape will fit, but the one that feels the most natural and comfortable is the best choice.
• If you’re buying condoms for someone else, the standard size is the safest bet. If you know they usually prefer a larger or smaller size, you can buy a few of each to have on hand.
• The size of the condom plays a crucial role in its effectiveness. If it's too large, it could slip off during intercourse; if it's too small, it might tear. If the condom is too short to fully cover the penis, fluids might transfer to your partner. Any of these scenarios reduce the effectiveness of the condom.
  
  Size:
  
  1. To measure your size correctly, make sure the penis is erect (as a flaccid penis won’t give an accurate measurement).
  
  2. Use a regular ruler or measuring tape. Place the end of the tape at the base of the penis (where it connects to the body - press the tape down into the pubic bone as much as possible to avoid fat covering the true length).
  
  3. To measure the circumference, use a string or a flexible measuring tape. Gently wrap the string around the widest part of the erect penis (ensure it's standing fully erect).
  
  Size Guide:
  
  USA:
  Small condoms
  Length: 7.5 cm - 16.5 cm
  Circumference: 10.4 cm - 12 cm
  Example: Any condom labeled as small.
  
  Standard condoms
  Length: 10.5 cm - 17.7 cm
  Circumference: 11.2 cm - 12.7 cm
  Example: Any condom without a specific size label.
  
  Large condoms
  Length: 10.2 cm - 20.3 cm
  Circumference: 12 cm - 1 cm
  Example: Any condom labeled as large.
  
  Extra-large condoms
  Length: 10.2 cm - 22.9 cm
  Fits Girth: 12.5 cm - 14.3 cm
  Example: Any condom labeled as extra-large or XL.
  
  (According to FDA regulations, condoms sold in the USA must have a width between 47mm and 57mm when unrolled. Therefore, condoms for people with a girth smaller than 10.4 cm or larger than 14.3 cm are not sold in the US.)
  
  Europe:
  Condoms in Europe must display both length and width on the packaging. Start by choosing one with the correct width, then make sure the length also fits. To calculate the exact width, multiply the circumference by 0.42 and look for a condom with a width +/- 2mm from the result.

Consider Female Condoms. While female condoms aren’t as common as male ones, they can still be an excellent option for couples. A female condom is inserted inside the vagina and covers part of the outer labia, providing effective protection against both pregnancy and STDs.

• Female condoms can be inserted up to 8 hours before sexual activity. This makes them a great choice for people who don’t want to interrupt the fun to put on a condom.
• Made from polyurethane, female condoms feel more natural compared to latex, just like male condoms made from the same material.

Decide whether you need lubricated condoms. Some condoms come pre-lubricated, which makes them easier to put on and more comfortable during intercourse by reducing friction, enhancing pleasure, and preventing breakage. Buying pre-lubricated condoms is convenient, but some people prefer to purchase lubricant separately. If you go this route, make sure you're aware of which lubricants work best with which types of condoms.

• Water-based or silicone-based lubricants are compatible with all types of condoms.
• Oil-based lubricants should only be used with condoms made from polyurethane and tactylon. Avoid using baby oil, mineral oil, petroleum jelly, or any other oil-based lubricants with latex or sheep skin condoms.
• If you want extra protection, consider condoms that come with spermicide. These condoms kill a significant number of sperm when ejaculation occurs. If you're worried about condom breakage, these can provide added safety. However, be aware that spermicidal lubricants may sometimes cause irritation, burning, or urinary tract infections.

Decide on the surface texture of the condom. Some people prefer a smooth condom that feels like nothing at all, while others enjoy condoms with ribs or studs for added sensation. Both options are equally effective, so feel free to choose based on your personal preference.

• If you're buying a condom for your first time with someone, it's best to go with a standard, smooth condom without any ribs or studs. Once you know your partner's preferences, you can try other types.

Consider the sensitivity level that suits you. Some condoms are labeled as 'extra sensitive' or 'ultra sensitive,' designed to be ultra-thin to provide the most natural feeling, almost like you're not wearing anything at all. Other people prefer to feel the condom during intercourse, as it gives them peace of mind that it stays in place. Both types are equally effective at preventing pregnancy and STDs.

Choose the right color and scent for your condom. Most regular condoms are colorless, blending in with your skin tone when used. If you want to spice things up, you can choose condoms in various colors like purple, orange, bright pink, blue, black, and many more. Some condoms even come with scents like cinnamon, mint, and cherry for an added fun factor.

Buy at a pharmacy. Pharmacies offer a wide range of condoms for you to choose from. Once you know which type, size, and style you prefer, you can confidently purchase condoms at any pharmacy without any hesitation.

Purchase online. This option is especially useful if you're shy about buying condoms in person at a pharmacy or supermarket. Online, you'll often receive professional advice if you need help, and your order will be discreetly packaged to avoid any embarrassment.

Buy in bulk. Purchasing individual condom packs can be more expensive compared to buying in bulk. Once you know your preferences, you can buy large boxes online, often containing 30 or more condoms at a better price.

Always check the expiration date. Condoms have an expiration date, so it's important to check the one you've purchased to ensure it's still safe to use.

• Always keep two condoms on hand. Sometimes, one may tear, or you might need more than one for multiple rounds.
• When checking condom sizes, prioritize the girth over the length. It's better for the condom to be a little loose at the base than to worry about it slipping off during the action.

• Always check the expiration date of the condom before purchasing.
• If you're using a condom without lubrication and plan to use your own, make sure the lubricant is compatible with the condom's material. Never use oil-based lubricants with latex condoms.