How to Date an Aquarius Woman

Aquarius women are full of contradictions. Trying to understand them is like trying to tie the wind with a rope. They can be inconsistent and elusive. There are two types of Aquarius women: one is shy, sensitive, gentle, and patient, while the other is free-spirited, lively, and extravagant. If you want to date an Aquarius woman, read on for some insights on how to understand them.

Trust and Appreciate Their Open-Minded Nature. Aquarius women are diverse; they can be wild, eccentric, unusual, and even a bit quirky. Use this knowledge wisely. Aquarius women want love, but not the stereotypical kind you see in Hollywood films.

• Do something unexpected. Relax and sometimes do something unusual but acceptable, encouraging her to join in. Ensure your dates are not too traditional, or she will quickly lose interest.
• Don’t waste time with excessive praise. Aquarius women often have an “I-don’t-care” mentality and won’t need societal approval. Compliment her in a unique way, and leave it at that – this shows you’ve genuinely paid attention to her.

Stimulate all the senses. Aquarius women crave continuous stimulation for all their senses, though not all at once. She will want to do things in unusual ways to make each of her senses light up with every step. Here are some date ideas to try:

• Take her to a contemporary art museum, the more unusual, the better. A glassblowing exhibit is a great idea. This will stimulate her visual senses.
• Take her to a Sichuan restaurant, or try Israeli street food or Caribbean jerk chicken. These are flavors that will excite her taste buds.
• Invite her to a concert of a unique genre. It could be Vietnamese folk music, or some hardcore underground rock. Classical music might not be her thing.

Don’t try to bind her. Aquarius women value their freedom. She doesn't want to be tied down by domestic issues or family matters, especially early in a relationship, so don’t bring up topics like children or a perfect marriage just yet. Focus on being spontaneous and relaxed with her during this time.

• Take things slow in the early stages of the relationship. Moving too fast is risky and will make her anxious. Also, don’t cling too much. Don’t let her see you’re placing all your hopes and dreams on her, even if that’s the truth. She doesn’t want to feel controlled.

Prepare for her unpredictable nature. It's not unusual if she says one thing and does another, as she is constantly exploring, experimenting, and collecting new information. Be ready for this. Despite being knowledgeable, Aquarius women are also very lively, and she will hop from one thing to another without a care for direction.

• Aquarius women are excellent communicators and love being around people. Meeting new and interesting people is a favorite pastime, so let her enjoy doing what she loves.
• Don’t be surprised if you see her hanging out with other guys. Aquarius women are emotionally distant until they truly fall in love, so in some cases, it may seem like she’s paying too much attention to other men. Let go of any jealousy, as it won’t help your relationship.

Give the flirting stage time to develop. Aquarius is an air sign, but that doesn’t mean they’re a whirlwind. What it means is that you need to flirt with her slowly in the early stages. Aquarius can form attachments, but they need to be sure first. Don’t expect to win her over in a week. It will take time for her to let you into her circle, but once you reach that stage, you’ll have the key to her heart for a while.

Challenge her, but don't stubbornly argue with her. Aquarius women are naturally intelligent and enjoy listening to new perspectives and testing their logic. As mentioned, they are extremely stubborn. Changing their opinions is not easy, so be prepared to step back in a debate, even if you know you're right.

Don’t derail her ambitions. With grand ideas, she can pursue status and power. This sets her apart from other signs. Be the support for her ambitions; it will be her mental creation for a long time to come.

• Aquarius women tend to not view women as inferior to men. In a relationship, never suggest that women should be submissive to men – that would make her furious.
• Don’t expect her to conform to the typical housewife role. If you believe this, she’ll surprise you. While full of love and loyalty, Aquarius women don’t see domestic duties as mandatory and despise any expectations placed upon them regarding it.
• Aquarius women have big ideas that could turn into reality, but sometimes they need help with the details. Their ideas are massive, but they don’t always focus on practicalities. That’s where you can step in, if she allows it.

Don’t be surprised if she talks about her ex or other male friends. For Aquarius women, love is a quality to cherish and honor, not to possess or feel jealous of. She will mention her ex or male friends and expect you to treat them with respect, just as she does, even if they seem like a "threat" to you. Learn to trust the unconditional love she has for you, even if her way of showing it isn’t what you expect.

• She won’t think about marriage unless you’re already close friends. To her, friendship ranks very high, almost equal to love. She believes, "Lovers come and go, but friendship is eternal." So focus on being friends first before the relationship evolves into love.

Spice things up, even in the bedroom. Aquarius will leave a relationship if it becomes too monotonous. If every day starts and ends the same, she’ll feel something’s off. So, learn to mix things up a bit. If she feels you’re the type of person to walk a tightrope across skyscrapers, she’ll stick with you for the adventure.

• She’s not afraid to try new things in bed. She enjoys pushing boundaries, from positions to scenarios, even trying some daring outdoor encounters (but still discreet) might be just what she craves.

Know which signs she’s compatible with. Aquarius is particularly compatible with Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius, and Aries.

• With Libra: This relationship is lively and fun. Both are intellectual, low-stress, and can have a lasting bond.
• With Gemini: This relationship will send Aquarius on an emotional rollercoaster – soaring to the clouds and then back down in an instant, but in a positive, thrilling way. Aquarius can’t resist the charm of Gemini and will love them unconditionally.
• With Leo: This relationship is worth the effort, and once both are on the same page, nothing can break them apart. When they first meet, they sense the magic in the air, and after a few disagreements, they realize just how loyal they are to each other. These two extremes create a relationship that’s fun and lasting.
• With Sagittarius: This relationship is passionate. Sagittarius needs more personal space than Aquarius, which will make her feel free. This unconventional pair is bound to succeed.
• With Aries: This relationship is sensual. Though it may be brief, Aquarius will love Aries’ independence, and Aries will stimulate her intellect with their straightforwardness.