Gala events are usually formal occasions, often organized to raise funds for charity or to celebrate other significant milestones. Both women and men are invited to these events and should choose their most elegant attire due to the strict social etiquette associated with such gatherings.
Steps
For Women

Enhance Your Charm. A flared evening gown paired with sparkling accessories is an ideal choice for a gala, even if it’s different from your usual style. Selecting formal attire shows your respect for the host, the other guests, and the event itself. This is your opportunity to wear your finest formal wear.

Try a ball gown or cocktail dress, but don't be afraid to explore other styles as well. Typically, a ball gown is floor-length, though it can sometimes feature an asymmetrical skirt or a bold slit. Cocktail dresses are generally shorter, typically above the knee. Although a ball gown is traditionally the go-to choice, today cocktail dresses are also widely accepted. In fact, there isn't much difference when selecting between these two types of dresses.
- If Ellen Degeneres didn’t wear a dress to the Oscars, you don’t have to either! While a glamorous gown is the usual choice for women, there are plenty of other options. You may want to consider bold choices, as they can make a statement at the gala.
- Try a men's-inspired look, like the suit Ellen Degeneres wore to the 2014 Oscars, a women's tuxedo, or a stylish pairing of trousers and a blouse. Just ensure that your outfit is formal and leaves a sharp impression.

Choose a pair of high heels. The ideal choice is stilettos (heels over 5 cm with thin, metallic heels), open-toed shoes, or some types of strapped heels. Avoid shoes with thick, bulky soles like clogs. Ensure the color of your shoes complements the color of your dress. You don’t need to match them exactly, but they should coordinate well.
- If unsure, opt for black shoes.
- To make your outfit stand out, consider shoes with a sparkling pattern.
- Shiny shoes are generally a good match for a gala event.
- Avoid wedge, cork, or wooden heels. Also, boots are not suitable for a gala.
- Flat shoes can be difficult to walk in without stepping on the hem of a long gown. Consider opting for high heels or a shorter dress instead.
- If you can't or don’t want to wear high heels, luxurious flats with accessories are a good alternative. The sales staff at women's shoe stores can offer helpful suggestions.
- If your date is a man, don't overshadow him. If you're taller than him, opt for shoes with lower heels or flats.

Add some sparkle with accessories.
- If your dress already features some sparkle, opt for simpler accessories. Choose long earrings with a minimalist design. Pair a necklace and bracelet that complement the glitter level of your dress without clashing.
- Jewelry should also be fashionable. Timeless pieces like pearl necklaces, diamond earrings, or gold bracelets are classic choices for women.
- Costume jewelry can be suitable for a gala, as long as it’s finely crafted. For example, an amethyst necklace might be mistaken for a real diamond necklace but still adds an elegant sparkle to your gown.

Carry a clutch purse. A clutch is a formal handbag style. Large handbags or “mommy bags” are considered too casual. Choose a clutch that matches the color of your dress or shoes. Another option is a small purse with a delicate strap.

Style your hair. Seek out a professional hairstylist to create an elegant look for you.
- If you'd like to save money and style your hair at home, use a flat iron to achieve a sleek, straight look.
- Another option is to use a curling iron and styling products to create voluminous curls that will last throughout the evening.

Opt for an alluring makeup look for the evening. When attending a gala, you’ll likely need to go for a more extravagant makeup style than usual. This is because the lighting is typically dim and galas are often held in the evening, so your makeup needs to be more intense than when you’re heading to school or work.
- Make sure your foundation and blush have a natural look.
- Use eyeliner and mascara to highlight your eyes and lashes. Go for a dramatic eye makeup with smoky tones. To complement this style, choose a neutral gloss, but be sure to select a color that suits your skin tone.
- Apply a bit of eyeshadow and accentuate your lips with a bold red or brick-red lipstick to enhance your complexion. For darker lipsticks, it’s best to outline your lips first to prevent smudging.
- If you prefer a more minimal makeup look but still want to look polished, try a soft gloss and a thin layer of foundation (powder or cream products work fine). This look doesn’t take much time and gives you a fresh appearance without needing heavy makeup.
For men

Choose a high-quality tuxedo. Make sure your tuxedo is of premium quality. A black, dark blue, or gray suit is also a fitting choice.

Picking the right blazer is essential. Whether you opt for a tuxedo or another elegant suit, you must wear a blazer. Black or dark blue blazers are a solid choice unless otherwise specified in the invitation, and you can go for a single-breasted or double-breasted design. You may remove the blazer later in the evening, but a formal jacket is crucial for the gala.

Select trousers that match your blazer. Your trousers should be made from the same fabric and color as your blazer.

Choose a white dress shirt. If you're wearing a tuxedo, it’s essential to pair it with a dress shirt specifically designed for tuxedos. When renting a tuxedo, the shirt will typically be included in the package.

Pick a collar accessory. A bow tie is a classic and widely accepted accessory for both gala events and other formal occasions. A black long tie is also a good option if made from quality fabric. Some collar accessories, like a cravat (a small scarf tucked under the collar, not fastened), a bolo tie (a tie around the collar fastened with a clasp), and similar items, may or may not be suitable for the event depending on where you live.

Only choose black shoes. Opt for shoes made from glossy leather or well-polished leather. Modern styles like Converse sneakers are not suitable for formal galas.

Maintain a neat appearance.
- Make sure your hair is washed and neatly styled before the event.
- Trim your nails, both on your hands and feet, before the gala. At the very least, tidy up your fingernails so they look clean and well-kept.
Tips
- Generally, don't wait until the night of the event to make changes to your appearance. For example, try out your makeup a week before the party to ensure that the foundation doesn't cause any irritation to your skin. You should also make sure that your dress fits properly.
- While most galas are formal, there are also semi-formal or casual events. Don’t hesitate to ask the host about the dress code – this way, you can save time and money and avoid awkward situations.
- For semi-formal galas, women should opt for a cocktail dress. (Black is classic, but it's not the only choice). Men should wear a suit, but a tuxedo is not necessary.
- If you need to save money, consider renting a gown or tuxedo rather than purchasing one.
- Women should choose shoes with a heel height that they can comfortably walk in. High heels are impressive, but they can be embarrassing if you trip during the event because you can’t walk properly in them.
- Choose your attire based on what you like, but it should still be appealing. The suggestions in this article are just for your reference. If you don’t like a black cocktail dress or prefer high heels, bold makeup, and sparkly attire, don’t let others influence your choices.
- Try a light tanning spray a few days before the event to even out your skin tone, especially if you're wearing a dress that shows off your skin.
Things You’ll Need
- Evening Gown
- High Heels
- Jewelry
- Clutch Bag
- Cosmetics
- Tuxedo
- Your own judgment in case you need to disregard advice from others about what to avoid when choosing your outfit, especially if you want to wear those specific pieces.
